Your right NJ. Some women labour for days. Or weeks, NJ.
To lighten the mood, I bumped into an old neighbour today. She was with her sister and 11 day old twins. They were divine and I asked what they were called.
The sister said,"This one is Floella and that one is Lucinda",
Do you think it was rude of me to let out a big snort before I managed to say "oh, lovely"?
I really though she was kidding. But the straight face said not.