Thanks @Chloec211 . I used the cerebra guide to help me and included so much detail about refusal episodes to leave house, to continue walking, to go to the loo, have a drink even. Sensory stress causing meltdowns and avoidance of busy or unfamiliar places, use of ear defenders etc. Multiple times a day cleaning up after soiled nappies and clothing due to toilet avoidance. She is 9 years old and still in nappies, not sure how this is a normal amount of care for her age 🤔 Daily meltdowns, physical violence. Report from senco and paediatrician both support she is home educated because of anxiety, not lifestyle choice. So confused.