pmdw, why are you angry about questioning your own ways? I think it's great and important to keep an open mind and try to learn from your own and others experiences as we go along! No ones perfect, no one will ever be perfect, but it is good to learn new things, imo!And if you find you could improve a certain thing, then that can only be a positive, can't it! Sometimes we do things with the best intention, and learn later that we could have done things differently...but no point beating yourself up over the would have could haves....and just put it into the " a lesson learned" category!
Not sure if I am making much sense here, lol!