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mum brought baby but no milk

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amphion · 24/10/2006 20:08

Had a trial morning with a 5 month old baby - from 9.30 to 12.
All went well except his mum brought him 'breakfast' - pureed fruit, and water from a trainer beaker to drink, which I did manage to get him to eat but he did seem like he really wanted a bottle but hey ho I did what mum wanted. (He had had a bottle already earlier in the morning.) When mum picked him up I asked if she would be giving him some milk at next feed but she said no, he would have 'lunch'. Oh dear, I'm a bit worried now she's going to keep me short of milk for him - afterall he's still a small baby - isn't he? Any advice?

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CwmbranChildminder · 02/11/2006 09:44

goodness me having some people on here got right problems??? just feel sorry for them I say

franyfroo · 02/11/2006 10:27

all i know is (this should set them off) whatever people might say, having been in this job for over 5 years, not all parents no best for their children. infact, some are downright useless. we are here as professionals, we follow training and have varing levels of experince. why the hell shouldnt we, if we feel there is a problemm, give advice to parents. nurseries and schools would.

GunpowderTreasonAndSNOT · 02/11/2006 10:31

LOL, the next time I need advice from someone who can't string a proper sentence together, I'll be sure to come to you, franyfroo

franyfroo · 02/11/2006 10:40

I look forward to it.

HappyMumof2 · 02/11/2006 11:30

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GunpowderTreasonAndSNOT · 02/11/2006 11:34

I would have thought referring to your charges' parents as "downright useless" was more shocking. And however much self-righteous dust you kick up, there's no getting away from the fact that childminders are not qualified to dispense dietary or parenting advice. They are paid to mind children. That's why they're called childminders.

If I were looking for care for my children, I would now steer clear of childminders, because of some of the attitudes I've encountered on here. The way some of you talk about your mindees and their families is disgraceful.

HappyMumof2 · 02/11/2006 11:43

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GunpowderTreasonAndSNOT · 02/11/2006 11:44

Yes, I am Does that make a difference?

HappyMumof2 · 02/11/2006 11:45

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GunpowderTreasonAndSNOT · 02/11/2006 11:45

ROFL

HappyMumof2 · 02/11/2006 11:48

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franyfroo · 02/11/2006 12:18

I am sorry (must be the Illiteracy}but at no point in that last message did i mention any of my mindees or there parents. mine are all very sensible and clever. BUT if they ask I help in whatever way i can. could have written much more but far to stupid

franyfroo · 02/11/2006 12:20

i suppose i could have always changed my name for this post.

GunpowderTreasonAndSNOT · 02/11/2006 12:31

Yes, or you could have changed your name for Bonfire Night, while making it blatantly obvious who you are, as many other posters have done

Rest assured, it'll be a cold day in Hell before I feel the need to hide from the likes of you, franyfroo.

franyfroo · 02/11/2006 12:46

LOL[GRIN]

happybiggirl · 02/11/2006 14:31

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smeeinit · 02/11/2006 22:14

so where would you put your children then greensleves if not with a childminder? [in theoery)
maybe a nursery? babies being cared for by mostly unqualified just out of school assistants on a 3 to 1 basis? i use the term care very lightly! (IME)
wake up and smell the coffee love! childminders talk about there mindees and parents no more or less than any other childcarer.disgracefull you may think but this is what this forum is for..........to let off a bit of steam confidentially!!!!!

ThePrisoner · 03/11/2006 00:26

There are some childminders who are, and let's be honest here because we all know some in RL, the "glorified babysitters". They may or may not be good childcarers.

There are other childminders, and I would like to count myself as one of them, who do regard this as a "professional" job. I am not a qualified dietitian, doctor, lawyer or whatever, but I have successfully completed many courses which have certainly given me more knowledge than what I had as a parent to my own children (who are now grown-up). I also have access to "real professionals" for any information I may need on all sorts of subjects.

I wouldn't dream of telling any parent how to care for their child, but will give advice if asked (as a childminder, as a mum myself, or as friend). However, if I was unsure or advice was needed on something serious, I would ask for professional advice elsewhere - even Mumsnet issues warnings about taking advice from each other!!

I also agree that this is a forum where, as smeeinit says, we should be able to let off a bit of steam confidentially. However, I am also acutely aware that as a worldwide parenting forum, parents will also read posts made by childminders, and I would therefore not ever make comments likely to upset any potential customers!!

And I don't want to cause a ruck!!

ABadMouseNibbledMyFireworks · 03/11/2006 00:31

ROFL that there's a second thread going here about the spelling of a word

cowmad · 03/11/2006 00:32

have i missed anything?

smeeinit · 03/11/2006 09:17

well said prisoner

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