liilysma - I forget how old your dd is, but I used to find (and still do) that a quick bf was like a reset button for my ds, and distraction only delayed things for him. I know what you mean about being the only one feeding though, sometimes it's like "noooo... don't ask me here" but I just used to do and never had any negativity at all.
I even fed ds on his nursery trip last week. They mistakenly gave him cake with egg in it (the mums had been sent to another room, so I couldn't have prevented it) and when I told ds that it had egg in it, he burst into tears and started shaking. I think I have drummed his allergy into him so much that he thought he was going to die or something!!! but a quick breastfeed and he was fine. We started off feeding in quiet room, but then it ended up that the whole bloody nursery came back through and they all saw ds feeding. Not one person said anything, but they didn't need to - their faces said it all! I don't care though, DS needed it very much at that time which is more important than a few nursery mummies who might think me odd.
Anyway, looks like his allergy is on the way out. He had a tiny bit of cake, piriton straight away and no reaction, so either he didn't eat enough to react, or the piriton stopped a reaction, or there was no reaction at all. No harm done.
So, I am now 5wks pregnant. hooray. I am not getting too excited after I miscarried last year, but since ds has stopped night feeding, it seems to have done the trick. He says that my milk is delicious, and always is, so I reckon he's either not fussy, or there is no change in my milk yet.......