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DLA Mandatory Reconsideration 2023

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Mumofboysteamginge · 11/02/2023 10:58

Hi, I’ve been following the DLA wait times thread since I applied for my 7 year old son in October. We had the decision yesterday and it was declined 😭 I was absolutely devastated.

We applied because my son was involved in a serious RTC (we were going on holiday with our friends, he wanted to travel in their car following us, a car came round a bend missed us but hit them head on) understandably he struggles with the fact he was the only one in the car and blames us for letting him in there). He was the only one awake and conscious in the vehicle, he has chronic flashbacks, normal everyday life things (sirens, bangs, travelling, weather conditions and so on are triggers) they send him into a state of survival and all his rational thinking is gone. Nights are horrendous for him, he lives like his life is in constant threat, he fights sleep and often gets dressed in the middle of the night so he’s ready should anything bad happen. Flashbacks are more prominent through the night.

school are aware of his issues. Now he’s under CAMHS school have been asked to stop any mental health interventions as this could interrupt the trauma therapy. hes happy at school because of the structure and routine, no real unpredictability etc.

anyway I’ve done this tread for anyone going through MR and hope we can all support each other through the process!

xxx

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Rebeccachloe · 28/12/2023 13:05

@Jhtm I haven’t recieved anything from them, I sent MR signed for, they recieved 17/11, called today as 6 weeks tomorrow and still waiting to be looked at. 8 week wait apparently

Keddie · 28/12/2023 13:08

@Jhtm i didnt receive anything from them to say they had my. MR. I did it over the phone and have since called to chase....My evidence has been lost, going to call next week for an update. My MR date is the 4th of Dec

Jhtm · 28/12/2023 13:44

Thanks I ended up ringing today to make sure they had it and they do, they said 3/4 weeks its taking but I know from this forum that’s not correct

Girlmum3110 · 28/12/2023 13:44

@Jhtm my daughters MR was scanned on the 16/11 and I got a text 7/12 saying they had received it and a letter a couple of days after saying they had scanned it on the 16/11. I phoned before Christmas and they said 8 weeks to get looked at. Hope that helps x

Ameliasmummyx · 02/01/2024 12:46

Hi, first time posting here. My daughter is 3 and is awaiting a diagnosis of ASD, SPD and PICA. I first put in her DLA claim on 13/07/23 and it was refused! I then put in a mandatory reconsideration on 1/12/23 and have had a call today from the DM. She has finally been awarded, not sure of rates. The MR took 4 weeks and 1 day. Hope this helps anyone who is still waiting.

Jneill2021 · 02/01/2024 13:35

@Ameliasmummyx amazing news, mine was recieved the 7/12 hoping not that much longer xx

Anonymous1993x · 02/01/2024 14:35

That’s amazing! Well done! I sent my sons MR 15/11 and still nothing. Did you do your MR by post or telephone? Congratulations again x

Ameliasmummyx · 02/01/2024 14:38

@Anonymous1993x I would give them a call to chase it up if I were you. That’s a ridiculous amount of time to be waiting. I did my MR by post. Thank you x

Ameliasmummyx · 02/01/2024 14:38

@Jneill2021 shouldnt be too long for you now, fingers crossed x

Ameliasmummyx · 02/01/2024 14:39

0800 072 0161 is the number they called me from, keep your eyes out for it :) x

Jneill2021 · 02/01/2024 14:43

@Ameliasmummyx thank you x

Jhtm · 02/01/2024 17:50

How long after this message do you hear back as it’s already been 4 weeks today since I did the mandatory reconsideration

DLA Mandatory Reconsideration 2023
Anonymousks1984 · 03/01/2024 09:13

Congratulations on anyone who has been awarded. I have called today and it is now 7 weeks for MR mine is nearly 6 weeks in and is with a decision maker hopefully not much longer for everyone 🤞

Girlmum3110 · 03/01/2024 10:54

I just phoned and not been looked at. She said 8 weeks to me just to get to DM. Scan date is the 16/11. So 7 weeks tomorrow x

Jneill2021 · 03/01/2024 11:53

@Keddie have you heard anything yet. X

Keddie · 03/01/2024 11:54

@Jneill2021 Nothing at all? Have you? I am going to call on Friday I am busy with work until then x

Jneill2021 · 03/01/2024 12:04

@Keddie no not yet I might give them a call today as the man I spoke to said give them a call back 1st week of Jan, I'll let uno how I get on xx

Anonymous1993x · 03/01/2024 12:56

I called today (received 15/11) and no decision. She said another 2 weeks

Ameliasmummyx · 03/01/2024 21:58

@Jhtm i received that same text 15 days before my phone call from the DM x

Jhtm · 03/01/2024 22:37

@Ameliasmummyx thank you hoping not too long now x

Keddie · 04/01/2024 09:16

@Jneill2021 Did you call yesterday? x

Ameliasmummyx · 04/01/2024 09:31

Hi All, just found out that my daughter went from a 0 reward to HRC. Just goes to show that a DM can get it wrong! Don’t lose hope, I’m praying that you all get what your children deserve x

Anonymous1993x · 04/01/2024 09:44

That’s amazing! Congrats to you and your daughter!! Did you send any extra evidence?

Jneill2021 · 04/01/2024 09:47

@Keddie I managed to get through after an hour and 40 minutes I'm sure the time just gets worse lol all the man said was it was scanned 7th Dec and can take up to 8 weeks, the waiting is driving me crazy I began all this in May last year its so draining. Hopefully they gey back to you soon they just seem really hit and miss with dates tbh x

Ameliasmummyx · 04/01/2024 10:04

@Anonymous1993x no extra evidence sent but I did write a 14 page letter addressing each reason they wrote for declining her in the first place. I read that they have a target to decline a certain amount of claims each month but I don’t know how true that is x

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