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How to stay awake during night feeds - part 5

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MrsNPattz · 03/12/2012 21:19

Here we are Grin

goat thanks, I could but am worried about putting the car seat in!

We are putting the Moses basket in the big cot tonight to start getting him used to it as he will be too big for the basket soon!!

Bed time not going well so far.......

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StuntNun · 08/12/2012 03:16

Another bad night here. After a feed at 12:30 DH took J off downstairs and gave him a bottle of EBM after I specifically said not to. So at 2:45 I was lying awake feeling very uncomfortable having to decide whether to wake J up to get him to feed or to try to express. Bloody DH said he forgot I has said not to give the bottle and I would feed him. So pissed off with him right now.

Smallgreenone · 08/12/2012 03:32

Sooooooooop tired. Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz zzzzzz. Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

Ameybee · 08/12/2012 05:43

Well after his feed at 2 he went till now and my boob has practically exploded! I had to change my bra as it was wet through! Its so weird having him not feed all night, I've actually been awake a fair bit. At least there will be plenty to express tomorrow.
Sorry there's not much sleep going on for some - sending you sleepy dust x

Ameybee · 08/12/2012 06:39

Poonami! I forgot how bad they are especially when gro bag etc is included and when its freezing cold! I have a feeling we are starting the day however, he's been chatting away to me. Best get my thermals on to brave downstairs. Hoping DD gets up soon, then DH can let me go back to bed! X

Goatbongohohoandjinglejingle · 08/12/2012 06:46

Still having scrappy nights. My head feels like it is floating off somewhere 6 feet above the rest of me. Kid, on the other and, is lying here doing his usual calisthenics routine and smiling largely at me.

StuntNun · 08/12/2012 07:05

At least he's happy Goat!

I made it through the night. Now to try and make it through the day.

Goatbongohohoandjinglejingle · 08/12/2012 07:37

He is indeed stunt and still volume controlled due to loss of voice!

Sorry for bad nights, had hoped quiet thread meant lots of sleep.

Are you freezing down in Cornwall, heff ?

HeffalumpsAndWoozles · 08/12/2012 07:52

Morning everyone, I've come with a bit of a rant. DD1 woke up about 6.45 and as her travel cot is on DHs side of the bed I asked him to pick her up so she could come into our bed, he had a strop at being woken up but did it then went back to sleep. She started chatting away at 7.15 and wanted to get up which started him whinging, she decided she wanted to sit in bed & watch cbeebies so I asked him to switch it on. There followed 5 minutes of cursing and stomping whole he couldn't get the remote to work, he then got up and switched the main light on which has really pissed me off because of course that woke babylump up. I snapped at him to switch it off so he did then made a massive song & dance about it, loads of noise, got bank into bed and turned over ignoring us which left me to sort it all out and now I'll be the one to have to get up no matter that I was up til half 2 this morning with the baby Angry Just becausr he difnt get in from boozing with his dad until 1 he thinks its ok to act like a moody teenager. Sometimes I could really throttle him Angry

Sorry about that, just had to get it off my chest instead of sitting here silently fuming!

Hope everyone's well rested this morning.

HeffalumpsAndWoozles · 08/12/2012 08:34

Oh and did I mention the humongous vom-a-thon babylump had which he miraculously 'slept' through...

One more Angry for good measure

Goatbongohohoandjinglejingle · 08/12/2012 12:01

Sorry to hear about your rough night, heff. Maybe get babylump to direct the next vomathon to the other side of the bed?... (sorry, am sleep deprived so not playing nice!)

Goatbongohohoandjinglejingle · 08/12/2012 12:03

Forgot to say, mrsn sorry to hear about your eyes - what an extra stress on top of everything else you have to deal with. I hope you're at least getting a bit of a break through some nice sleep! (and Brew and nice Xmas Biscuit )

Smallgreenone · 08/12/2012 12:56

Oh heff these husbands can be so bloody selfish.
I was so tired last night had to take baby small into bed with me again at 4.30 and he slept through then until 7.30 which was bliss. Meeting the nct group today and its lovely and sunny so feeling quite buoyant at the moment. Currently sitting in the nursery in the dark so baby small sleeps before we go so isn't a horrid grumpy overtired baby when we get there Xmas Grin

MissingMyBaubles · 08/12/2012 14:32

Ouch! Just had a lot of catching up to do. I wish I could say it was because Missmarbles had decided to sleep through from 7-7 but sadly notXmas Grin Should have known that the first lovely night we have had in over a month was actually a dream fluke, and we are back to 3-hourly night feeds. At least transfers have been successful on the whole, and some self-settling has occurred. Liking the idea of a sclide though, Amey, just to make sure they remain relatively successful.

I am just sat in her room while she has an afternoon nap, because the Virgin Media man is banging holes in the walls for cablingXmas Hmm Actually she has just woken up and is chatting and gurgling. I'm glad coz she has been a bit of a grump todayXmas Sad

DD1 has been off school again with high temps and poorliness, thankfully Missmarbles is unscathed this time. I have been grotty though, so not sure how I would manage with two poorly kids and no sleep. Anyway, DH and her are in the shed doing her homeworkXmas Smile

How's Kid, Goat? Missmarbles still managed to grin even with her poorly throat. Very cute in a Xmas Sad kind of a way listening to them croakingXmas Grin

Susie - What gestation was Babyloo born at? He's a day older than Missmarbles isn't he? She was 39+1. I think their similar patterns are amazing. I have cracked and started weaning Missmarbles this week too. I was going to wait til Tuesday (exactly 5 months) but she was so ready and this has been proved by the fact that she isn't really spitting much out; seems her tongue is mature enough to put it in the right placeXmas Grin We've only been doing first tastes. She's a gutsy little scoffer and loves to see her little bowl appearing Xmas Grin

Jealous of Small and Susie's recent mammoth sleeps. Good work babiesXmas Grin

MrsN Sorry you hare having such a rough time at the minuteXmas Sad. My mum and dad live about 200 miles from us too, and I really miss them, more so since Missmarbles was born. It's good that you have managed to tell your DH. He needs to know and understand that it may not even be a personal thing towards your in-laws, just how you are feeling at the minute, with so much going on, and the general lack of energy etc. Hope you are getting some relief for your eyes too.

Well done getting out of the house on time, Elvis! I struggle to do that without a babyXmas Grin I wish I could put the baby seat in the front in my car, but I can't switch off the air bag. DD1 was always in the front because it didn't have a passenger air bag and it's so much easier to deal with.

Heff Hope you're enjoying Cornwall. My brother and his wife and baby have just moved there, and I can't wait to come down for holidaysXmas Grin

Enjoy your conference today, Funch. I've applied for a new job and am already stressing about if I get an interview what will Missmarbles do, if I'm away the whole day. I know I have to deal with that for work, but it will be sorted by then.

Sorry you're having a hard time, Amey. Glad it sounds like your DH is supportive in suggesting the EBM night feed. Sounds like you're doing the right things and you need to do what works for you as a family.

at Mini. Haven't seen Nervous for a while - hope she's ok. at lurkers, and sorry to anyone I've missed. Tis a mahoosive post coz I'm on my laptop Xmas Grin

All these flavoured lattes sound delish, but I don't like coffee, much to DH's chagrin. He says the flavours mask the coffee taste but when I taste his, all I can taste is coffee - yak!Xmas Confused I did make some coconut slice the other day. It's like bounty; didn't last longXmas Blush mmmmmmm........

Susieloo · 08/12/2012 15:42

I'm sat here trying to work out if babyloo was 39+1 too and my maths simply isn't up to it!! I was due on the 16th which was a Monday and I had him by planned section at 39 weeks on the Tuesday before which was the 10th so I think that is 39+1??!!! Would be amazing if miss marbles and babyloo were born at the same gestation and may explain the similar patterns, we start weaning on Monday which I am very excited about being such a lover of food myselfSmile really hope their pattern for tonight involves a huge sleep, feel knackered.

MissingMyBaubles · 08/12/2012 16:20

Gosh Susie! That is 39+1!! I was due Tuesday 17th and had a c-section the Wednesday before (11th)!!

Ameybee · 08/12/2012 16:44

Eek heff i would've been well pissed off! I sometimes don't think they realise how knackered we actually are! I think my DH only realised when I left the handbrake off that day! He's got a cold manflu again... Confused I got him some lemsip max strength to help shut him up whinging
Currently at PIL - nice being looked after! Hoping baby bee continues to take expressed milk as I'm thinking i would love to take DD swimming next weekend! She would love some mummy time! Although I need my legs waxed before or ill scare all the kids!!!
We've resumed normal feeding after the hunger strike yesterday - weird as it almost seems like it was a sign that things were not right as I prob wouldn't of bothered expressing and trying him last night if he hadnt refused to feed!
DH is being incredibly supportive and says to see how expressing goes. He's not pushing me to ff which I'm glad about as I need longer to think about if.
I don't mind expressing but sometimes it makes my nipples a bit sore whilst I do it - doesnt anyone else find that? X

Susieloo · 08/12/2012 18:02

That explains the starlight barking then marbles!!

heff agree with amey I just don't think they get it, I am really struggling to go back to sleep after the 11-12 feed and its really frustrating-dp can't understand because he thinks if I was that tired I would sleep!! He is however making me spaghetti and meatballs for tea and does buy me chocolate which is great but not necessarily what I need sometimes.

amey I've not experienced any pain when expressing unless my nipple has been rubbing against the pump.

Christmas tree went up today and babyloo was fascinated by the lights, it even stopped him dementedly chewing his teether for half an hour.

We are on last feed before bed after another sub two hour nap day, I'm going to bed early tonight to read and try and catch up on some sleep.

Have a good night everyoneSmile

MrsNPattz · 08/12/2012 18:04

Hello! Would you believe me if I told you I'm now full of cold?? Confused Lol

We finally got to bed last night at midnight, and then the bloody house alarm went off at half 2!! So very annoying. Little man somehow managed to sleep through it and woke up at half 5 for a feed which would have been brilliant had it not been for my earlier rude awakening. We then slept til ten past 9, I fed him and then hubby took him so I could sleep and I slept til gone 12! Then I got another hour with little man on the sofa so I am feeling a bit more human and my eyes are a bit better today thanks goat. I literally had a shower this afternoon and got right back in my pyjamas haha

heff oh dear - I hope you told him how annoyed you were! Really frustrating but I'm sure he has apologised Grin

marbles thanks - yes I have been worse since being pregnant, I was a lot better settled before then.

amey hope things are ok today!

Hi to everyone else and to all lurkers Smile

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HeffalumpsAndWoozles · 08/12/2012 20:41

How has everyone's day been? mrsn pyjama day sounds great! :)

We've been out and about today, PIL wanted to take DD1 to the garden centre to meet Father Christmas so we all went along this morning, it was so huge and full if amazing Christmas stuff I could have bought half the shop! DD quite liked meeting Santa but drew the line at sitting on his knee, she got to chose her present and she chose garden bouls (sp?) so we've been playing bouls in the living room tonight before bed.

We went to Padstow this evening to look around the Christmas market which was really nice, Rick Stein was there doing demonstrations and there was lots of tasty food & plenty of Cornish cyder Xmas Grin

Just treating myself to a lovely hot bath now while MIL has babylump and DH (finally forgiven) puts DD1 to bed. It's our little nephews christening in the morning so we're all scrubbed and ready for our best dresses in the morning. I'm so excited to be godmother but a little worried I'll fall arse over tit on my way to the front of the church as I haven't worn heels since before I was pregnant Xmas Confused

marbles your poor DD1 she's caught everything going recently hasn't she, hope she's feeling better soon. What part of Cornwall has your brother moved to? We're looking at South of the county on the north coast for our move when it finally happens. Don't want to be too far from family here but also don't want to be on their doorstep either!

elvislives2012 · 08/12/2012 21:04

mrsn yuk full of cold too. Pyjama day was def way forward then!
heff your day sounds lovely. I love padstow. Are u on holiday or do u love round there?
We've had a calm and quiet day. Just chilling with a little walk halfway through. Just done our nighttime routine and about to go in for first transfer of the night. Sending positive sleepy thoughts to all the babies out there Grin

elvislives2012 · 08/12/2012 21:49

Argh. Fort transfer fail of the night....

MiniPopsMum2012 · 08/12/2012 21:54

hello hello hello, just a quickie as I am behind again... hope you're all well, it's been busy again which is a bad sign for sleeping babies... anyhoo, we've had two awful nights sleep, last night hardly got any and ended up with minipop sleeping on me for a fair chunk of it as I was just too tired to try and settle him back,,,

Hope all the poorly babies and children are on the mend, and poorly eyes are healing.. and anyone else that's not well.

and Heff I am right there with you about the crap other half, I am seething at the moment with mine, but that's a whole other story, and I have cold coming, too. they're just crap aren't they?

Coconut lattes are made in my own kitchen Xmas Grin Nespresso have brought out a coconut espresso capsule, so I made my own latte (inspired by the gingerbread ones) and it's SOOOOOOOO nice. My lovely friends brought me a little Nespresso machine last year for my birthday and it's fab.

I've just sat down for 15 mins to eat my dinner before I start with the chores again while little one is in bed (and before supper bottle) and I seriously don't have the energy to get back up. Xmas Confused

So sorry for being crap at keeping up, I feel like I am so behind on everything just lately, there just aren't enough hours in the day to get stuff done...

Wishing you all more sleep (as ever).. Thanks

MrsNPattz · 08/12/2012 21:59

2 transfer failures already - going to be one of those nights!

heff your day sounds really lovely!

mini hi - it's lovely to hear from you so keep checking in when you can Smile sorry you are having rubbish nights though Hmm

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Ameybee · 08/12/2012 22:03

Ah heff padstow reminds me of my childhood! Use to love it there! We use to go to a crazy golf place there that you had to walk up loads of steps to!

mrsn glad you got a mammoth lie in! Sorry u have a cold Confused!

We had a lovely day at PIL - think DD wanted to stay. Came back at 715 when they were both tired but it hasn't worked with babybee. He's gotten so overtired after waking up as soon as the car stopped that I'm still trying to settle him & he wouldn't take ebm as planned. Me and DH have agreed coming home at bedtime prob not best thing whilst we are trying to establish not very successfully some sort of routine at bedtime!
I'm tired now, hoping for no 2 hourly feeds tonight! X

MiniPopsMum2012 · 08/12/2012 23:21

Oh no MrsN hope it doesn't turn into one of those nights. I've got to do transfer shortly and I have to admit I'm not confident Confused

amey I aways tty to be home before bed time routinely so that we always do it at home. Minipop's such a rubbish sleeper that I try to keep it as consistent as poss to try & helps.

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