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Due in June 16!! - the before we all graduate!!

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katzguk · 31/05/2005 09:23

one new thread as requested!

hoepfully this will get those babies to start appearing again!!

Still nothing here!

have tried everything:
pineapple
raspberry leaf tea
Clary sage/Rose/Jasmine oils!!
SEX!!
White trousers

nothing!

well today might try everything all in one go!

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MrsWednesday · 21/06/2005 17:40

Congratulations to Franniban and family on the speedy arrival of your DD. What a fantastic name you've chosen.

And Bubbaloo, your post brought a tear to my eye, you have waited such a long time for your baby, so pleased he is finally here. Congratulations and welcome to the world Oscar. Blimey he is a whopper!

Good luck Coop, hope things go well tomorrow!!!

mrsflowerpot · 21/06/2005 17:52

Well you go off to the midwife's and all these babies appear! Congratulations Franni, Bubba and Pink!

Hoping your sweep has results for you Coop!

No sweep for me, baby still too high up. So it is looking increasingly likely that I will be hanging around until the 27th and then going for a section. Ho hum, at least we've given it a try. Will just have to put my feet up for the rest of the week.

Right, am off to get ds his dinner, bit late tonight as we have just come out of a 40 minute Star Wars related tantrum (sodding Lego, they don't actually give you what is on the picture on the front of the box and he just is not happy with that...)

katzguk · 21/06/2005 20:32

congratulations to all the new mums!!

this thread is getting very long - maybe we could kick start the last few babies by starting one last due in june thread!

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luckylady · 21/06/2005 20:58

Congratulations to all those who have had your babies.

Cooperoo- Good Luck, hopefully we will have some news soon.

Bubbs- You had your little bundle on my DS 1st birthday - Great Day.

gwenynbee · 21/06/2005 21:07

Dear ladies, I hope that all is well with you all. Sincere congrats to all the new mummies out there. I am so envious!! I can't wait for my line on the stats page to be blue!!

Doused myself in clary sage oil last night, I have been feeling rather menstrual all day - but no other obvious signs. I see the MW tomorrow...if she doesn't tell me that I am in labour, I am going to scour the net to see if there's anything about DIY Membrane Sweeps!

Mrsflowerpot- perhaps i should build my own stone circle in the back garden and make an offering to the Gods. If he doesn't come this weekend - I'll be gutted I could have gone to Glastonbury!!

Charliepops - hey if you're brave enough for "IT" then I might pounce tonight (after all it is full moon!) and I do resemble a werewolf seeing as I can't bend to shave my legs and my other bits! TMI? LOL!!

Cooperoo - the phone is now constantly going - have thought about changing my answering machine message - to "No he hasn't arrived..." but I thought it was a bit too rude!

Take care ladies and the very best of luck to you all who are "waiting"......

x

LipstickMum · 21/06/2005 21:55

Evening gals

Gosh, even I thought labour was beginning tonight Felt nauseous and had minor period pains. It threw dp and I into action, I can tell you! Car seat went into the car. My birth bag was finally pcked with the last few bits and bobs. DD's bag was packed. Circualr email was sent to everyone possibly involved in dd's care while we are at the hospital. And of course I have done some last minute tidying up !!!

I don't think labour is starting, but it just made us realise "omg! this is going to happen some time soon and we need to be totally ready!"

We'll also finalise a name tonight too I suspect.

And I think we'll also be for good measure too, 3rd time this week! Dp is very happy!!!

Charley, I was thinking I could quite easily get some of those tennis whites dirrrrty But you're right; Jim Morrison they aint.

Night night everyone!

mrsflowerpot · 22/06/2005 10:33

Where is everyone this morning? You're all off having babies aren't you?

Feeling really sorry for myself today, but won't bore you all with it. Hormones, hormones. Also feeling periody, but baby really hasn't engaged, so it's unlikely to be anything. Planning another lazy day, dh is home unexpectedly which is good (although he will have to reschedule the meeting, probably for next week, aaargh).

LOL at your dh feeling lucky, Lippy, mine does too, except I think that me and my 'ooh, my back' comments in the middle of it are a bit off-putting for him.

Right, my only job today is to clear some stuff out of the kitchen and get all the stickers off the kitchen units that ds has stuck there. I like the fact that he put them there as rewards because I had been a good girl, but not sure they add value to the house, so had better get on with it while he's not here to see it and object.

Hope you're all having a nice day. Coop - hope by the time you see this you have your baby!

pipdee · 22/06/2005 10:34

Hi there - congratulations to all those with new babies - sorry i haven't posted but you all seem toknow each other really well and it was hard to keep up with all the postings. looks like some of you could be well on the way.

I too have a toddler- well just two- birthday party was last weekend, on saturday TG which wasn' as unbearable as Sunday- when we mainly stayed indoors as it was too humid outside. the weather certaibnly changes her mood- so can empathise with everyone else. Finished work lats week so very strange as dd is still in nursery and have 3 days to myself - first timesince she was born!- hair done yesterday- facial and pedicure today ( can't see bikini line so won't be bothering with that!!) cleaning carpets and settee tomrrow!!

Would be extremely convenient to go into labour today and avoid carpet cleaning so went for it last night IYKWIM - including spicy food and RLT ( not at the same time...)

Currently bouncing on ball- hence appalling spelling. Seeing mw later today- was 3/5 engaged last week. She has never mentioned sweeps etc to me is it only something they discuss when you are over? In fact we haven't discussed the birth at all i think if it is your second they jus assume you know what's going on. However for the last four weeks I've still been thinking 'is this it' at the slightest twinge.

Hey ho- DD was spine to spine last time and despite a realtively quick ( if very painful) labour once waters had gone - ended up with forceps so anything would be an improvement this time.

Sorry to babble on- doesn't seem tobe anyone else around this morning so thought I would fill up the board.

Just realised maybe a new thread has been started......

PollyLogos · 22/06/2005 10:34

Popped in to see how cooperoo is but from reading her posts I guess she is at the hospital. Hope it all goes just how you hoped cooperoo! Will look forward to hearing your news!!

The rets of you are very quiet today. Have you all gone into labour??

beachyhead · 22/06/2005 11:03

Dear June lot - just popped over from the August lot as we are very of your table showing when you had your babies. Can whoever is responsible pop over to due in August and give us a teach-in?

RoseBerry · 22/06/2005 11:24

Well, about to get stuck into my daily pineapple. Contemplating going down the town today just for a walk and distraction. :-/

PinkArjuna · 22/06/2005 11:33

Right I better tell all before Wimbledon starts for the day.

WARNING - BIRTH STORY

Lippy - Boris Becker cough I am rather keen on Andy Roddick myself - nothing beats a bit off all American beef Gosh I can't believe I said that!

Well Uwila yes I have been taking Arnica since a week before the birth because I read somewhere if it was in your system it really helped. I have been shovelling it down ever since though haven't noticed anything yet. Though saying that I have nothing to compare it to.

Well I wrote the morning before I went for my induction. I went in and they did exams. Honestly there was no dignity left having internal examinations. Well my cervix was far from favourable so I was given a pessary. Osiris was still only 2/5 engaged and after sitting arounf for 6 hours there was a tiny difference but not much in the unfavourability stakes. Well Bubba was a bit funny on the monitor so they were reluctant to put in another pessary and decided to go with the Syntocin (sp?) drip instead as if there was a problem that could be stopped but once the pessary had been used they wouldn't be able to reverse there decision and he was looking a little funny on the scan.

So I went back up to the delivery suite demanded my bathroom - which was really great it had a lilac sort of colour in the room which was really relaxing. Well I went on the drip and used my tens machine. Things started pretty quickly and I was getting really strong contractions for 60 seconds within half an hour. This went on for five hours as the syntocin was adusted and increased. The tens machine was amazing I didn't seem to need anything else until the syntocin seem to have the effect of making the contractions constant. I was only getting a 10 to 20 second break inbetween them and it was getting pretty difficult.

Well at the 5 hour mark I had another exam and the midwife had thought with contractions that strong that things would be well on the way. However on checking I was stil only 2.5 cm dilated this was quite upseting and I could see she was re - evaluating. Well they had the consultant in and we decided that an epidural was a good idea as whatever was going to happen was going to take hours.

I had to take my tens machine off

You know those things are amazing because when I took it off for the epidural I was suddenly faced with the most accute pain I have ever felt in my life. This coupled with the contractions 10 - 20 seconds apart was unbareable and I suddenly started wailing that I'd made a mistake. I was crying for ages and it was hard for them to do the epidural because of the contractions. So I had gas and air which was pretty trippy.

Well after the epidural I finally fell asleep for a while and woke up a few hours later. Then I was just sitting around while lots of people came in and out of the room. It seemed that Osiris was still only 2/5 engaged. Well another half an hour went by and I had another exma which showed I'd still not dilated anymore. then the contractions just started to slow down despite the drip and Osiris got really distressed. There were about 4 Dr's in the room and the monitor looked pretty scary and they all looked dead worried so they came and spoke to me about a c section.

Well all of a sudden I had about a million people on me and I was saying 'can't you do this one at a time' because they were topping up the epidural and doing various other things but they looked really stressed and said there wasn't any time so I thought I better shut up and get on with it as I realised he may be in trouble.

Well I had the section and they held up a muelling baby all slimy and head lopping off to the side. I was crying because I was so stressed and cold and afraid he was a mutant. Well it turned out when they passed him to me that he really was cute. I was sort of shocked.

Well in recovery I seem to be really rather impressed by him. I couldn't quite believe I had done it and he was well and responsive. Well I seem to be madly in love with him.

I don't really think I had a bad time of it but people seem to be saying gosh it sounds awful. I just well its over and I never was one to dwell on a bit of physical pain. I think it was a positive experience. I'm lucky I guess someone else would be really upset and traumatized.

Oh Sorry about the story to those who haven't had their babies yet I didn't mean to make it sound awful because it really wasn't. it was only one day in my life.

Well I'm off he needs feeding before wimbledon begins. Good luck to anyone who may have a baby today - Charley you are still waiting, weren't you due Mrs flowerpot.

Lua · 22/06/2005 12:24

Pink, glad it all ended up OK, and you were nottraumatized by it!
BTW, any chance you need newborn vests or babygrows? DS is too long for them and I would love to give it to someone that needs it!
CAt me with your address if you think you could it! Or, anyone else that think it could!

LipstickMum · 22/06/2005 12:30

Morning all

Quiet today! Lots of people off giving birth, I am not one of them, thank goodness. Last nights scare has made me get my a into g and finish all the things I mentioned at last!!!

Pink, thanks for the birth story. It sounds like you had a decent time of it pain wise. I'm glad the TENS machine worked for you, it didn't for me, just irritated the fck out of me being stuck on all that time. My dd's heartrate was dipping too while I was pushing, not surprisingly, those babies get stressed out quiet easily by the ordeal. What an outcome! A gorgeous little boy who you love, what could be better!!!

Hi Pip, Lots of us on here have been chatting since the blue line appeared, but lots have jumped on in at all stages of pregnancy! It's tricky on these threads though, I think we all have the feeling at some time or another that "everybody knows everybody else and no-one speaks to me"! We're all super friendly on this site though, the more the merrier.

Pink, I know, Boris is my 'wild card' we're all allowed one aren't we...?!!

mogwai · 22/06/2005 12:31

ooh Pink....congratulations and eek at the birth sroty...but you do sound "tickled pink" with your baby!

Feeling soooooooooooo sorry for myself today. Have managed to drag myself into the shower and even shaved my legs (had to sit on bathroom bench and use large glass bowl from kitchen...total SIGHT). This is the third day I've been sitting alone in the house - even my baby friends seem to be working. I need stimulation. Oh yeah, and dh working all weekend, so it's gonna be a marathon of loneliness at this rate - I may just go off my trolley.

Have been waking up at 4am for no apparent reason other than obligatory loo break "Stop the Coach!!". Last night I had a contraction that actually felt like a very bad period pain (previously just tightenings across top of my bump) so thought "hey ho".

This morning - not a sausage, well, except a disappointed sounding MIL checking to see had I delivered the goods yet.

I wonder if it would be very rude to change the answerphone message to "no I haven't had the baby" and not pick up the phone?

mogwai · 22/06/2005 12:32

and hello Pip - I think you are the warrington lady?

LipstickMum · 22/06/2005 12:37

Mog, start screening calls

pipdee · 22/06/2005 12:50

Hi Mog- no Leeds actually. Must rush off for pampering- will check in later, how many are left now to give birth?

mrsflowerpot · 22/06/2005 12:51

Hi Pink, good to hear from you - sorry it was all a bit manic for you at the birth but so pleased Osiris is here safely.

Can't relate to Boris Becker I'm afraid, but kwym about a wild card - mine is Gordon Ramsay (shhh, dh doesn't realise the reason I'm hooked on Kitchen Nightmares is that he always takes off his shirt...)

Hello Pip, please come and join in, we are getting a bit thin on the ground here!

Mog, no definitely not rude to screen calls. Our phone isn't too bad, but the nursery run is a nightmare, at least half a dozen people say 'haven't you had it yet?' every time - can't they see me ffs. I am going to have to brave shaving my legs later, then I am going to make dh paint my toenails if I can't reach (think I am even too big for my patented 'sitting on the stairs' trick now). I'm amusing myself in my general fed-up state by making him do stuff for me that he really doesn't want to do but can't really say no to. Once he has played beauty salon assistant I am going to make him clean the kitchen cupboards that I can't reach properly.

mogwai · 22/06/2005 13:06

Mrs F, I kind of know where you are coming from with Gordon Ramsay. Did you know he refused to be at the birth of his children in case it put him off oral sex?

I can see the negatives and positives of that.

Ok am gonna start screening calls. Have also turned my mobile phone off. Isn't it sooo tempting to say "yes, I had it yesterday" to people who can obviously see you are still pg. I'd love to, but don't want to be forever cast as grumpy old cow.

mogwai · 22/06/2005 13:07

mind you, it's a good thing when Gordon takes off his shirt cos it prevents you looking at his face - it's soooo craggy!

Sorry Mrs F

PinkArjuna · 22/06/2005 14:14

is that true about Gordon Ramsey???

LipstickMum · 22/06/2005 14:59

Probably! What happens down ther during labour is so non-sexual I can't quite understand it though!

MrsWednesday · 22/06/2005 15:24

And even though he's got four kids he has never changed a nappy.

Welcome Pip! I am another Leeds lady...there are quite a few northerners on this thread and the post baby one. We are planning a meet-up in the next month or so if you are up for it.

Pink, so pleased you don't feel traumatised by the birth and that Osiris is exceeding expectation . He sounds gorgeous and has timed his arrival perfectly so you can recover in front of Wimbledon.

MrsF, have been chuckling away at your post about your DH.

Lippy,how much more stuff have you got to sort out before the baby arrives?

Mogwai - change your message!!! It must be driving you mad. Although it may add to your feelings of lonelines...

Hope all is well with Cooperoo. And Trib.

Beachyhead, Tribpot sorted out our stats chart and she's hopefully off giving birth at the moment, so when she's back I'll point her in your direction.

Well DS2 has been asleep for ages and I've just been sitting in the garden reading a magazine - I love having a summer baby

LipstickMum · 22/06/2005 17:16

Mrs W, I'm just procrastinating, there's not much to do before the baby comes at all. Stuff like, buy a toothbrush for birth bag coz dp nicked the spare to take in his swim bag when he goes before work etc etc. Piddly little things I assure you

So, we are to hear from Jonah, Trib, Coop and I am assuming by the silence, Charley?? What a swathe!! If only I knew how to fill in the chart!

We're off for a curry tonight, I know it's hot, still I can't wait!! There's something very different about eating a curry in a restaurant than having a take away.