DD will be just 5 - so far she is getting:
Space lego set
dressing gown, slippers and new pyjamas
rabbit nightlight
little live ladybird track and ladybirds
cuddly toy
sew your own elephant kit
Playplax
Clothes: a couple of party dresses
Books: My Naughty Little Sister box set; Gobbolino; Ottoline
Magnetic fishing game
All of the above are from us, though I've bought and stashed at points when I saw them/when they were on offer (apart from the slippers, which I still need to get)....
And from FC: a stocking, and a marble run (I think!) I was thinking of getting a camera, but that might be for her birthday instead. (And I might just give her an old camera of mine instead of buying a new one, as we have a spare old model Ixus knocking about that has been hardly used.)
DD seems to have decided that she needs/wants a new bike (and to be fair she has grown a fair bit since we got the last one) - so that might be her main birthday present. We tend to get her a fair few small bits at Christmas and birthday as they are so close together, which will be played with throughout the year. For her birthday I've already got (mostly in sales!):
Lego juniors set
Little live butterfly
some tops and leggings
unicorn skirt and headband
Peter Rabbit china set
cuddly toy
Books: Mortimer and Arabel set; Milly Molly Mandy
Pyjamas with owls on
....and possibly bike! Argh. I was hoping not to have to shell out for another one quite so soon.