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Breastfeeding till the age of 4 - what do you think?

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lisalisa · 20/07/2005 14:20

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Dior · 24/07/2005 23:53

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hunkermunker · 24/07/2005 23:54

That's the first time I've wanted to shout "Bitty!" and run away, giggling

Sorry, SM

MrsGordonRamsay · 24/07/2005 23:55

BITTY

spidermama · 24/07/2005 23:56

Yeah and my mum still feeds me. What of it????

MrsGordonRamsay · 24/07/2005 23:57

Sorry SM, but it is Sunday and it is back to reality tomorrow.

Just finished watching Nicholas Cage in Face Off.

spidermama · 24/07/2005 23:57

Joke. I thought I'd better say 'joke' before nannyjo reports me to somebody.

MrsGordonRamsay · 24/07/2005 23:57

Now him I could BF forever

spidermama · 24/07/2005 23:58

Face Off is such a horrible film. Yuk. Imagine.

MrsGordonRamsay · 24/07/2005 23:59

Nicholas Cage or John Travolta,,,,,,,,,,,yummy

hunkermunker · 25/07/2005 00:00

MGR, you and your breastfeeding grown men fantasies!

MrsGordonRamsay · 25/07/2005 00:00

I hope Gordon is far too busy to find this thread in the morning

MrsGordonRamsay · 25/07/2005 00:01

Not really, just grabs folks attention

MrsNicolasCage · 25/07/2005 00:01

Oi! Hands off!

hunkermunker · 25/07/2005 00:02

I know, MGR/LGJ

skeptic · 25/07/2005 03:10

Let's just be thankful that Nannyjo is a nanny and not a social worker.

Don't they teach about child abuse at nanny school? Reassure us they don't tell you that breastfeeding is abusive!

Lisa2 · 25/07/2005 07:28

Listen ladies!?

If Nursey Jo is si full of crap, then why oh why do parents like yourselves keep employing her to work for there families and have so for the past 13 yrs.

If she has been giving out the wrong information and not doing her job correctly, SURELY someone would have been picked up on it by now!!

You cant go 13 years in a type of job, especially this one and be wrong!!!

NO WAY!!!

lockets · 25/07/2005 07:33

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Pixiefish · 25/07/2005 07:41

Lisa2- the fact that nannyjo says she has worked as a nanny for 13 years does not make her professional opinion infallible. A lot of people have done a job for years, continuing to be employed by people despite not necessarily being right in their opinions. (a certain professor springs to mind as having been in the news last week). Also we must remember that this is the www and events on MN several months ago now remind us that people can claim to be something they're not.(not that I'm suggesting anything here other than not to trust too much on the www)

Personally I am offended that she says that breastfeeding past the age of 1 is tantamount to abuse. I am still feeding my 18 month old and see nothing wrong in doing so. She is still benefitting nutritionally as well as emotionally.

tiktok · 25/07/2005 08:50

Lisa....you still don't get it, do you?

A professional qualification and years of experience do not mean someone is always right about everything in their field.

In fact, the best professionals know there is always more to learn, and they are open to the fact they get it wrong sometimes. They are also willing to follow up suggestions of where to update themselves.

If someone is not like this, then it doesn't mean they are rubbish at every other aspect of their job. Heck....they may even get employment fairly easily, on the recommendation of others.

They are trusted, and when their employer says to them, 'I am still enjoying breastfeeding, what do you think,Nursey Jo - Little Whateverhisname is 1 next week and enjoying solids, as well as breastmilk. What shall I do?', they may reply, 'well, Mrs Employer, as a professional I am up to date with this, and the department of health says there is little nutritional value in breastmilk after this age, and your baby should be on cows milk or Step 2 formula.'

'OMG', thinks Mrs Employer. 'I am giving something with little nutritional value. What sort of mother am I? Clearly, NurseyJo knows what she is talking about, because she has been a fine carer in every other respect....I had better stop now.'

And this is what we are objecting to, Lisa. Do you see?

I'd also point out to nannyjo that equating bf a 4 yr old with abuse is more than an opinion. It is a silly, ignorant insult to the mothers here who have done that. You - as a professional - cannot help your own feelings on these matters, but unless you can back them up with evidence, you should keep them to yourself. I am not in favour of censorship - I don't even mind strong language on the boards! - but giving voice to an opinion like this, which is tantamount to an accusation, is not acceptable.

tiktok · 25/07/2005 08:50

Lisa....you still don't get it, do you?

A professional qualification and years of experience do not mean someone is always right about everything in their field.

In fact, the best professionals know there is always more to learn, and they are open to the fact they get it wrong sometimes. They are also willing to follow up suggestions of where to update themselves.

If someone is not like this, then it doesn't mean they are rubbish at every other aspect of their job. Heck....they may even get employment fairly easily, on the recommendation of others.

They are trusted, and when their employer says to them, 'I am still enjoying breastfeeding, what do you think,Nursey Jo - Little Whateverhisname is 1 next week and enjoying solids, as well as breastmilk. What shall I do?', they may reply, 'well, Mrs Employer, as a professional I am up to date with this, and the department of health says there is little nutritional value in breastmilk after this age, and your baby should be on cows milk or Step 2 formula.'

'OMG', thinks Mrs Employer. 'I am giving something with little nutritional value. What sort of mother am I? Clearly, NurseyJo knows what she is talking about, because she has been a fine carer in every other respect....I had better stop now.'

And this is what we are objecting to, Lisa. Do you see?

I'd also point out to nannyjo that equating bf a 4 yr old with abuse is more than an opinion. It is a silly, ignorant insult to the mothers here who have done that. You - as a professional - cannot help your own feelings on these matters, but unless you can back them up with evidence, you should keep them to yourself. I am not in favour of censorship - I don't even mind strong language on the boards! - but giving voice to an opinion like this, which is tantamount to an accusation, is not acceptable.

tiktok · 25/07/2005 08:50

whoops....sorry. As if the thread is not long enough ;)

Ameriscot2005 · 25/07/2005 08:56

Maybe they are not hiring her for her attitudes towards weaning, Lisa.

None of the nannies will define a maternity nurse, but if I am to assume that they work until the baby is 8 weeks old, then weaning doesn't come into it - thankfully.

I'm sure people get a maternity nanny for many reasons but I doubt many of those have to do with needing one. And I bet there aren't many maternity nurse client candidates at Mumsnet.

Ameriscot2005 · 25/07/2005 08:58

We mustn't get confused between NurseyJo and NannyJo. NurseyJo is an experienced maternity nurse who is very supportive of early breastfeeding but believes that the benefits diminish at around the 1 year mark. NannyJo is a nanny who thinks extended breastfeeding is a form of child abuse.

ruty · 25/07/2005 09:52

I'd like to thank nursey jo and nanny jo personally for educating me. I will now NEVER let a nanny within a mile of my son, and I will tell all my friends what these nannies said on this thread and let them make up my own mind. By the way, I suspect that Nanny Jo is, RoosMum, a typist trained baboon.

ruty · 25/07/2005 09:54

JOKE!

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