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Extended breastfeeding and your GP

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frannyf · 17/09/2005 09:48

Just wondered if anyone else has had bizarre or interesting comments from their doctors or other health professionals. Ds is 2.5 and we both went to the doctor yesterday. I asked the gp if what he was prescribing was ok to take while breastfeeding, and he instead checked if it was safe to take while pregnant. He realised his mistake, said "Oops, sorry, you said breastfeeding," then did a double take, looked at ds, looked at my notes to see if I had another baby (nope), and just looked astonished! I laughed and said "Yes, we're still breastfeeding, I know it's a bit unusual," and he asked if ds was having solid food as well!! DS is a very tall, chunky, healthy toddler sitting in front of him by the way. I thought it was funny, but was also stunned that a doctor would be so ignorant about breastfed toddlers.

The other gp we see sometimes is the only medical person who has ever been supportive of my extended bfing. She is Muslim and says the Koran states you should bf for 2 years, but not many mothers manage it. She says I must have the constitution of an ox to keep it up (another load of nonsense, but at least complimentary nonsense!)

The health visitor at our clinic is the worst. Whenever we walk in, instead of saying hello, she calls out (across a crowded room of mothers with babies) "Still breastfeeding, are you?" Cue looks of horror.

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frannyf · 19/09/2005 19:55

Harpsi - I think after 2.5 years of exclusive breastfeeding I would look like Flat Stanley. LOL at the idea of a biscuit for your 'underweight' 8 mo dd. Of course you could always have done as we saw one family in a motorway services doing with their baby, and just give her a Happy Meal.

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spidermama · 19/09/2005 20:08

LOL franny at 'FROM YOUR BREAST'.
Atta' boy. He knows what's good for him.

frannyf · 19/09/2005 20:16

Spider, he is completely enraptured by breastfeeding and always has been. When he has been out for the day with his dad, he runs back in shouting "And now some milkies!!!" with great glee. I must admit sometimes there are days when I would like to close my bra for good, but I would have to be pretty hard hearted to deny him when he gets such delight from it.

Oh lord I must quickly post on the "vestibule" thread once more - I can hear developments from upstairs!

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Kirstie76 · 19/09/2005 21:16

Health care worksers in my area were completely the opposite - one midwife has established a get together for breastfeeding mums and encourages extended breastfeeding, when I said I didn't want my ds to have a bottle at all she encouraged me to try cup feeding.

When my situation changed however she wasn't too supportive of mixed feeding - I think sometimes they need to find a balance!

frannyf · 19/09/2005 21:34

Yes good point Kirstie, there is another thread going strong about a midwife "insisting" a mother breastfed. Let's face it, we do not like being told how to feed, or how not to feed, our children. And quite right too.

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Kirstie76 · 19/09/2005 21:58

I think deep down we all know what we want to do .. my mum couldn't feed me and my sister didn't want to feed her 2 longer than absolutely necessary so we've al been bottle children but both (sis after discussions!) appreciate that ds is my child and i'll do what I feel comfortable with ... sis does occasionally call me an earth mother due to combination of sling instead of pram, cranial osteopathy sessions and breast feeding at shock horror 9 weeks (that was meant sarcastically!!)

frannyf · 19/09/2005 22:04

Using a sling and breastfeeding for any length of time, you are on the slippery slope to earthmotherhood for sure. You'll be knitting your own mooncup next...

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