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Refusing home birth for back to back baby!

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StarshitTerrorise · 15/05/2012 18:18

Ffs.

I KNOW I have rights etc but why are they making it difficult.

Apparently I won't forgive myself if it goes wrong and I won't be able to cope with the pain.

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EdlessAllenPoe · 17/05/2012 21:29

I was thinking about consultant-thinking the other day...

it seem that if you tick a 'risk' box, no matter how many unchecked ones there are they will class you as 'high risk'

even though it is simple and obvious fact that average risk means 50% of all women will have less than average risk. some of those women will have risk factors mitigated by other things.

the average home birther has a very low-risk profile - half that of average (that is to say, the correcting factor applied to HB results was to double them, meaning initial risk level is half) - even though 28% of home birthers are over 35 and 4% over forty...(vs 17% 2% CLU IIRC)

this is because we are typically educated middle class white married women who are non-smoking, non-obese etc.

so those things more than compensate for increased age. but consultants never assign a risk value of 'less than average' - despite 50% of women having that level of risk (de facto!)

also, babies born at home are larger than average - 4 oz larger - even with that the results for second timers are just as good (and on secondary outcomes much better) as clu born babies.

glad to see OP has got some more MW contact! you really don't need this though.

StarlightMcKenzie · 17/05/2012 21:41

It's funny because I've been calling and chasing and referring for over two months (not as urgently but still) and yet I still feel a bit like a naughty girl that has just turned up term from nowhere!

Why do I feel like that?

EdlessAllenPoe · 17/05/2012 21:55

because the power balance in maternity services is all wrong.

i don't feel like that about my dentist. but then i pay them. or my Vet. same again... or my optician.

they may know much more than me about their respective fields, but understand it is my teeth/ dog/ eyes at stake...

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