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stac14 · 07/02/2010 21:18

Thing the title says it all thanks to winter We can gab lol !!!

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violetbubbles · 06/03/2010 09:24

Hi everyone
So sorry that I haven't been posting much lately - just been really busy. Sold our flat, bought a house...and juggling a crazy work schedule.

I'm looking for a bit of advice - I know this has been covered before but we've finally started looking at buggies. OMG - the choice!!! I have no idea where to start. What's everyone else buying? How did you come to a decision? Is it cheaper to buy online? Is there a long waiting list for the popular buggies? So many questions - hoping some of you can offer some wisdom.

Thanks x

stac14 · 06/03/2010 09:54

hi violet fab news bout new house. Pram wise think it depends on what your looking for. I went for the silver cross 3d. Its easy to put up and down, folds compactly and is really light. I drive so didnt want a big fussy pram that would take ages to get into car. I also liked the fact its a make i knew. I would go into the pram centre talk to one of the advisors there, they will point you in the right direction. Online you can be cheaper but check out the pram you like in a store so you get the feel of it.

violet and becky i got the tommy tippee microwave steriliser in the pram centre for £5 and 6 of the naturally close bottles for £10, the unit had 2 bottles and the cleaning brushes. Great bargain lol

Got my voucher from tesco for the pampers hamper, you get lots of freebies just for buying a pack of nappies. But you need to join pampers village and tesco baby club. Hamper worth £30 x

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Spirael · 06/03/2010 10:53

Morning all! Ahh, finally the weekend. There should be more weekends! Hopefully everyone is doing ok today?

I'm not doing too badly, my cold seems to be vaguely clearing and I actually slept through again last night! I feel much better today... However I've managed to develop a productive cough, complete with lovely green mucus. (TMI, sorry!)

Not sure what to do about this one... Anyone got any advice? I don't have a temperature and don't feel too bad generally, though I do sound like a raspy bloke at the moment. Am I safe to just ignore the green gunk and hope it goes away? Or should I begin the problematic job of obtaining medical advice over the weekend?

In less icky news, I got my Tesco voucher for the Pamper's Club today too, Stac. I already acquired a lot of size 1 nappies... I might get a pack of size 2 for the deal in case LO pops out bigger than anticipated, since my brother and I were both relatively large babies.

As far as prams go, I ordered the Britax B-Smart 4 from the Glasgow Pram Centre at the Baby Show in London, since they were offering a pretty good deal there according to my research. It's the updated model of the Vigour+ 4 from last year and is only just coming available, so I'm not receiving the parts until end of April at the earliest. Fine by me, not much I can use them for until LO arrives anyway!

When I was looking at prams I basically made a list of everything I needed and all the stuff I liked, as well as the bits I didn't like. Then I just compared all the types until I found what I was looking for!

I wasn't too worried about having a small size and low weight, I'd prefer it a bit sturdier and to last longer. I'm pretty strong and most of the time would be using the pram from the car rather than on the bus. Also, all the buses I catch are the big modern double deckers with designated pram areas, so I didn't need to worry about fitting there. However if you're using a lot of public transport where you're likely to be heaving the pram around, then small and light might be the way forward.

From stalking watching other parents around the city in various conditions (including all the snow), I reached the conclusion that having bigger rear wheels made pushing over rougher terrain easier. Also that four wheels were a lot more stable than three. However, smaller wheels and three instead of four is better for portability.

I wanted to go for a travel system, for ease of being able to clip the car seat into the base when driving to pick up DH and just wandering up to his work to meet him, or when popping into the supermarket with DH for a few odds and ends on the way home. Saves disturbing LO if we've finally got them to sleep!

For the main seat, I wanted one that could switch between forwards and backwards, as well as being able to lie flat for a newborn. I also wanted one that folded down with the rest of the chassis - rather than having to store each part separately. This is partially because I'm planning on going abroad later in the year and it'll be much easier to hand over (and retrieve) one piece of pram at the gate than two!

Little bits I preferred were that the brake bar didn't take up the entire back part of the pram, so I could use my foot for leverage when setting it up or lifting up curbs without locking the wheels. I wanted good suspension, but didn't want air tyres that could puncture. Wanted the hood to have a net area I could view through, to keep an eye on LO when they're facing forwards. Reasonable sized basket was useful too, as was height adjustability as DH is tall and I'm a bit short. Pretty (gender neutral) colours nice, but not vital.

Nice bits with the Britax is that they do what is basically a 'car cot' that covers two car seats in the back, that you can lie the baby flat and still hook in via the seatbelts, as well as attaching to the pram chassis. Well tested for safety, it's got a roll cage around it in case of an accident and such. I liked this because I'm at least two hours (in various directions) from family, and I don't want to keep stopping on journeys to take LO out of the car seat for a 15 minute break if possible to avoid! Keeping them flat means long journeys are easier.

I looked at the iCandy, the Tako and the Britax, mostly. Tako is a Polish company no-one seemed to have heard of that I couldn't view beforehand, so that scrubbed that idea. Support would have been a nightmare too! iCandy was nice... But the Britax did everything I wanted, was easier to find/test and I liked the car-cot and the safety record they are known for. So, that's what I went for in the end.

Sorry for the stupid long post... Hope that was useful though! I'm a first timer to this too, so I have no idea yet whether all my research will pay off on the day.

Can definitely advise going and having a play, however. Head for the nearest Mothercare/M&P/Etc and mess about with every pram they have! After the initial demonstration from the staff and once they've wandered off: take the prams apart, drop them down, put them up, clip them together, race them round, etc. You start to get a really good feel for things and work out what's important to you.

Cookies for anyone who made it this far!!

stac14 · 06/03/2010 11:12

i'm going to get my pack spireal too nosey to leave it lol. I haven't bought any nappies yet but will go for first size and 2nd size as ds was 10lb 6 so have to be careful lol. Its the glasgow pram centre i'm getting my pram from. Is that were your cots coming from too? Mil is buying us a cot/bed from there x

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violetbubbles · 06/03/2010 11:18

Wow - great posts Spirael and Stac14 - lots of good advice in there - I'm going to print them out for DH to read. I'm not very strong in the upper body, have skinny little shoulders so think I need something lightweight...but then again, DH is 6ft 6" so need something that extends for his arms etc. I think I will be doing more off-roading and park walking than town walking. Someone recommended the Quinny but then my sister, who is a nursery nurse told me the wheels on the Quinny always puncture. I also want a buggy that has the option to be facing me as I push....apparently it's good for babie's development. I think a visit to the Glasgow Pram Centre is definitely called for! Thanks again xx

Stac14 and becky123 - did I overhear something about exercise classes starting up again at the PRM??? Are you going? What days/times are they running?

Really happy that all of the legal stuff to do with the sale/purchase of the house are out of the way now. Moving date is 5 weeks yesterday - eek!

Spirael · 06/03/2010 12:26

Glad it was helpful, violetbubbles! I just hope my research was along the right path. It's not hard to tell how I tend to spend my working days, huh?

I forgot to mention that I did look at the Bugaboos too... Then saw the price tags and ran a mile!! Checking prices online is definitely the way forwards. Weirdly, if I hadn't have got the discount at the Baby Show, I'd have been cheaper to get all the parts from different places than getting a package deal. Just something to consider...

For the cot, I'm getting one of these in beech, straight from the manufacturer, Stac. They were selling them for £80 with a mattress at the show! Though it was a foam mattress, so I ended up acquiring a sprung mattress with the MN discount. Figured I'll keep the foam one as backup. Also managed to pick up the matching drawer for the cot on eBay, and PIL have offered to pay for it all... So feeling pretty happy with all that, really!!

I am disturbingly organised sometimes. It really takes some of the fun out of things! No impulse buying for me, I've made a huge little spreadsheet on a month by month basis, telling me what to order and from where, to spread the spending. I keep checking the products each week or two in case there are any offers so I can get things cheaper.

But then that's what you get after you marry an accountant and have to justify big expenditures for his budgeting.

Chulita · 06/03/2010 12:38

Lol spirael, I wish I'd been that organised with my first pushchair. We're going to make do for this second child but I really wish I'd got a different one!
DD seems to be getting over this illness, she's not got a fever today (after yesterday's shocker of 104.9...) but she's just whingey and sad today and not eating which is always a sign of something wrong!
I'm going to make soup and slump on the sofa, I'm wiped out!

Jojobil · 06/03/2010 13:08

I got my Bugaboo second hand (1 year old in great condition) on gumtree and paid £ 300 in total with all the possible accessories...

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WhatSheSaid · 06/03/2010 19:05

Violet I just got a cheapish, lightweight buggy that was suitable from birth, is easy to fold up and fits in the car. It faces forward and has always been fine for pushing around the park/supermarket/etc. I'm short and didn't want some huge heavy pram. It cost me about 40 quid.

Needle · 06/03/2010 20:38

Um, hello

I hope it's ok to just come and post out of the blue- if that's some breach of etiquette, please let me know.

I'm expecting my first baby in July, and I have to confess that for the first 4 months of my pregnancy I was way too scared to actually go onto Mumsnet, but after 16 weeks or with all of my non-pregnant career obsessed girlfriends telling me that my life is over, I've admitted defeat and decided that I have to seek experienced support!

So, yes, that's about it. I'm 23, newly married and nervous as hell! Any advice would be gratefully received.

Thank you!

Wonderstuff · 06/03/2010 21:05

Hi all.

Spireal my cold went like that a couple of days ago - I just left it, when DD gets a cold (being 2 she gets quite a few) the green mucus is always a sign it is on its way out, and sure enough I now have just an annoying tickly cough

violet sounds like you've been mega busy. What I found with pushchairs was that none of them do exactly what you want them to. Wish I had thought of going second hand with my first pushchair, I loved the Silver Cross 3D when it was a pram, but would have loved a rear-facing pushchair - they were all that bit more expensive. Having said that it has been well used and well loved and if my in-laws didn't insist on dragging it around with the front brakes on it would be in near mint condition after 2 years of pretty solid use. As it is the chassis is slightly bent and it needs a bit on encouragement to fit into place when I put it up.

I also have a Mothercare Alto - which is maclaren esque, got it because it is lighter and can be folded and unfolded with one hand which is useful on buses and trains, had it 18months and the back wheels are so worn I'm going to have to replace it soon. It cost £80 which I think is pretty poor value compared to the Silver Cross which will easily keep going for another 2+ years.

Chulita glad your dd is on the mend - 104.9 must have been a bit scary. Hope you have a better week next week.

viksam · 06/03/2010 21:25

Hey people, hows it all going??
Im tired, fed up, unconfortable and bubbly in the belly! God knows what im going to be like in a few months!! Re push chairs, I have orderd the icandy peach, we liked the robustness of the frame and the good sized wheels as i think i will probably do a lot of off roading, it turns to face you and comes with the carry cot which i reallylike. It was a lot of money though, but i would second what some of the others have said about finding an independant shop, in my experience(which is limited!) they give good service e.g they offer a repair service and if they cant repair they will give you one on loan.
Needle Please God dont be nervouse talking to us, everyone is ace and will give you honest opinion and support. I dont have many friends who have been through this and have found my main support through the guys on here. I hope you dont feel like ur life is over, thats a pile of BS! I will admit I havent found pregnancy easy so far but im starting to get really excited for the future and actually feel like starting to buy 'stuff' now. How are you feeling? have you been well so far?
Hope everyone else is having a good weekend!!

Wonderstuff · 06/03/2010 21:39

Welcome needle - it will all be fantastic Life as you know it now will change alot - but it'll be fab. I have come to the conclusion that children are harder work than I thought, but the good bits are better than I ever imagined. What's worrying you the most?

Needle · 06/03/2010 21:41

Hi Viksam,

I'm ok now that I've taken the plunge! My pregnancy was a bit of a surprise, and most of my friends just don't get that I actually wanted to have babies young and be a housewife and think that 23 is way too young. I have pointed out that my husband is 37 and therefore if you add the two of us together you get two 30-year olds, but I'm not sure they bought it(they're all terrifying career girls!). Personally, I couldn't be more excited, especially now that I'm feeling the baby kick and can relax knowing that it hasn't evaporated!
Honestly- i seem to be having a dream pregancy, no morning sickness or weird cravings, just massive boobs and better skin. Which probably means I'm going to give birth to the antichrist...
I got married two weeks ago though, so I've not really had time to start worrying about it yet! Everyone on here seems to be so organised though- Husband and I don't even have any furniture yet!

Wonderstuff · 06/03/2010 21:53

Congratulations on your marriage

I'm not organised - only got round to moving out of our 1 bed flat in December - dd turned 2 in last November!!

I did once meet someone who had a dream pregnancy, an amazing homebirth and a daughter who slept through from 6 weeks, anything is possible!

Needle · 06/03/2010 22:01

Wonderstuff My eyes have just lit up like fairylights! I do know a couple who had their first daughter about a week ago and said she's barely woken up yet!

We moved into our lovely little 3-bed house at the beginning of December, but what with the wedding, and husband's latest play, which took up Jan and Feb, we've just not had time to sort the place out. We've finally started stripping wallpaper, but with the arrival of the spring we seem to have got a little distracted.

My midwife did tell me that as a rule younger pregnancies are easier, but I do sometimes wonder if I'm being a little naieve about the whole thing- all the women in here seem to be so organised, while I'm kind of floating around knitting booties and getting fat.

Have just read my husband's entry in our baby journal. Under "Daddy's feelings while waiting for you to arrive" he has written "Thinking about buying a boat."

Um...

Wonderstuff · 06/03/2010 22:09

PMSL @ boat!

It was just this one woman - my darling didn't give me a whole nights sleep til she was 18mo. I think there is only so much preparing you can do tbh, motherhood is really a learn on the job vocation.

Needle · 06/03/2010 22:16

Yes. I think his logic is that we wont be able to justify the expense after the sprog arrives. We used the same justification on the wedding!

My mum always says that I didn't stop screaming until i learnt to talk and I haven't shut up yet.

Emster30 · 06/03/2010 23:29

welcome needle!

Have spent most of today with my friends' 10-month old baby - she is so adorable. I feel like I've overdone it carting her round though, and her sitting on my bump etc! Bedtime I think.

Needle · 07/03/2010 00:15

Thank you Emster30- I want a bump! Now that my wedding is out of the way I feel like I'm ready to start looking pregnant, but my baby is invisible under anything except really stretchy clothes. I feel so impatient! Anyway, bedtime for me too I think!
x

WhatSheSaid · 07/03/2010 06:19

Hello Needle

Don't worry, your life isn't over, in fact it's about to get even better

Though it may be a bit tiring for a while

But honestly, it's fab, best thing I ever did. Nothing else compares to it.

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DeeLite · 07/03/2010 08:23

Hello Needle, congrats on your wedding. It would have been annoyingly supermum of you if you'd had time to organise for a baby and plan a wedding!

I have no wedding (or anything else) to organise and I have done zero planning for the baby. All I'm doing is reading loads of books on birthing. I've not thought beyond that. I have been thinking about buggies but am not going to buy anything until about six weeks beforehand. For one, baby's room is currently laid out as an office / spare room and I want to keep that use as long as possible. Secondly, I don't want to clutter up the place with baby stuff - there's plenty of time for that over the next few years. Thirdly (and the real reason), I'm too disorganised. Things are always last-minute for me. I work best under pressure.

Have a lovely sunny Sunday everyone

Chulita · 07/03/2010 09:03

Welcome needle!
I did the same as you - got married within a week of finishing uni and got pregnant soon afterwards. Life isn't over at all, in fact it's really just starting.
DD isn't actually better, I spoke far too soon...how long does it take to get over a viral infection? [bleary]
I haven't done anything for this baby yet, we've got ages, it's not due til July (yes, I am a procrastinator)

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