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Have I, unknowingly, made this worse for myself?

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sanityisamyth · 26/12/2013 15:24

Afternoon!

I'm 39 weeks pregnant with my first and have been having fairly strong cramps and tensing since 11pm on Tuesday night. Went to maternity twice yesterday just to see how things were progressing. I'd got to 2 cms dilated yesterday afternoon on the second check up. Most of yesterday I was sitting upright-ish in a chair and just breathing through any tensing (mostly in my back as little one is back-to-back despite being perfect on Monday).

Since yesterday afternoon, back at home, I have been trying to get on all fours during each contraction/tensing to get him to turn and drop but still not a lot doing. The tensing doesn't seem to be getting stronger or more frequent and waters haven't gone. I have also been trying to spend as much time as possible resting on my side and kneeling up against the edge of the bed, or on all fours rotating my pelvis whilst there are no contractions.

So that's over 40 hours of contractions so far! Have I done anything to cause the first stage so be so long, or is this fairly normal?!

I really don't want to go back to maternity again to be checked for them to tell me that I'm only another 1 or 2 cms dilated since 24 hours ago! My waters haven't gone yet either.

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Devora · 29/12/2013 21:03

Huge congratulations! I'm very impressed you're already out and about.

Big kiss for little William x

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Chuckthefucklebrothers · 29/12/2013 21:22

Just read this thread all the way through - congratulations Sanity, what a brave lady you are! Enjoy your new baby x

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TeaandHobnobs · 29/12/2013 22:04

Well done sanity! And welcome little William - congratulations Thanks

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BlondieTinsellyMinx · 29/12/2013 22:19

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BobaFetaCheese · 29/12/2013 22:21

Congratulations! x

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BlondieTinsellyMinx · 29/12/2013 22:22

Sanity that is fab news, well done you! Welcome to the world little William! Congrats to Mr Sanity too!

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waceystills · 30/12/2013 08:28

Lovely thread sanity. I have been following/lurking as I had my first contraction at 11pm on the Tuesday and DS did not arrive until 7.09 on the Saturday so snap!

You are doing amazingly well to be out walking already.

Enjoy the snuggles and congrats ThanksThanks

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LiberalLibertine · 30/12/2013 08:40

Awww lovely! Congratulations! X

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sanityisamyth · 30/12/2013 17:17

Thanks everyone Smile I still can't believe he's here but he is being good so far!

Took him out for another little walk just now. I jad the dog and my sister had the pram so still not quite flying solo but it's nice to be out and about!

Mr sanity is being brilliant. He's pretty sleep deprived too but is being very helpful and mucking in (and mucking out!)

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sanityisamyth · 30/12/2013 17:19

wacey how peculiar!! It's a very funny world. I hope your little one is now being as sleepy amd snuggly as mine is :) x

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DangoDays · 30/12/2013 20:05

Yey sanity that is great news! Well done for getting to the finish line! Hope lovely William is doing well. Take care.

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