I’m 45 and on HRT after going through early menopause. My menopause symptoms were horrific and I never want to experience that again. I have two children age 10 and 7. We have a strong family history of breast cancer with my mum diagnosed in her 60s with ER/PR/HER + breast cancer. My Mum’s sister was also diagnosed at the same age and all of my mums cousins and her aunt on same side have had BC including one who died in her 30s. I also have an uncle on dad’s side who died of prostate cancer in his 40s. I tested negative for the BRCA genes and was recommended annual mammograms with contrast. I had one a few years ago that resulted in a biopsy that was benign but very stressful.
I am really considering a double preventative mastectomy to help relieve the annual anxiety of mammograms as I feel it’s only a matter of time until I get BC too. I also can’t imagine having to come off HRT if I ever got BC. My symptoms were so debilitating. I know it’s a big decision to make. (I’d be paying privately obviously and would have to find a surgeon willing to perform it).
I just don’t know if I’m being too dramatic considering it.