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Share experiences and get support around labour, birth and recovery.

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MrsDoolittle · 11/02/2006 08:54

I went to hospital yesterday afternoon and was sent home as my cervix still had a way to go. Then the contractions stopped. Both dh and had wound ourselves up I think so we went to the pub across the road, had a lovely meal and a little wine. We returned feeling much more relaxed.
I went to bed at 10pm but I was woken at 1am by dh coming to bed. Then they started again.
By 2am I couldn't sleep, I phoned the hospital again and suggested I got in the bath with paracetamol. Basically I was contracting still fairly weakly (I realise that now) about 1/2 hourly. I managed to go back to bed and sleep until 5.30am.
This time the contractions were much more frequent about 5-6 minutes apart. I phoned the hospital, a midwife phoned me back.
I understand now that I have been naive thinking I should go into hopsital before. I have hours of pain at home to go through before I am in 'established' labour. Dh can't help but treat me like I'm a hyperchondriac but I still have ages to go.
It's just dawning on me what a lonely experience this labouring at home is.
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MrsDoolittle · 12/02/2006 18:44

Thank you so much everyone.
I have a picture but I need to dh to edit it down. It's too big apparently. I'll definately get it up tonight though.

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HellKat · 12/02/2006 18:52

Congrats!

Spidermama · 12/02/2006 19:01

Congratulations Mrs.D. What a fab birth story. I was on the edge of my seat reading that. It brought back memories too.
WELL DONE!
All the best and enjoy your babymoon. x

Spidermama · 12/02/2006 19:02

PMSL at the midwives pulling up your knickers. As if you care at that point!

PeachyClair · 12/02/2006 19:11

Moved me to tears too, and I didn't even cry when my three came!!!!!!!!

Good luck and welcome little one

MarsOnLife · 12/02/2006 19:18

What a wonderful story to come home to.

Well done you! Congratulations

Picture please!

QE2 · 12/02/2006 19:19

I was holding the tears back reading your birth announcement - fab!

Congratulations! I have a picture imprinted in my mind of your dh standing open-mouthed clutching your purse and phone as you got into the birthing pool - lol. The poor man!

Flamesparrow · 12/02/2006 19:25

Sat here sobbing hysterically (which I know isn't very new for me, but still... ).

I am so so pleased for you. Yesterday was an incredible day on here....

Congratulations!!!

hewlettsdaughter · 12/02/2006 19:35

Huge congratulations MrsD!

I love the bit when Rhuaridh came floating up from between your knees

FrannyandZooey · 12/02/2006 19:36

WOWWWWW! Great story, my heart is thumping with adrenalin just reading it!

Congratulations to you all and welcome to Rhuaridh

Frizbetheexpansionset · 12/02/2006 19:39

Awwww Mrs D, what a great story, especially the bit about your dh! congrats to you all

Millie1 · 12/02/2006 19:40

Congratulations Mrs Doolittle ... what a beautiful birth story - and please post a picture when you get a moment!

satine · 12/02/2006 19:41

So many congrats, and I hope lots of first time mums read that before their labour - it really is such a mixture of pain and elation!!

Lonelymum · 12/02/2006 20:00

Congratulations MrsDoolittle and dh. What a fantstic story, really well told. You must keep it and let Rhuaridh read it one day!

Rhuaridh is pronounced Rory, I think I am right in saying?

MeAndMyBoy · 12/02/2006 20:14

What a fantastic birth announcement. Very emotional and so conveys what labour and birth are all about.

Many congratualations to you and DH on your little boy - Fab name too.

lots of love
Harri x

mszebra · 12/02/2006 20:17

Congrats!!
I'm so glad you made it to hospital in time, it really sounded close!

Sallystrawberry · 12/02/2006 20:27

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FedUpOfHearingYou · 12/02/2006 20:33

Aww how lovely. Congratulations, so pleased it went well for you and you have your lovely DS in your arms.

VeniVidiVickiQV · 12/02/2006 20:34

Awww - lovely story! Thats just how i wanted my labours to be IYKWIM!

Congratulations

wheresthecoddingnecklace · 12/02/2006 20:36

thats i sfab
i a amazed they were bothered abotu your birthplan
you write so well it has made a fish y eye weep!

bettythebuilder · 12/02/2006 20:37

Many,many congratulations.
(Darn it, my mascara is running...how did that happen?)

Marina · 12/02/2006 20:39

Lovely story, many congratulations MrsD. All teary here! Welcome to Mumsnet Rhuaridh!

hester · 12/02/2006 20:53

Oh what a lovely story! Thank you so much, and huge congratulations on the birth of your son

hoxtonchick · 12/02/2006 20:54

tears here too! many congratulations, lovely pic too .

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