I am a teacher, and child protection officer. We do see very few GENUINE cases of ADHD, but the diagnosos is used more often than not to manipulate statistics, finances and /or schools and parents.
Believe me, some school/mnursery staff know the system VERY well, and I know many parents who have taken their route, ( as another poster says, the diagnosis is quite often initiated by the school, and these "observations" are often skipped.) staff can tellyou what to put in the questionaires,
cronsilt, it is more than 5 years since a statement has been issued by my LEA
ragged and akwardmary, I 100% agree with both of you, much of this is simply about the difficulty of boys fitting into a social "Norm" and the social "norm" being unable to accomadate a normal, healthy active young boy!
Themightyfandngo, you have my sympathy, I have rasied many such teenagers as your DS, I specialised in fostering teenagers with behaviour problems for nearly 20 years, before having my own. You are doing an incredibly difficult job. This is not about ADHD though, this is about ASD, and behaviour that could be regarded as "ADHD" is commonly seen within that. This is a totally different game to the NT children labelled ADHD.