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AIBU to feel a bit sorry for this newborn baby?

131 replies

TheCountessOlenska · 13/01/2012 12:43

Just seen some pics of a new baby on Facebook - only a couple of weeks old. I counted at least two other family members aside from the Mother giving the baby it's bottle.

Surely in your first few weeks on this earth, it's not too much to ask to be snuggled safe with your mummy breastfeeding

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cheesesarnie · 13/01/2012 13:03

yep suppose it depends what was in the bottle and if the others giving the bottle were random passers by while the mother was in the pub?
dont drip feed(bf v ff vdfGrin)

McPie · 13/01/2012 13:03

Do piss off and get a life!

EauDeLaPoisson · 13/01/2012 13:04

I'll end it now- parents who bottle feed are shit

EauDeLaPoisson · 13/01/2012 13:05

I'll end it now- mothers who breast feed are shit

Quenelle · 13/01/2012 13:06

Don't be silly.

EricNorthmansFangBanger · 13/01/2012 13:07

Here have my very first Biscuit

tooearlymustdache · 13/01/2012 13:08

parrots are left handed

SleepyCaz · 13/01/2012 13:08

FFS Get over yourself.

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shagmundfreud · 13/01/2012 13:09

In the governments BIG (8000+ women involved) 5 yearly Infant Feeding Survey the main reason women give for choosing to bottlefeed is 'so someone else can feed the baby'.

Presumably so the mother can get on with doing something more pressing or important, like housework.

StrandedBear · 13/01/2012 13:09

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DoesNotGiveAFig · 13/01/2012 13:11

Bananas and custard. THat is all.

coraltoes · 13/01/2012 13:11

Or sleep shagmund, or return to work, or go to hospital, or just you know, not make assumptions about people and be a generally judgemental woman.

MudAndGlitter · 13/01/2012 13:12

Parrots are right handed fgs. Studies show its better for them to be right handed until 6 months when they can use their left.

eurochick · 13/01/2012 13:12
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bakingaddict · 13/01/2012 13:13

I must be very chavatastic in some people's eyes....I actively chose to FF my DD

I'm off to t'pub now with little 'uns, just got to put my tracky on and my argos finery. I think i'll let her have a bit of shandy in her bottle as a treat, it is Friday after all!

cocolepew · 13/01/2012 13:13

Grin @ White Lightening

AllGoodNamesGone · 13/01/2012 13:15

I would be more concerned that the new mum was staggering around making tea and sandwiches while her visitors sat on her sofa and fed the baby tbh. I am sure the baby is happy but it can be hard for a formula feeding mum to hang on to the bottle if someone else is determined to have a go. If she is having a lie down, and is happy for someone else to feed her baby then fine. At least BF does ensure mum has to sit down and be given the baby at feeding times.

(I have done both!)

naturalbaby · 13/01/2012 13:16

will the mother be putting the baby in a nursery full time to go back to work in a couple of weeks?
was there a GF book in the pictures too?

what kind of mother is this?!?

tooearlymustdache · 13/01/2012 13:17

so are seagulls, they like to fly to the left when learning to fly but soon adapt and become ambiwingdrous Grin

OhDoAdmitMrsDeVere · 13/01/2012 13:18

Blimey one of the reasons I chose to bf was so I didnt have to do anything else.

Particularly useful by the time you get to DC5 when 'I am FEEDING the baby' becomes your get out for changing toddler nappies or making tea.

MrsB24 · 13/01/2012 13:23

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MudAndGlitter · 13/01/2012 13:24

Ambiwingdrous Grin just made me snort tea everywhere.

Moominsarescary · 13/01/2012 13:24

I like that MrsDeVere

My poor baby was fed through a tube, by nurses who I doubt loved him at all

My child is DOOMED I tell you

Realy grow up or at least start an interesting not been done to death thread

nethunsreject · 13/01/2012 13:26

Me too, MrsDeVere.

shagmundfreud · 13/01/2012 13:26

"Or sleep shagmund, or return to work, or go to hospital, or just you know, not make assumptions about people and be a generally judgemental woman."

I was joking. Not very funnily obviously.

Of course there are many serious and pressing reasons why people choose not to breastfeed. Particularly in the UK.