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Due in June....scream if you wanna go faster!!!!

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lynny70 · 26/04/2005 11:00

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MrsWednesday · 04/05/2005 17:23

Ha ha, refined, classy! Thank you Lynny you have made my day . I copied the recipe out of a book!

Thanks for the chilli recipe, I will give it a go next week I think.

Trib, I got stuck into the raspberry leaf tea with DS and he came early, but a lot of people say they tried the same stuff and it didn't work for them.

charleypops · 04/05/2005 19:21

Hi! Sorry to be writing such long posts girls, I'm just not getting time to catch up during the day at the moment

I'm jealous of your slow cookers - it is something I've thought about before, you may have just persuaded me...

Berolina - wow, your working days are incredibly long! Not suprised you're shattered. Amazing the differences between the NHS over here and the German healthcare system! Do Germans pay a lot more tax?

Lynny - Thanks for the Strep B info, I'll look at that link and ask my consultant about getting tested. Oh yes, still doing Friday night curries, now I've been reassured that chillies can't hurt Bump's eyes! Had one last night too got on the scales this morning - I'm now at the weight I wanted to deliver at and my thighs are bigger than they've been in 15 years. There's no excuse. I'm going to stop eating 500g choccy every night and just having one curry a week.

Uwila - all the best for tomorrow - especially the cs thing! x The MWs on my hospital tour were really pushing the "home from home" rooms (x2). Do they have an ulterior motive for this do you think, or do they genuinely believe that pain relief-free delivery is the superior option?

Jonah - I don't mind hearing about your Sophie's sick! I'd post if Charley threw up on my clean carpets!

Trib - thanks for the Strep B link. Hmm, just been looking at the Tricot Slen - another interesting sling..... Shame your friend's being like that at the moment. It is hard for childless people to muster enthusiasm for baby stuff sometimes. They find it boring. They can't help it. I know, that's what I was like a bit , although not with close friends or my bezzy because none of them that still live in the UK have had them. Lol at your mum's "13th June" preference

Lynny - I'm going for the sling over the pouch because it's more adjustable, but if you get the right size pouch, then that looks dead easy. Not sure if I've had Braxton Hicks either ?

KVG - I sincerely hope you don't have to give birth in the street! How lovely of that customer services woman. Ahh.

Coop - isn't MN great when you're feeling moody - no face ache! I'd take the B test if it's on offer - but only if it's more than 50% accurate! Your poor friend! Is she ok about the birth now, or is she, like her dh, still a bit traumatised by it all? My god - fancy having to have a palaver just to get your baby!! and for the poor mite to have been bottlefed without checking first - that, along with the enema and shaving business makes it sound like a scenario from the 70's or something! I'd've gone mad too I reckon. At least you're aware of all this stuff though Coop and you can prepare/ask questions. but like you say, she was comparing that birth with 2 with epidurals - it's bound to have been a very different experience for her and she probably wasn't prepared very well. I wouldn't worry too much about your birth plan - mine's pretty comprehensive, but in the end it might not mean anything at all as things could easily be taken out of my control. Maybe you could just get your key concerns translated to hand to the staff? How thrilling - all those naked torsoed tanned, slightly sweaty young men strapped into manly parachute paraphenalia. Mmmm.

Lua - what techniques does your sis employ to get peopleto do what she wants?? I'd love some tips!

As well as Lippy, are any of you getting period-like pains?

Tea - at this rate you're going to MISS being in the office aren't you? Was today your last day then? Great!!

MrsW - Rolf at your dh's "man vision" my dp definitely has that!

charleypops · 04/05/2005 19:28

I've added a couple of pics of my "first born" to the Yahoo site

bubbaloo · 04/05/2005 19:57

charley-what lovely pics.im more of a cat person but your charley is gorgeous

LipstickMum · 05/05/2005 08:39

Morning all

First post of the day

Good luck Uwila for your appt today, hope it all goes smoothly.

Lots of banging and activity upstairs in my house

I have a busy day ahead, painting and voting dd going off to her Gma's house late morning. Not much else to post, not sleeping well at all so I'm feeling quite exhausted.

welshmum · 05/05/2005 09:14

Morning all
My penultimate day at work, carpet in the baby room and a good night's sleep means I'm in a very good mood. Tra-la-la.
Hope you're all feeling alright too.
Uwila - hope you get what you want today without too much hassle.
Lippy - sorry you're not sleeping, it's pretty crap. I had 5 nights of waking every hour and then last night slept fine - who knows why. Do you think it's low level anxiety about getting stuff done? Just odd that I get the carpet fitted and everything back in the nursery and then sleep. Maybe the closer you get to loft completion the better you'll sleep??
Charley - I can't believe you've still got room in your stomach for curry - that's amazing. I had 3 spring rolls for supper and almost felt too full for chocolate (managed to squeeze some in though)
Tea - congrats on becoming a lady of leisure! (ha)
Coop - I wish your half clad young men were more freely available for viewing. it would be such a great cure for stress 'I feel a bit wound up, oh I'll just wander down the park and have a peek at those lovely chaps'
I had hopes for the carpet fitter yesterday but sadly the only fit thing about Darren was his title.

redheadmum · 05/05/2005 09:15

hey y'all....long time no post I know...just been busy with family stuff, work stuff

I'm officially not going back to work. My doc has signed me off so I can rest some more, and I'm going to take maternity leave from then...such a relief I couldn't have done work and survived......can't believe I'm now in single figures til the Arrival....

I've started my ante natal now. So far v good - all geared to 2nd time mums which means we spend most of our time doing relaxation

it's great, my Dh has FINALLY got the nesting bug and did loads of painting the last couple of days. Just got to get the stair carpet done and that's pretty much sorted. I'm still doing my organising. This week's chore is to finish the filing of paperwork (groan) and then cook like mad for freezing......

hope everyone is fine - I haven't even scanned the posts as I've got to get going this morning - ante natal at 10 and wanted to post!

megi · 05/05/2005 09:53

Morning all!

I am on my parent's computer until Sunday cos dh is away and I couldn't cope with looking after a (not so) ill child all by myself.
Am having the same trouble as you with the sleeping lippy - dd is usually a very good sleeper, but as soon as she is out of her own bed it is a nightmare. We bought her ready bed with us - but she refused to stay in it! Ended up sharing a single with a wriggly, itchy spotty nearly 4 year old - I feel soooo refreshed!
I wish I had entered the home straight with my work welshy and redhead. . Although am off with dd today and tomoz I still have 3 full weeks left. dd arrived 37+0 days, and I am working until much less than that this time. When I returned to school yesterday everyone was so lovely - even the parents who I thought might be a bit off with me. However, the head made it clear that going part time would be a hassle after all. She then had a go at me cos when I ran a voluntary rounders club after school, the kids rushed in to get changed after the club had finished before me and another teacher opened the door to the school before I could get there. I got a minor telling off for allowing the children to trapse mud into the school. I was quite hurt by this cos I don't have to do the club, I had just done an hour of PE with my own class, followed by the club,- I did not have the energy to keep up with 25 11 year olds by that stage and I didn't exactly do it on purpose. Am seriously thinking of just getting signed off if I come across this very unsympathetic attitude too much more.

lynny70 · 05/05/2005 09:53

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MrsWednesday · 05/05/2005 10:14

Good luck Uwila!!!

Lippy, hope the decorating goes well today but don't push yourself too hard. Sorry to hear you haven't been sleeping, it's a nightmare isn't it? DS woke me up at 4am this morning, demanding I go and sleep with him in his bed for some reason. So this, along with DH waking me up fidgeting, and numerous loo visits, meant I woke up feeling exhausted today.

Charleypops, hope you are also not working yourself too hard and that your DP is helping out with the DIY tasks too.

Redheadmum, glad you are back, I did wonder where you'd been. Any tips you and Katz can pass on about relaxation/labour strategies would be great!

Welshie, blimey one more day at work! Mind you, I'm counting down too...only three left after today. Really didn't want to come in today, I could quite happily have gone back to bed for a few hours. So is the nursery all sorted then?

Megi, I think if your doctor is prepared to sign you off work, you should do it. Doesn't sound like they are being particularly sympathetic or helpful at work - your health is more important than anything else, so sod em! Hope your DD is feeling better soon.

Lynny, more pelvic floor exercises for you . It's a bloody nightmare isn't it? I'm so glad my cough has gone, it was starting to get embarrassing (I think I was starting to smell of wee )

lynny70 · 05/05/2005 10:35

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bubbaloo · 05/05/2005 10:44

morning,
just a flying visit to say good luck uwila-hope it all goes well for you today and nice to see you back redhead
will catch up more later on-got a hospital appointment this morning.

welshmum · 05/05/2005 11:37

MrsW - the nursery now has most of the stuff done - nicely painted, carpet down, curtains up. DH needs to do a couple of DIY tasks so I'll have him wandering around in his tool belt at the weekend and then I'll need to go through all the boxes in the attic and see how much shopping needs doing. That'll be me in John Lewis next week buying cute babygros - looking forward to it
Is your space for the new one ready?

MrsWednesday · 05/05/2005 11:52

Haven't done anything yet . I keep thinking I am going to be pregnant forever and not actually have a baby.

I'm going to get started once I've finished work. Just hope the baby doesn't come early!

LipstickMum · 05/05/2005 11:53

Megi, I'm glad most people have been helping you out and the parents haven't been too demanding and selfish about their 'little darlings' (omg will be me in a couple of years moaning to the teacher!! ) Seriously though, your head sounds pretty mean and unsupportive imo!! I would go and get myself signed off if I were you, no 2 ways about it. You probably can carry on until half term as you want to, but you need to take advantage of sitting at home watching 'This Morning' while you can! It's hard to shake the responsibility of your class, especially as they have SATs upon them, but it sounds like no-one else is going to tell you to take a load off, they're happy for you to work right up till labour kicks in.

Dd has gone Time for me to potter about slowly, yet industriously! I'm not doing major room decorating, still bits of furniture that need re-vamping.

That link is great Charley, I'm swaying more towards the Maya, mainly because it's cheaper and I like the ring idea. I don't think I would trust myself with knots and wraps (although I'm sure dp would seize on it as a great opportunity t teach me some sailor knots #yawn# Bless him, my darling boy, he's been so worried about me, worrying about the building work and really took the bull by the horns yesterday to make sure they are aware of a deadline. I piled it on thick with the pregnancy and I think the penny dropped, as I said, they are banging and all sorts today, plastering, you name it.

Apparantly, our hospital only has primitive tape recorders and wont let you plug in your own cd player (because it hasn't been tested) so you have to take batteries... FGS!

There were a few other things I thought I would put onto the 'hospital bag list', cant think right now...

Anyone about??

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LipstickMum · 05/05/2005 11:59

KVG, sorry your dp was in a minor accident, glad it was nothing more serious. Me and dp had a massive fight on Tuesday (well, I lost it completely over the loft ) and then we both happened to be going out separately that evening. I spent the whole night thinking how horrid I'd been and how much I loved him and couldn't cope without him either!! I know what you mean! We made up and are all happy again now

Ah, you lucky people on the 'finishing touches' of your new nurseries...

lynny70 · 05/05/2005 12:06

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MrsWednesday · 05/05/2005 12:25

Sorry to hear about your DH KVG, must have been very unsettling for you (and not so good for your DH either). Hormones have got a lot to answer for - at the moment I am either close to tears or close to committing murder . Poor DH!

Am very impressed that you are still managing to exercise your pelvic floor muscles that way. Have to say, the spirit is quite willing here, but the flesh is weak. In other words, I quite fancy the idea but just can't be bothered.

Lippy, hang in there, not too much longer to go now. The end is in sight, and just think how nice it will be when it's all finished. Glad you are taking things steady.

Right, off out for a long lunch on expenses. If only I could go the whole hog and have a few glasses of wine...

LipstickMum · 05/05/2005 12:35

Hmmm I should take some pics and post them on the yahoo site of my building site/ upstairs never thought of that!!

redheadmum · 05/05/2005 13:05

just back from r-e-l-a-x-a-t-i-o-n......lovely.......

these 2nd time around classes are brilliant, no medieval instruments of torture, straight talking on pain management etc, and then a good half hour of lying on the floor doing deep breathing. Su - bleedin-perb.

Megi - get signed off girl. My doc has been lovely. I've had major family stress, b/p was going up, and just getting exhausted. I knew that if I carried on working I'd pop! So she's been really supportive. Of course work aren't too happy but it's more important to be healthy.

Mrs W- relaxation/labour. well...me being a bit of an old hippy girl, I'm doing yoga and just trying to do deep breathing relaxation exercises. I've got a birth ball this time around and gonna try and use that for labour. Also gonna hire a pool for pain relief. Last time used TENS machine though which was v good. We've just had a whole session in my class about labour positions - standing up, sitting on the birth ball, on all fours, leaning on a chair. all good stuff. That answer your question?

KVG - sorry to hear about the crash, you just feel these things even more acutely when pregnant, hope Dh is OK

Lynny - unfortunately I know what you mean about the knicker!!! argh

Cooperoo · 05/05/2005 13:09

Hello ladies
Uwila - Hope you get the news you want today.
Welshie - LOL about Darren and yay for you having a GOOD day. I haven't yet organised any space especially for the new baby... We need our spare room again in Sep and Oct and so am sticking all bumps stuff in with dd's and it will be sleping with us. I will do bumps bed after the visitors but it won't be much as we move in Jan....Poor neglected baby! I do think I need to think a bit harder about the whole thing.
Red- Hello. Your ante natal sounds fab. Thanks for reminding me to start cooking and freezing. I was a bit inspired by the slow cooker conversations but then decided I won't want beef casserole when it is 30 degrees here. Back to the drawing board. Can we not live on bolognaise sauce and fishfingers?? That is what is in my freezer already with stock for a soup that I will never get around to making.
Megi - Hope dd is doing OK. My dd had chicken pox earlier this year but thankfully was not too poorly. She just got stir crazy from being kept indoors. Def get signed off and stop working. Esp as your dd was early. Give yourself a rest before the madness begins...esp as the part time option has gone.
Lippy - Lol about banging upstairs and sorry to hear about lack of sleep. Can't remember who said it but I am sure it has alot to do with everything you have going on.
Mrs W - Glad your cough has gone. Mine too much to my relief. I am completely unprepared for baby too. Have people packed their bags yet??
PELVIC FLOORS LADIES !!!!
KVG - I am with Mrs W on the mind willing but body not able. Am v impressed and slightly you are still at it lol. Poor DH has given up now. I have told him to try again in 11 weeks or so ha ha. He is now hoping I go overdue as I will be jumping on him if that is the case lol. Sorry to hear about your DH's accident too. What a horrid shock for you all. My mum says she wants a twin cab 4x4 as she is fed up with being run off the road in her Punto. .
Had a good hosp appt today. All OK and head still down. My blood pressure was slightly up but that is either down to the fact they took more blood from me (my story) or the fit men that are still landing on our sports pitches and getting (some of) their kit off. hee hee.
The exciting news from the hosp appt is that we should find out tomorrow whether some money has been made available to send us all to a private clinic in Limassol where I can have gas and air and best of all our midwives!!! Please keep your fingers crossed. If not I will be on that phone with my essays worth of questions and demands. I have just realised I think I was supposed to collect my Tens machine today and completely forgot. Was too excited about the potential good news and that the m/w said baby is well down and my boddy getting ready for it all!! Yay. Treated myself to a Choc milkshake after. Yummy. Have to prep for another Usborne party tonight so had better go for now. Keep well all.
Where is Uki?