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Second births- when did baby number 2 arrive in relation to first pregnancy?

53 replies

Crazydoglady123 · 18/01/2022 12:16

Writing this at 39+5. Had a scare at 33/34 weeks she was coming early and had the steroid injections but she's still cooking 🙄 DS was induced at 42 weeks (10 years ago) and I'm really hoping for a spontaneous labour this time but so far have no signs 😑

How did your second labour compare to #1 weeks/days wise?

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OnlyFoolsnMothers · 18/01/2022 12:19

Baby 1 came at 40+4
Baby 2 came at 40 exactly

I expect my Labour to be fast and quick as my first was about 6hrs- but the baby’s head blocked my waters so after hours of nothing happening after the initial contractions they had to break my waters/ then things speeded up as expected.

BernadetteRostankowskiWolowitz · 18/01/2022 12:21

Dc1 - laboured at 40+3, delivered 40+4
Dc2 - random on off labour for weeks. Delivered at 39+4

StarStruK · 18/01/2022 13:11

1st baby was born at 39+1
2nd baby was born at 38 weeks

SatinHeart · 18/01/2022 13:12

Mine were both 39+1!

mummyh2016 · 18/01/2022 13:46

Had DD at 38 weeks, DS arrived this morning at 38+2! Labour with DD was 20 hours from first contraction to her arriving with 4 hours of pushing (back to back), DS was 3 hours from first contraction and he was out in 2 pushes!

EcoCustard · 18/01/2022 13:51

Dc1 at 36+1
Dc2 at 38+4
Dc1 was contractions to birth in under an hour
Dc2 was under two hours.

12 months apart and very different labours

SpeedRunParent · 18/01/2022 15:07

All 3 had to be induced at 40+ 4 - at which point I went from healthy blood pressure to pregnancy induced hypertension like a light being turned on at the switch.

Crazydoglady123 · 18/01/2022 15:10

Congratulations @mummyh2016 💙

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Strawberry0909 · 18/01/2022 15:17

DC1 41 +3
DC2 39 - I had thought he would be late as well and had so many little jobs planned, that I've still not done 3 months later!

TooMuchCheesecake · 18/01/2022 15:21

DC1- 37+5 spontaneous labour
DC2- 41+2 induction

ShadowPuppets · 18/01/2022 15:27

Watching with interest. DD (first baby) turned up at 40+4 with labour starting at 40+1. Because of her birth I've been recommended for a CS with DS this time around, and have been told to expect an appointment for around 39+1.

The only thing is, I'm convinced their calculations on my due date are wrong (I know my dates exactly including ovulation, theirs are based entirely on him being a bit small at the 12 week scan, which has since evened out and he was on the normal to large size at 20 weeks). So 39+1 by their maths is 40 weeks exactly according to mine, and I'm quite nervous about going into spontaneous labour when I have a CS planned...

millymae · 18/01/2022 15:28

First baby arrived 12 days after the expected date and 2nd 15 days. I don’t think either was late really as my cycle has always been a long one. 3rd and 4 babies were both 11 days late too - the only one that I was helped along with was baby number 4. I went in convinced that baby was well on the way but wasn’t. The lovely midwife took pity on me and ‘accidentally’ broke my waters as she was examining me. Whilst not particularly quick all 4 were straightforward normal deliveries.

ILoveAnOwl · 18/01/2022 15:28

Both were 3 days late.

pommypompom · 18/01/2022 15:48

DC1 - 40+2
DC2 - 39+6

FeckingCovid · 18/01/2022 15:56

First baby 31 weeks
Second baby 39 weeks

First was early due to complications though

BitcherOfBlakiven · 18/01/2022 15:59

37+3 (induced due to placenta issues)
39+3
39+3

All born on a Thursday too!

Labours went from 94 mins, 42 mins to 12 mins with my third… Safe to say no more!

Jmommy · 18/01/2022 16:20

DC1 was 40+2 and DC2 39+4. Was so sick of pregnancy with DC2 by then and worried I might go overtime as had no signs of labor by 39+3. Had planned to book natural induction with zone therapist as soon as I’d hit 40 weeks Grin

Wowcherarestalkingme · 18/01/2022 16:24

DS1 - 37+5
DS2 - 32+5

Both born in under three hours

PrettyBluebells · 18/01/2022 16:35

DC1 40+1
DC2 40+11
Both inductions

Nibletmum · 18/01/2022 16:41

39+3
39

Currently 38+4 with #3 - praying she follows her brothers and is a bit early 🤞

PiesNotGuys · 18/01/2022 16:43

22 days earlier gestation than my previous full term pregnancy

I was quite surprised

Chasingsquirrels · 18/01/2022 16:46

Mine were almost identical, with ds2 being quicker.

Dc1: 37+0 (00:36 arrival after waters went at 22:00 and contractions started an hour later)
Dc2: 37-0 (23:55 arrival after waters went around 23:35 & contractions started 5 mins later).

cptartapp · 18/01/2022 17:02

DC1 40 + 5
DC2 40 + 8 very very quickly!

astersugar · 18/01/2022 17:06

35+1 then 39.

RoseMAR · 18/01/2022 17:59

DS1 40+1 7 hour labour
DS2 41+1 1.2 hour labour

DP calls me a baby cannon 🤦🏼‍♀️😂