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bit odd but could do with some advice

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MilkNoSugarPlease · 15/02/2011 20:37

Right, about 7m ago I met a mum at a stay and play (am a nanny) we ended up going to various groups together etc and she said she was looking for a nanny. She then told me she had found one and mentioned a couple of things about her that would identify her if I saw her iygwim

Haven't seen her for about 2m, today me and charge were at a stay and play when her daughter (13m) came in with a young woman, who is her nanny-from what she (mum) told me.

Thus woman spent the entire time calling the baby her "daughter" and "mummys clever girl", saying "oh mummy loves you" whilst hugging her...then wad talking about her not sleeping through the night etc....and nurseries she eats her to go to....she never once said anything about the fact she's her nanny not mum, or made it seem as if she was her nanny

The whole thing made me incredibly uneasy, I bloody wish I'd said something to the nanny

Do I tell her mum?

I don't have her mums number anymore but so have her address

Tia

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Are your children’s vaccines up to date?
MilkNoSugarPlease · 18/02/2011 19:52

Apologies for spelling/grammer, was on phone!

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CameronCook · 19/02/2011 10:19

Well done Milk that must have been a difficult conversation to have but you so did the right thing.

freshmint · 20/02/2011 20:06

brilliant, well done
xx

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