BACKGROUND
I had a very difficult birth with BabyG - emCS under GA after 24 hours of labour, lost a lot of blood during the CS. Was exhausted but determined to BF. BabyG was BIG (10 9) and was almost constantly at the breast - on day 2 (I think) a MW snapped at me "this baby is starving" after I'd refused to let them "top him up" for the millionth time so I let them (and sobbed as they farking did it).
INCIDENT A
A woman today told me I'd ruined the baby's gut by allowing them to give him some formula. It was the only bottle of formula he has ever ever had (now 15 weeks). It is bollocks isn't it? I'm sure it is!
INCIDENT B
As I sat BF the baby yesterday, my (childless younger) sister said to me "urgh I think BF is awful, it makes me cringe, I won't be doing it if I have childrne, its gross". I thought "fuck off" but said "well you have to make your own choices. Ido it because blah blah blah and its a bit hurtful of you to say these things to me as I sit feeding". I bit down the response I really wanted to give