Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake, wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting, weeping and most of all, laughing. All welcome (Part5)

[PrettyVacant1]

Open to all,join us in this corner to support each other,POAS, temp check and reach our BFP goal.
(Fish slapping optional.)

sorry - BY a very excited dog. not be. A haddock turning into a dog. Interesting notion....

OK - I think we've all lost a day somewhere over the weekend so am having another go at re-doing the list now am back on laptop. Hope I've got all the updates, huge apologies if I've missed anything or anybody...

TUESDAYS LIST

StarflowerGirl TTC#1 cycle 2 UCL 28 CD35
Appleblossoms TTC#2 cycle 2 UCL 30-34 CD 34
Jamface TTC#2 cycle 2 (post MC#2), UCL 27 - 40 CD 33
Honeywitch TTC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 28, CD31
pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 1, UCL 30? CD30
Pinkie08 TTC#3 cycle 2 UCL 28 CD29
choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 1 UCL 27 CD26
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL29 CD26
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 2 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD24
Lottiecrump UCL 27/28 CD22
Curlylox TTC#3 UCL 24-28 cycle 7 CD22
cheepz TTC#2 cycle 2 (round 4) UCL28 CD20
Littlemiss72 TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC#2) UCL 28 CD 18
Freezingmyarseoff TTC#2 cycle 3 UCL28 CD16
pippaandpolly
delilahbelle TTC#1 cycle 2 UCL28 CD15
LadyBee TTC#2, cycle 1 (round 3) UCL27 CD13
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, (round 3) cycle 1 UCL 30 CD12
digitalgirl TTC#2 Cycle 3 UCL41 CD11
PrettyVacant1 TTC#1 Cycle 4(round 7)UCL 28-30 CD10
hairytriangle (Ectopic 2010), TTC#1, Cycle 11, UCL 29, CD10
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 1 UCL28 CD8
sunchild77 TTC#3 cycle 3, UCL 26-28, CD6
barrenbrook TTC#1 cycle 4 (post MC#3) UCL 28 CD6
kat2504 TTC#1 cycle 1 (post mc) CD4
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 17 UCL24-9 CD2
youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 2 UCL31-38 CD1
velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 2 UCL 30, CD1

WTTC
CaribouMoo TTC #2, MC#2 conf Jul 29
getawiggleon TTC#2, MC#1 conf 1st Aug, UCL 26
Jollster TTC #2, MC3 conf 16th Aug
Nickstermum TTC #2 MC August
MummyAbroad TTC #2, MC#1 conf 31 Mar
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, MC 17th Aug
Shitforbrains TTC#3, MC 1st Sep
Sarahmia TTC#2, MC2

RECENT GRADUATES
BUnderthebonnet BFP 20 June
Muser BFP 22 June
northerngoldilocks - BFP 12 July
Magic8ballhastheanswers BFP 14 July
Hopefully BFP 22 July
IvySedai BFP 1 August
PenguinsMummy BFP 15th August
batteryhen BFP 18 August
VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August

mummy abroad hope you are shagging with SERIOUS intent! 4 x per day nothing less hey knitter??

dachs sending you eggy thoughts

fab your follies look good

Please also dont think i am being rude or thoughtless either..... would love to namecheck everyone, but......!

Ah well hopefully a few of us/all of us wont be on here for much longer.

velvet Pants! glad your RT'F'D arrived iyswim, nice to have a base to start from. Now hurry up mine!!

thanks nickstermum

just had a small miracle. It's MIL's birthday today and we were supposed to be celebrating at the weekend (ie. DH and I would go round and cook for everyone...). I thought, since there's a high possibility that the IUI will be at the weekend, that I'd better warn her that we might not be able to make it. For anyone who's read all the part 4 posts, you'll know that MIL is not exactly a reasonable human being and this would usually send her into an outrageous sulk, more often seen in toddlers than grown women. But now I think I need a haddocking. I am in shock. She said 'Oh, wow! You really mustn't worry or stress, it's far more important than my birthday'. So I guess she's taken on board what DH said to her when she was talking all the crap about the conservatory being more important than a baby. Seriously in shock now.

caribou glad you are feeling so much more positive today. It helps to get it all out. You obviously needed to. Sod the public display....! I have yet to go into my head office when my very pregnant friend/workcolleague will be there. Been avoiding her, isnt that awful? I dont resent her, but it was unplanned and unwanted and i just dont think i can be around her right now!

PS - yes avoid marley and me - great film but not if you like dogs or have miscarried. Have you read My sisters keeper? The film trounced the book... was gutted even tho i sobbed, and sobbed. The ending was so, so WRONG!!!

nickster maybe you should try velvet's trick and wear tightie whities! hope AF arrives soon so you can carry on TTC

OK last one before i go to bed, (thank god you all cry!) starting to feel different down below WOOHOO! Think the twitch might be coming back... hope that feels like things are normalising.

mamap dont forget my lesson,

Dachs ^TMI^^ GOT THEM ON ALREADY!

Had total and utter melt down today!! I have the most insensitive friend (and I now use the term 'friend' very [excuse my french] f'ing lightly). The day after I had my first mc, she sent me a text saying 'How are you, we're just off for our IVF apt'! Now she knew what had happened and to me it read 'sorry you lost yours, we're just off to make ours'! Anyway, this is her second round of IVF the first being a success and they have beautiful toddler now and are going for number 2. And I wish them all the luck in the world and if and when I get the text to say that they've succeeded i will be thrilled BUT, why oh why, has she felt the need, to send me a message, every day for the last 5 days, giving me progress updates on the state of play with eggs and retrieval and fertilisation etc etc etc, the final straw this afternoon was the detail of the number and quality of embrio's etc etc etc and probably by tomorrow she'll be upduffed!! I'm sorry I know this sounds like the rantings of mad selfish woman but Really????? If you were my friend knowing I'd had 2 mc's wouldn't you spare me the graphic details??
Anyway I went to friends cried like an idiot for an hour then went to pub (didn't go mad glass of wine and G&T)!! Some people are so self involved and thoughtless!!

Really sorry to unleash that here, but I do feel better for getting it off my chest!

Think I'm just gonna hide under my duvet for a day or two! Nicks promise when I've got my self together will get back to you :) x

Hello all, just a quick hello since I should already be asleep!! Thanks all for your lovely messages of support and hugs and chocolate, I am feeling a lot more positive today, mainly because I have decided to distract myself with looking for a nice holiday in the sun in October instead! Feel like we deserve one after the totally shite summer we had with the MC....

Have updated the list:

TUESDAYS LIST

StarflowerGirl TTC#1 cycle 2 UCL 28 CD35
Appleblossoms TTC#2 cycle 2 UCL 30-34 CD 34
Jamface TTC#2 cycle 2 (post MC#2), UCL 27 - 40 CD 33
Honeywitch TTC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 28, CD31
Pinkie08 TTC#3 cycle 2 UCL 28 CD29
choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 1 UCL 27 CD26
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL29 CD26
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 2 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD24
Lottiecrump UCL 27/28 CD22
Curlylox TTC#3 UCL 24-28 cycle 7 CD22
cheepz TTC#2 cycle 2 (round 4) UCL28 CD20
Littlemiss72 TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC#2) UCL 28 CD 18
Freezingmyarseoff TTC#2 cycle 3 UCL28 CD16
pippaandpolly
delilahbelle TTC#1 cycle 2 UCL28 CD15
LadyBee TTC#2, cycle 1 (round 3) UCL27 CD13
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, (round 3) cycle 1 UCL 30 CD12
digitalgirl TTC#2 Cycle 3 UCL41 CD11
PrettyVacant1 TTC#1 Cycle 4(round 7)UCL 28-30 CD10
hairytriangle (Ectopic 2010), TTC#1, Cycle 11, UCL 29, CD10
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 1 UCL28 CD8
sunchild77 TTC#3 cycle 3, UCL 26-28, CD6
barrenbrook TTC#1 cycle 4 (post MC#3) UCL 28 CD6
kat2504 TTC#1 cycle 1 (post mc) CD4
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 17 UCL24-9 CD2
pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 2, UCL 29 CD2
youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 2 UCL31-38 CD1
velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 2 UCL 30, CD1

WTTC
CaribouMoo TTC #2, MC#2 conf Jul 29
getawiggleon TTC#2, MC#1 conf 1st Aug, UCL 26
Jollster TTC #2, MC3 conf 16th Aug
Nickstermum TTC #2 MC August
MummyAbroad TTC #2, MC#1 conf 31 Mar
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, MC 17th Aug
Shitforbrains TTC#3, MC 1st Sep
Sarahmia TTC#2, MC2

RECENT GRADUATES
BUnderthebonnet BFP 20 June
Muser BFP 22 June
northerngoldilocks - BFP 12 July
Magic8ballhastheanswers BFP 14 July
Hopefully BFP 22 July
IvySedai BFP 1 August
PenguinsMummy BFP 15th August
batteryhen BFP 18 August
VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August

Sorry don't have time to namecheck - spent 1 dday away and things have gone crazy on here again! Really excited about dachs follicles though and nicksters hopefully imminent AF!

I have decided that if the guy at work tomorrow puts his scan picture up as his screensaver, I'm going to put a screenshot of the miscarriage association website up as mine, and see if anyone takes the hint..... As one of you sensible ladies said though, his happiness doesn't take away my chance of being in his shoes in future - fingers crossed we'll all be the smug ones in the very near future.

Night all, love you all lots, thanks for being so great xx

mamapower (((((hugs))))) Why are some people so insensitive?! . As I've said before my dsis had her 2nd MC a few weeks ago (after several years of trying for #1 and 1 round of IVF). Her best friend is aware of this but persists in sending text updates daily of her own successful PG, swollen ankles, mat leave et al (baby arrived yesterday I believe). dsis is very close to her best friend and really pleased for her, but it does seem like rubbing salt in the wound. I know how upset it has made her so I see where you're coming from and I don't understand why people don't realise that this might be upsetting to someone who would love to be in their position but has recently lost a baby.

I hope the wine/g&t numbed the pain a bit and that you have a better day tomorrow x

pff mmmm, holiday sounds a lovely idea, lucky you!

Wow, dont quite know what to say except your "friend" sounds like a bitch. Or very very stupid.

Do you feel strong enough to tell her to back off? You really dont need that kind of stress on a daily basis, this is your time to heal and recover and she is making that very hard.

How about texting her with

"I am finding it very hard to get over the loss of my babies, and hearing your news about IVF is really upsetting me. I know you are looking for someone to support you through the process but right now I am not up to it, I just need a break from hearing about babies, I hope you can understand."

Or alternatively can you ask someone else to have a quiet word with her? She obviously doesnt realise the harm she is doing. (how can anyone be so clueless??)

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Hey mamap forget the lesson!!

BIG HUGS

velvet, my cycle buddy! Sorry your year nines were shits. Are you ok thopugh? As you say I am quite delighted that it's just bothered turning up at all!

nickster Is the ending to My Sisters Keeper the same as the book? I really like the book.

mummyabroad I have a mental note now to come to you whenever I need something putting eloquently( I am V bad at this), that text message reads well!

mamap sorry your pal is being very insensitive, obviously she's happy, but it's not that hard to see that we aren't, surely.

PFF where you going to go?

daschs i am at MIL. Is she the same MIL you had last month? No body snatchers or reports of Aliens or UFO's near you?!

Morning lovelies :)

MamaP that's not really what you need, is it. Perhaps she considers you a partner in crime when it comes to fertility ishoos, but still. Perhaps you should start sending her daily updates on the state of your cervix in retaliation, she might get the message then

PFF Holiday in October sounds like an excellent plan; I'm trying to sort out the same. Perhaps in southern spain, I have a hankering for rioja and tapas :)

Dachs good lord above, YRMOTB must be right - this is the work of alien body snatchers. Yikes. Good luck with the follicular happenings.

mamapower crossed posts last night. Your 'friend' is a nob. She needs to pack in the texts now because the last thing you need is her whinging on a daily basis about all her pg aches and pains etc etc. Is your dp close to her dp? Maybe they can have a man to man chat about how your friend is being less than supportive of your situation. I guess the problem is that becoming pg has become for her as all consuming as it is for us, and so she doesn't realise what impact what she's saying has on anyone else. Big hug for you.

dachs is your dog better? velvet sorry yest was shite, hope today is better. Sorry for selective name check, just going on what I can remember as phone loads v slowly!!

Hope everyone is doing ok today!

bloody hard work all this baby making isnt it??! Its a bit of a shock after the huge long postbaby-pregnantagain-mc dry spell I have just been through.

Happy Holiday hunting Velvet!!. Dont come to Costa Rica in October, its a mad mad rainy season this year and Oct is the worse.

glad the drought is over Mummya hope you not left your undies all over the place. Get that costa rican coffee on and get back to bed, rest up for when he gets home

Hi everyone,

Would you mind if I joined you? I am currently in wtf cycle since my mc (mc#1 ttc#3) on 6th August, and have been lurking for a little while.

MummyAbroad, you've given me advice on a few of my op's - really helpful thank you! had a giggle at the image of the flushed/bedhair/backwards t-shirt combo!

I feel like shit. Just recovered from ERPC and then yesterday I got hit with the chundering bug.

Great for weight loss but I feel wretched and am I right whingy cow right now.

Just wanted to share that with you all.