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DLA wait times part 16 (2023)

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JME85 · 18/10/2023 10:57

Following on from part 15…

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Marie984 · 26/10/2023 12:00

Hey… just been in to sons school and spoke to his head of year who agrees the reasons they’ve gave are ridiculous and they are going to write me another statement/ letter to refute what has been said, she’s took my paperwork and the notes I’ve made so far from the evidence school did previously so now that’s in progress I’m feeling a bit more positive…

Emsychap · 26/10/2023 12:09

@Caroline6623 I’m 22/06 been with DM since the weekend just called yesterday no news yet will call tomorrow

Sillysausages987 · 26/10/2023 12:13

Scan date 23/06. Decision made yesterday for high rate care! Over the moon, don’t give up people, it’s an absolute head but worth it! Can’t wait to get my little girl some much needed speech therapy, can’t wait to hear her voice! Thank you all for the support and info you’ve kept me sane the last 18 weeks!

Mummyrach13 · 26/10/2023 12:16

Congrats @Sillysausages987 thats amazing, enjoy being able to help your little girl! ❤️ xx

Sillysausages987 · 26/10/2023 12:23

@Mummyrach13 thank you so much, fingers crossed for everyone else here too, rooting for you all!

MumtoADHDDiva · 26/10/2023 12:37

We've been awarded 😀. She was awarded yesterday. HRC and LM. Scan date 26/6. I'm so relieved. Good luck to everyone xxx

Sunshineclouds11 · 26/10/2023 12:48

Great to see some awards! Congrats

Caitlyn59 · 26/10/2023 12:55

Congratulations to all that’s been awarded , and good luck to that’s still waiting, hopefully I hear back and a lot more others in the next week, 26/6 ,

Mumof385 · 26/10/2023 12:56

Congrats to all those being awarded and sorry to those declined hope your Mr is done ASAP and get what your little ones deserve
Scan 29/6 and I've just rang just to check I still had time to send more evidence in, i wrote a night time diary for my son as he is a nightmare sleeping wise aswell as him being added to the sen register at school, and i realised i hadnt sent in the letter saying hes been referred to cyps on the pathway, 🤞🤞 theres enough there or i dont know what else i can send if its declined, she said they'll be going to dms in the next 10 days so I've sent it recorded delivery today
Good luck everyone 😀

mum959 · 26/10/2023 13:04

Am same scan date I rang Monday and wasn’t even with dm yet😫 said it will be end of month this wait is so hard I think we will be any day now though 🤞

Mummyrach13 · 26/10/2023 13:06

Congrats ladies so nice to see lots of awards 🎉

@Mumto2sengirlsxx There’s quite a few 26/6 been awarded yesterday and today, really hope we are soon 🤞 xx

Mumof385 · 26/10/2023 13:09

Fingers crossed we hear next week, this wait has taken over my life i don't think I can take anymore 😂😂, will ring Mon or Tues just to make sure they have the extra evidence

Cocopops22 · 26/10/2023 13:12

I’ve just received a text to my old number 34 mins ago saying my child qualifies and I was just sat there worrying aswell! 23/06 I am calling now to find out rates good luck all ❤️❤️❤️

Mummytodo · 26/10/2023 13:17

@Mummyrach13 thank you my scan date was the 15th of June. Its a horrible long wait

Mummyrach13 · 26/10/2023 13:19

Thank you it’s absolutely awful! But we will do what we know is right for our babies ❤️ x

4LittleFirecrackers · 26/10/2023 13:38

Well done everyone getting awarded, sorry for those been declined, we’re not applying for the fun of it are we!
getting so nervous now what was your scan date @Cocopops22? was you about the same as me 30th?

Tmxx · 26/10/2023 13:45

Has anyone with a scan date around 11th July rang yet!? I want to but I don't think my 10 month old will allow it 🤣 xx

Cocopops22 · 26/10/2023 13:48

@4LittleFirecrackers thank you my scan date was 23/06, it went to Dm on Tuesday and I was awarded today not long ago, I got my last text on the 19th sept and I would have been 18 weeks tomorrow ❤️ they seem to be getting thru them quicker now good luck yours won’t be far off xx

Mamabearalw · 26/10/2023 13:49

Just off the phone hun on hold for 1hour 20minutes but not cut off so il take that as a win 😂. Lovely lady told me it's taking 18.5 weeks my scan date is the 10th of July sending more evidence as didn't send anything when I did the form but he now has a diagnosis and further referrals and really struggling now in year 6. Also congrats everyone on the awards amazing. Keep fighting for the mr our babies deserve this ashame what we have to do sometimes but you've got this.

crazytimes20 · 26/10/2023 14:02

Congrats to everyone being awarded! Really sorry to those that have been declined. It's such an awful wait. My scan date is 25/7 and it feels like it's getting further and further away. I'm becoming really anxious now thinking I've not sent enough or filled the form in right. My son was diagnosed autistic last year and we are just waiting to hear back about his ADHD assessment he had. I've only sent his autism diagnoses report, speech and language reports and also his Person, provision plans from his school. His school is excellent with it all so far. I'm just becoming more and more worried.

Mumto2sengirlsxx · 26/10/2023 14:03

@Mummyrach13 how scary! Making me really anxious now I asked for a text if she gets awarded so if 26th dates are being done and I don't recieve a text I'll just presume she's been declined! I have the same feeling of dread as you do hun!!... congrats all on your awards too 💓

Mummyrach13 · 26/10/2023 14:16

@Mumto2sengirlsxx a few have asked for texts and not received them when they’ve been awarded so don’t count on that lovely, only a certain amount of DMs have that facility! I’m the same the nerves have now turned to dread as it’s getting closer. Xx

Emsychap · 26/10/2023 14:17

Was just going to ask how many get texts when accepted as really don’t want to call for a 3rd day in a row but seeing people getting accepted is making me want to know

Mumto2sengirlsxx · 26/10/2023 14:18

@Mummyrach13 I told my partner and he's told me to call to put my mind at rest else it will bug me constantly but I told him the feeling of dread is too much and I'm scared to hear the words declined 🤣 xxx

Mumto2sengirlsxx · 26/10/2023 14:26

I'm scared they are gonna shout at me for calling again but I'm on hold my partner told me to just do it. On my eldest daughters claim I found out she was awarded at 10am on the phone but didn't recieve the award text message until 4.30ish of the afternoon xx