"This is my problem with many breastfeeding mothers, as I've said before. They seem to derive some sort of smug pleasure from hunting down data that "proves" they are better mothers and that women who FF are actually doing their babies harm.Why?"
No information will 'prove' you're a better mother than anyone else, and IMO mothers who engage in this debate aren't interested in one-upmanship.
"Why can't you just get on with feeding your baby, your way, and let others do the same?"
Because in the past 100 years bf as a normal way of feeding babies has been practically wiped out in industrialised countries - only a tiny percentage of babies in the UK are bf for more than a few weeks.
Women in this country haven't chosen this state of affairs - bf started to to 'die out' decades ago because of bad practice in hospitals, and unethical marketing by infant formula manufacturers who managed to persuade generations of mothers that artificial milk was at least as good, if not better, than their own milk.
There are still whole swathes of society where bf is seen as 'odd' and formula is seen as the only normal way to feed a baby.
Now we've got a bottle feeding culture and even those women who are aware of the differences between formula and their own milk find it hard to establish and continue bf because of conflicting information given by health professionals.
And millions of mothers and babies have missed out on the pleasures and benefits of bf.
It's a political issue underpinned by ignorance and misinformation, big industry, big profits, and the victims are mothers and babies. Of course there are people out there who feel angry about it and want to engage in a debate about it. TBH when I see comments like 'why does anyone care how babies other than their own are fed' - I think - there can be no better illustration of the lack of public understanding of this issue than that.