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What's your 13/14yo's "main" present this year?

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lucysmam · 02/11/2023 12:00

I'm looking for a flash of inspiration better than a taller bookshelf for her ever-expanding, double stacked, collection of books.

She's asked for piercings for her birthday on 28th December but doesn't look after jewellery very well so that's not really a consideration (currently mourned loss are a pair of ghosts that are at least an inch tall and 3/4 inch wide, so not exactly small!).

Almost 17yo dd1 has picked a vinyl player & limited edition Taylor Swift vinyl - she's wanted these for a while but I've waited until I knew she'd take care of it.

Anyway, all that to ask what your dc of a similar age will receive this year? Maybe it'll give me a lightbulb moment!

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soleroonic · 02/11/2023 18:31

13yo boy - main present (from family chipping in) is meta quest 3 VR set.

YouJustDoYou · 02/11/2023 18:33

AreTheyOrArentThey · 02/11/2023 12:30

We got tickets to see Spirited Away onstage which were extortionate so that’s the main present for our 15&11yo (will make a full Japanese day in London of it) so aside from that just stockings

Oh wow, I'm massively jealous!! The price was eyewatering but sadly couldn't get the tickets we wanted 😓Looks phenomenal, hope you all enjoy it!

Mamofteenager · 02/11/2023 18:35

lucysmam · 02/11/2023 12:00

I'm looking for a flash of inspiration better than a taller bookshelf for her ever-expanding, double stacked, collection of books.

She's asked for piercings for her birthday on 28th December but doesn't look after jewellery very well so that's not really a consideration (currently mourned loss are a pair of ghosts that are at least an inch tall and 3/4 inch wide, so not exactly small!).

Almost 17yo dd1 has picked a vinyl player & limited edition Taylor Swift vinyl - she's wanted these for a while but I've waited until I knew she'd take care of it.

Anyway, all that to ask what your dc of a similar age will receive this year? Maybe it'll give me a lightbulb moment!

If she enjoys reading what about a kindle? Depending on the authors she likes maybe see if they are doing a book signing somewhere and arrange a day out.

maw29 · 02/11/2023 18:38

She's told you what she wants!

lucysmam · 02/11/2023 18:40

Ooh @ChimneyPot they're wonderful, thank you so much for the link. I'll order one when I've been in the shower & she's not likely to come down for a while.

Tickets to a show are a no-go - only because she wants to see Adele if she tours soon ish & I expect her tickets will be as £££ as Taylor Swift were for dd1.

Although both are keen on Hamilton 🤔

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lucysmam · 02/11/2023 18:47

@maw29 would you really, as a (very nearly) 14yo, have been wowed by a bookshelf for Christmas?

She had a desk chair once - she saw the wrapped parcel & asked why she had an ironing board!

She'll get the shelf, but not as a present.

@Mamofteenager maybe - it would certainly save space 🤣 I'll try and find out how she feels about them, and have a look to see what's available. She quite likes worn in, second hand books which is partly why I never say no - they're dirt cheap & she can have 2/3 on the go at once, and I don't mind a pound or two spent if she decides she doesn't like one enough to finish it.

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AceofPentacles · 02/11/2023 19:01

My 13yo either wants or is getting

New gaming chair
Greggs gift card
Keyboard and mouse
Chocolate
Money

jesshomeEd · 02/11/2023 19:08

A bike and an air up bottle

TokyoSushi · 02/11/2023 19:14

ChimneyPot · 02/11/2023 18:27

OP you mention books.
When my book lover was 14 she got a personalised embosser and loved it as she hates to even write her name on a book.

https://irishwaxseals.ie/bookembosser.html

Oh that is lovely!

35and3 · 02/11/2023 19:24

My 13yo has asked for various expensive skincare products mainly. Her surprise is tickets to see Mean Girls in London next summer

JollyJasper · 02/11/2023 19:31

hi, for those buying white fox hoodies can I ask what size you’re going for with 13 year olds? My daughter is just 12 so don’t know if even a xs will be too big xx

midlifemelancholy · 02/11/2023 19:42

Z

villagelife1992 · 02/11/2023 19:48

I've got an XS wild Fox hoodie. It was the smallest size they did so hoping it fits.

pacificoceanwhale · 02/11/2023 21:14

ItStillLooksLikeRainDear · 02/11/2023 13:32

I’m making my DD a hair care hamper. So far I have:
hairdryer (primark)
hair curler (primark)
straighteners (free with boots points)
nice shampoo & conditioner
dry shampoo
heat protection spray
brush
bobbles
hair grips…

This is a fantastic idea!

TheMousePipes · 02/11/2023 21:25

We’re also off to see Spirited Away as dd’s main Christmas present! Supplemented with some bits and bobs for her hobbies, some new makeup, books and vinyl.

99cats · 02/11/2023 21:38

One of the shark hairdryers with all the attachments
airpods
anything fluffy for bedroom: throw, cushions, slippers hot water bottle
led lights for bedroom
converse
waffle or candy floss maker
gucci perfume
(ideas from previous years)

CoffeeChocolateWine · 02/11/2023 21:47

@ChimneyPot, I'm in love with those book embossers 😍 I want one for me! But also might get one for my younger DD ( who loves books a lot more than teen DS!)

Vettrianofan · 02/11/2023 21:48

Warhammer figure.

MentalLoadOverload · 02/11/2023 22:10

My DD is redecorating her room and will be thrilled with any furniture of her choice so a bookshelf isn’t necessarily a bad idea - depends on how into decor they are.

reallydontlikeit · 02/11/2023 22:15

DS 14 is getting new golf clubs. I can't believe the price of them!

EllaPaella · 02/11/2023 22:44

13 year old DS is getting a Dope snowboarding jacket, salopettes and beanie as his main present.

cuthbertthecat · 03/11/2023 06:07

New phones as their 'big' present but they are due upgrades so it doesn't feel like a present because I'm not really paying anything more iyswim.....

So I've been a bit more generous with medium presents. Hoodies (she likes old school Adidas), books, guitar strap, sol de janero body mists, silver bangle, a weirdo freaky tarot poster, a silk pillow case. T shirt, pjs.

This is for 2 very different girls btw. Goth and princess.

1stTimeMama · 03/11/2023 11:39

Mine, DD14, hasn't let me know what she'd like this year yet, but she's obsessed with Lego so a lot of her things will be new sets. I've got a her a now discontinued, Black Milk Slytherin pinafore dress she coveted and I'm planning on some Slytherin themed DM dupes too. She's just getting in to make up, so a starter kit, and she loves reading, so a selection of books I think she'd like.

Other ideas I had were a phone printer, airpod dupes, HP bedding, trainers.

sendismylife · 03/11/2023 11:41

Had a second hand MacBook for joint Christmas and birthday present. Accessories (eg mouse, case) as presents from others

MissBridgetJones · 03/11/2023 12:37

ChimneyPot · 02/11/2023 18:27

OP you mention books.
When my book lover was 14 she got a personalised embosser and loved it as she hates to even write her name on a book.

https://irishwaxseals.ie/bookembosser.html

Love this sooo much

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