I would agree with @PoppyBread. The bombing of Harrow by certain posters in this thread is relentless. The pattern of their posts is the same, the first half is fluff about Harrow school or a Harrow house having once upon a time been great at this or that and then the second half is a bomb chucking “so it’s just such a shame that it let itself down by letting in so many foreigners”, all delivered with a tone of imperial and unquestionable authority. It’s relentless. No facts, no figures, just conjecture based on hearsay and husbands that attended many years ago, allegedly.
My view remains the same and I have visited that school and Eton as well as Winchester many times. It is the same view as echoed by those on this forum that are Harrow parents or were recent Harrow parents.
Quite frankly, I see no obvious difference in the ethnic make up of Harrow, Eton, or Winchester. I would encourage any parent that is seriously considering those top three boys schools to visit and judge with their own eyes. The relentless negativity in this particular thread about one of those three schools does not match what I have seen with my own eyes.
Also, for those still not through the interview process, don’t fret. Once your boy has his offer then you will be invited to the school to meet with the other boys that have offers (and their parents). So, for those worried about this thread I say don’t worry and once your boy is through you can see for yourself before having to make any final acceptances.
For those that are considering the three schools, I think the quality of education will be very much of a similarly high standard. I understand that differences between them are to a great extent splitting hairs. Once upon a time the academic differences between the three were notable but times have changed and now they are all in the same ball park. I think in terms of non-academic culture the old joke about an old boy from each in the bar and the fetching of the chair still rings true and is a fairly decent representation of the culture at those three schools. In any event, boys departing any of the three schools should be equipped with a sense of gravitas and pride that they attended the very best.
As for the general increase in foreigners point (which several posters have made in reference to the entire boarding establishment, rather than just Harrow), yes I am sure it is the case that most or all British boarding schools have let in more foreigners than was the case from a husband’s generation ago. But I do not see any difference between the three top boys schools and I still think it is in the region of 20%-30% foreigners at each.
I also understand that the proportion of old boys sending their children to the three schools is roughly the same as it always has been. Would the relentless negativity in this thread persist if the title were discussing the Aga Khan (ex-Eton) or Nehru (ex-Harrow) sending their brood?
Now, in terms of foreigners the situation is potentially different at some other places. Radley in particular is more ‘White, British’; Radley is also less academic (and more sporty) than the aforementioned three. Tonbridge is also in the mix as a good single sex school - it is more academic (and less sporty) than the top three but we only visited briefly as it is weekly boarding (and so I do not have much of an opinion of it). I don’t know enough to reliably comment about Co-Ed schools like Brafield, Charterhouse, Millfield or Marlborough.
Our criteria were top academic standards, ample extra curricular activities, single sex, and full boarding. That narrows it down to three and only three. Having visited each many times (and spoken with current parents) I genuinely think that that joke about the bar and the chair is the best representation of the difference between them, nothing to do with ethnicity or nationality.
Also, our boy attends a Home Counties prep, I attend most of the inter-prep matches, and reading the comments here about how the Home Counties prep schools are less diverse than these secondary schools not only cannot make any objective sense but also conflicts with what I have seen with my own eyes. The Home County preps are the feeders to Winchester, Harrow and Eton. Of course their make up matches with that of the top secondary schools.
In sum, if ethnicity or a domestic-focused “old boy network” is the top criteria then by all means apply elsewhere (and omit Eton, Harrow, Winchester). But if your criteria entertain any of those three schools then I think you should go for all three because the differences between them are really quite narrow. Personally I think the differences boil down to (1) more introvert (Winchester) v more extrovert (Eton & Harrow), (2) more individual focus (Eton) v more team focus (Harrow & Winchester), and (3) more sport focus (Harrow) v more books focus (Winchester) (with Eton in between); and nothing at all to do with nationality or ethnicity.
Whatever the agenda is of those being so negative about Harrow, let’s just ease up a bit. It is a great school, as are its two nearest competitors. For those thinking about where to apply, I say ignore this thread and apply to all three, you can’t go wrong with any of them.
Good luck to all!!