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Due March 2010 - I'm a baby get me out of here!

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annamama · 20/02/2010 12:13

New ante-natal thread... the post-natal thread is here

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Henrietta · 21/02/2010 15:21

pixie dont you just hate that term ...not allowed...i also will prob not be allowed to deliver in water...

Pingpong · 21/02/2010 17:21

Hi Ladies
Just marking my spot really. Nothing to report here. 39w + 3 now. Keeping busy as Granny Mac is here so try and have a least a wee outing each day. DH keeps telling me suggesting to me to go walking but I can't manage far at all. Been eating curry, eating pineapple, rubbing pressure points and drinking RL and lots of ball bouncing but nothing significant happening.
Feeling very, very damp in the knicker department and have back ache but have realised now that the back ache is due to very large bump and over compensating for that rather than signs of early labour!
ST article was a bit lame really IMO.
designerbaby good to have you back - life certainly sounds very hectic for you and I can't imagine staying up til 1 or 2 am each night. My routine is more like 9 or 10pm - followed by pregnancy insomnia and nocturnal reading for a few hours in the wee small hours.

PixieOnaLeaf · 21/02/2010 17:35

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angfirsttimer · 21/02/2010 18:08

Great new title

Re: the times article - its like the world is shocked that pregnant women and mothers have 'gasp' OPINIONS!!

Nothing much to report here either 38+5 and feeling like everything in there is changing/moving but no indications that bub is about to make an appearance any time soon. Bags all packed by the front door though.

I admit I am a naive firsttimer but I think its terrible that women are being told that they are not allowed to have/do certain things for their birth. There is an interesting publication by AIMS www.aims.org.uk called 'Am I Allowed' that my Doula loaned to me.

annamama · 21/02/2010 18:46

Anyone ever read the Mail / Sunday Mail? There's a writer called Liz Jones and she makes me so angry, she's always going on about women being on maternity leave for "years on end to produce babies" and "it's just an excuse to put their UGGs up" and other crap like that. Of course she hasn't got any kids herself or a partner for that matter, the old bitter hag. Grrr...

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angfirsttimer · 21/02/2010 19:11

My blood pressure goes up if I so much as catch a glimpse of the Mail....

Caitni · 21/02/2010 19:16

Mumbot posted on the old thread - all went well with her planned c-section and her DS2 is here - congrats Mumbot

Absolutely hate Liz Jones - she's tragic and the Daily Mail milks her for all she's worth, controversy-wise

Smac am with you on the walking - am trying to get out and about for a walk every day and it's getting harder and harder.

Ang I'm also 38+5 and think baby will stay put for a while (my DH has banned me from saying that out loud in case baby decides to take me at my word and stay put ).

Dinner's on the hob so time to head off for a bit!

DrSkidaddle · 21/02/2010 19:22

I am absolutely SURE I posted last night and gave a graphic description for the benefit of annamama of hoe DH did a DIY dilation check when I was in early labour with DS - what happened to my post? Do you think it was censored?!

Anyway hello everyone, and welcome back DB

Love the name Sofya, rebecca - beautiful. DH and I STILL haven;t decided what we're going to call this one (40+1 and counting...)

Oh and have you seen mumbot's post on the old thread - she has had her baby boy (well I suppose we knew that but is now confirmed!)

Off to read Sunday Times article...

Caitni · 21/02/2010 19:33

OK, dinner delayed because my DH got a work call...

I'm bemused by the ST article. I can see the humour in playing up the "Dads, beware!" aspects but really...we're not that bad

Rebecca love your DD's name - gorgeous

DrSkid come on babySkidaddle stop keeping your mum waiting! That was in a virtual shout by the way . Anyway, would be interested in the [gory] details of your DH' examining you re dilation...as I have revealed on this thread I'm some sort of cervix fiend

Siamese thanks for the link! What a lovely lovely birth . The baby was just gorgeous too!

Designerbaby god, sounds like you've been busy! But it's productive busy-ness, so I imagine it's very satisfying. And just think how you'll love the space even more once your second LO arrives! If I were you I'd stick by my guns for a more natural approach this time. You had a horrific experience with your DD and you're perfectly entitled to exercise your choice and do what you can/want to to avoid a repeat.

Pacific I love your posts you know . You're very funny (I was sniggering your virtual whip crack - that's what my DH thinks of me too at times I suspect!).

Pixie glad you're up and about but take it easy, although I was at your twins sliding out!

IWCAS what a lovely gift! I'd love something like that - very thoughtful of her.

Henrietta never mind the cervix checking lady, sounds like you've done your homework...forewarned is always good in my book but really hoping you don't have such major tearing this time.

OK, I know I've missed lots of people off. I'm now officially afraid to touch the list as it's just so easy for people to drop off - so am glad people are adding themselves back in! - but yet love seeing each new updated version

hecklephone · 21/02/2010 19:43

Hello all

Just read the MN article in the Times - amusing to see how a man sees us! (he's wrong, of course, but it's amusing )

manda your Dove shoot sounds fab - can't wait to see the end results. I really like their advertising anyway - now I'll be able to say 'that's my cyber-mummy-pal'!

IWCAS your baby shower - sounds great and also your Caterpillar quilt, what a lovely gift.

I'm very impressed with those of you who are getting 'hands-on' with your self-examinations - but I'm a bit when it comes to that sort of thing, so I think I'll leave it to the midwives (unpleasant though it is!) And there's not a hope of DH - ahem - 'helping' with that either...although we've been such a dry spell recently I am starting to feel quite sorry for him. After all, there's not much hope of getting back to proper action for another few weeks. So well done, anna - glad you're still enjoying yourselves!

good to see designerbaby back again - I really hope you get more opportunity to rest up though, hospital admission for a bleed doesn't sound fun.

I did see that water birth video on the One Born...website - it looks so nice and calm, I really hope I can be so relaxed, although it was kind of odd to see baby's face appearing under the water! Still I suppose if I do manage a water birth I won't really be watching from the same angle, so it probably won't bother me...!

pixie hope you're getting plenty of rest too - you're doing so well getting this far with TWO babies to contend with, so MN-ing from your bed is very well deserved I feel!

Is everyone else busy bouncing on their birthing balls? I've been totally neglecting mine, even though it's sitting around in the corner of the room. I did loads of bouncing last time, but this time just feel so tired that the sofa is too tempting. However, I'm concerned that I'm not really helping baby into the right position or whatever. I guess I'll find out on Tuesday, when I'll see the midwife. I'm looking forward to finding out if baby is at all engaged yet, although I don't feel at all like any kind of action is imminent.

Have a good Sunday evening, folks. x

MummyElk · 21/02/2010 20:31

have to talk in emoticons, since am too [zzz] (dammit thrown at the first hurdle..... = ) to properly construct a sentence.
at mumbot will glance back at old thread. huzzah.
always at pacific, she's got a gavel for us, she was always going to have a whip for DH no??!
at ST man, talk about using poetic license! i can't imagine he barely glanced at the thread. clearly a [twat emoticon]. ok article though, he stuck to the formula his Ed obviously asked for
at cervix checking, i would have the conversation with DH but it would only lead to shenanigans, see first nonemoticon for how i feel about that. poor dh.
Tomorrow is DH's 2nd birthday ( how am i mummy to a 2yo?!) so today we took her to soft play. It smelt like an old people's home (believe me, I'd know) and they buggered up our food, ie didn't bring it. Not the best way to keep a heavily pg lady , in fact i waddled over and looked very and they gave me money back. Cue a MaccyD's inhaled in the nearby Asda car park. Domestic goddess I am NOT. Poor DD.

probably missed loads. sorry. did i mentioned i'm beat?! hope all well and have a nice evening (anyone else finding that Dancing on ice is leaving them cold this year? can't get into it)

PacificDogwood · 21/02/2010 20:48

Hello, ladies !

Congratulations to mumbot - will go and find her post when I am done here! We all knew she had her CS booked, and still it is such a thrill to hear about another new arrival .

Ahem: re cervical self-examination - yeuch !
You might find it strange, but much as I have no problem to examine other women's bits in my professional capacity , but my own?? No way, Jose! That's what I attend my esteemed fellow Health Care Professionals for .
And anyway, it might interfere with Denial...
But good luck to all of you who are having a go

Gawd, I am so overusing emoticons - see, again!

We went to Drumlanrig Castle today: really nice country estate in the middle of nowhere. Lovely grounds, the Adventure Playground unfortunately was closed for the season still, but we had a nice walk. I was v glad to have DS3's company because his walking speed about matches mine at the mo'. And they have a lovely tearoom as well....

Note to self: must get birthing ball out of garage and dust it off.
Must pack bag
Must NOT forget DS1's birthday next week

Must go to bed early tonight because no doubt come 4am I will be awake again, gah!!

Iwonka · 21/02/2010 21:03

Yay!!! I've finally caught up! It was a massive sprint but I am FINALLY up to date!

(waves to everyone excitedly)

It's so fantastic that we're starting to have our babies!!! It makes everything so much more real. A BIG congratulations to Evitas, Pureeandpearls, Rebeccacad and Sarah - you must be so thrilled to finally have your little bundle of joy! What great news!!! I will go and check out the postnatal thread once I've recovered from reading all the posts here.

I had so many things I was going to share while I was reading all your posts but now so much of it feels irrelevant. So much has happened in the past few weeks and the excitement of birth is definitely in the air...!!!!!

I am 38 weeks +1 today and I can not believe how fast time is flying by! I guess I am like most of you, very eager to give birth and join the growing group of new mothers.

Everybody keeps commenting on the fact that I look like I'm ready to pop! I do feel quite big, but don't want to get ahead of myself. Most first-time mothers give birth past their due date. I still have another MW appointment scheduled for March 10 (I'm due on the 6th).

All seems to be going well, aside from the minor hip pains which makes it difficult to sleep, and the sore wrists. A little while ago, I was diagnosed as being hypermobile, which is no fun in pregnancy but apparently it will be a big help when it's time for me to give birth. Baby keeps moving around, poking me everywhere. At this point, she is head down, with its back kind of twisted and leaning on to my right side. Hope that it will not turn back to back.

Unlike most of you, I think, I've skipped out on the NCT classes, and have taken a hypnobirthing course recommended by a friend instead. It was great, both HD and I really enjoyed it. I am really hoping for a natural birth, no drugs, no epidural. Fingers crossed that all the prep I've been doing will help and it will all go very smoothly. I too am planning a water birth. I've been reading quite a lot about it and it seems to be a great way to reduce the discomfort of labour.

That's my little update.

IWCAS at the turn around in your ex's behavior. I hope it will last and he proves to be a supportive partner!

Manda, I hope you're feeling better now. Can't wait to see the photos from the shoot. Sounds very exciting!

Cainti, I did the list thing as well! and I felt much more relieved knowing that it was all on paper rather than in my head (which was keeping me awake at night thinking I would forget something important). My DH just finished cleaning our carpets today, which was one of the last BIG things we needed to do in preparation for the baby. So now we can relax, more or less. We are almost ready! (hope she hears me)

Scooby26, I've also been cooking and freezing and cooking some more. Unfortunately I can't quite keep up with the cooking as we end up unfreezing what I've just made. It feels like a never ending struggle really, as I am hungry most of the time and the amount of food I consume is just unbelievable. Fortunately, I love to cook! DH says he's gone on a diet and tries to limit his food intake but I feel a little guilty it's because of me as he's not fat at all.

Regarding nursing bras, I went to John Lewis for a fitting a few days ago (I was a little under 38 weeks). The lady advised me to get one that looked absolutely huge (I'm now a C, she recommended a DD) but apparently you are supposed to be able to fit your whole fist in there, and that's how you check whether it will be the right size. I hope she's right. Anyways, I found some nice nursing bras at Mama's and Papa's, more sexier than the ones she showed me at JL.

Designerbaby, your house sounds like it's going to be absolutely lovely. I'm you! Hope the rest of the work goes well and you get everything done in time.

Annamama, hope you are feeling better. I packed my bag a few weeks ago, actually it's more like a suitcase. Probably taking way too much but I'd rather do that than miss something.

I'm sorry that I wasn't able to comment on everyone's situation personally, that would be just an unbelievably massive post, as opposed to just a massive one.
Hope those of you struggling with different ailments/emotional ups-and-downs/DH struggles are copying well. It won't be long now before we all see our babies!!!

This is probably the most exciting time to be on Mumsnet, isn't it? I wonder which one of us will be next?

Hope everyone's had an enjoyable Sunday. I'm off to watch a relaxing movie.

xoxo

ilovegreenbeans · 21/02/2010 21:12

bikini wax- check. (ouch!)

Ok baby, you can come now

itwascertainlyasurprise · 21/02/2010 21:45

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PacificDogwood · 21/02/2010 21:51

siamese, thanks for that link to the waterbirth - that's the kind of birthing experience I demand hope for, fabulous!

BlueyDragon · 21/02/2010 22:08

Just marking my place on this nice shiny new thread. Waves to everyone before heading off to bed as I also have major pregnancy insomnia, not enhanced by DD who seems to have forgotten a) how not to wake up in the night and b) that pre 7 a.m. is not getting up time (yes I know anything post 6 a.m. is good but she used to sleep until 7 very reliably and I'd rather got used to it).

My state of denial is slipping - is anyone else feeling a bit scared as well as excited? Sorry for the whinge but I'm swinging so much between up and down anyone would think I'm hormonal and tired.

Oh, I am...

Night all.

Arcadie · 21/02/2010 22:43

FOR PITIES SAKE!!!!!

I go away for a quick weekend before DC3 arrives and LOOK at this place! Babies everywhere. A new thread. Tsk tsk tsk..... I'm going to have words with the head girl about this.....

(BTW HUge congrats to Rebecca and Sarah)

TakeLovingChances · 22/02/2010 01:27

Greetings at 1:30am from a sleepy TLC who cannot actually get to sleep

I am in awe of the ladies here discussing examining their own cervix's! I would feel too yucky doing that, although I might get DH to have a feel... he is a qualified GP after all

While we're on the topic of TMI, I have some TMI details of my own.... I had a bit of a 'show' this afternoon [proud emotion]. I'm 38+3 so I'm guessing that is apt timing for a show. I've read that shows can happen around 10 days before labour actually starts, which would be about right.

My questions for all your more experienced ladies are: a) can shows last over a number of days? I'm noticing little bits of goop each time I go to the bathroom (sorry more TMI). And b) is it safe to have sex in the days between having a show and labour starting?

Hope everyone is well.

DrSkidaddle · 22/02/2010 02:51

Hi TLC if you're still up - yes a show can go on for a few days - usually starts as snotty and then becomes a bit bloody. I've just had the beginnings of one too and have been having contractions since about 9pm although very mild so wondering if this baby might be coming after all (and hence why I am up at 2.30am!). FWIW both my DC came between 1 and 3 days after the show but it can be 2 weeks or even more I think.

blueydragon - COMPLETELY normal to feel scared as well as excited - it is all a bit scary - and I don't think admitting that even qualifies as a whinge!

Agree that the waterbirth was amazing and hoping to replicate it - although it did surprise me that she made no noise at all when the baby's head crowned but a big overwhelming groan when the body was born - poor thing seemed in shock when she was actually given her baby. The MW was fantastic too, wasn't she? One of those of me please!

Couldn;t be bothered even reading that ST article properly - they're a bit obsessed with MN in the ST - always ranting on about it.

Glad things are goign well with your Ex IWCAS - what fantastic timing and hope it all works out for you

caitni - as requested (gory details of dilation checking)... I think he just watched his hands and felt (rather than looked) and estimated how many cm dilated I was (4) which I reckon was pretty accurate as we went to the hospital a couple of hours later and I was 7cm then (and had DS within an hour so just as well we went when we did!)

heckle - no I don't even have a birthing ball although I have been crawling on all fours quite a bit since I found out my baby is posterior..

Right, off to walk/bounce round the house and hope this baby makes an appearance by tomorrow!

Pingpong · 22/02/2010 04:27

hey DrSkidaddle another insomniac here! Hope things are progressing for you.
TLC I think sex is fine regardless of show. The only time they say sex is not recommended is once your waters have broken because of the risk of infection. My friend had a show at 26 weeks but didn't give birth to 37 weeks so a show can appear at any time and isn't always a sign of imminent labour - but fingers crossed you don't have to wait too long!

Caitni · 22/02/2010 06:02

Another non-sleeper - finally got up at 4.30 and have been pottering since.

DrSkid sounds like it's happening for you! Really hope those contractions have built up and your baby is well on its way [excited]

TLC v exciting about your show

Iwonka I also did a hypnobirthing course and am hoping for a similar birth to you . Feeling calm yet excited about our home birth and have the birth pool all set up and filled (and have been hanging out in there for an hour a night since Friday - v relaxing!). But I also did an NCT course, which was very comprehensive...and is now invaluable for the friends I've made - we've been meeting up at least once a week since I've been on maternity leave and it's even better since all the babies started arriving!

Right, off to potter some more and listen to some R4.

LouBudd · 22/02/2010 08:45

Hi Ladies, haven't been on here for soooooo long due to being constantly ill. Can't believe that some of the babies have arrived.
Am feeling your pain Sariska. I am 37 weeks and have been feeling uncomfortable for a whilebut it has moved to a whole new level now. Thought it had all started night before last but after a few hours it all stopped. Am off out to get my Clary Sage and Raspberry Leaf tea today. Anyone else started that yet? This is my third baby and didn't try it with the last 2, so am going to give it a go. Hope everyone gets some sleep before their little ones arrive.

siamesecatwoman · 22/02/2010 08:46

hi
I didnt sleep well either - again - my hips hurt randomly in the middle of the night - and never the one Im laying on, always the one 'in the air' - whats that about?

Caitni and Iwonka Ive been listening to the natal hypnotherapy CD too (no course for me) - do you ever make it to the end without falling asleep? Every time I have woken up and not heard the end - I hope it ends well It does say you may absorb it unconciously but Im not so sure!!

DRSkid are you still here? offers pineapple - I think the whaling wailing noise in the waterbirth video was the DH?

Arcadie where did you go? anywhere good? Did the chicken pox clear up/ hows the tooth situation?

Off to buy feeding bras today - thanks for all the advice

PacificDogwood · 22/02/2010 08:57

Morning, ladies, just checking in.

My delightful brother was volunteered by the boys to do the school run , so off they went and I am having a hot cup of tea!

Exciting times chez DrSkid and TLC -'tis so nice to see how things are beginning to happen

Righto, as my DH says: things to see and people to do ...