Hi everyone
My daughter is now nearly two years old and I've noticed since I've had her I've been very loose downstairs. I had a perenial tear which was not stitched as I was given the choice and opted not too. There appears to be a lot of scar tissue down there as well. I've done all the kegels including using weights and am not incontinent or anything like that.
I have explained to my GP that my sex life is terrible as I can barely feel anything and neither can my husband and I was referred to a sex therapist. I knew this wasn't the issue but I attended so that I could be referred onwards. I have now been referred to a specialist physiotherapist but it has taken months for the appointment to come through and I still haven't been seen.
I'm getting so upset with the state of my sex life and not only that I can barely keep an xxxl tampon in when I'm on my period.
The GP who saw me initially did examine me but said there was nothing out of the ordinary.
Is this normal? What should I do?Any suggestions are appreciated