Georgeous my DS (an Apr 06 baby, so now 3yo) also refers to this baby in part as his, although he says it?s ?our? baby, meaning Mummy?s, Daddy?s AND his. We hope this means he will not feel like he is being replaced when baby arrives but that he has some ?ownership? too, IYSWIM. I want him to announce to people ?this is MY bro/sis?! Prob. makes no sense!
Duchesse I think your bump does look a little small, but you are a slender person. When I had my DS I didn?t get very big either, and some neighbours actually asked me, when DS had arrived and I was pushing the pram, whose baby he was! They really couldn?t believe I?d been pg (perhaps they thought I?d nicked him from a maternity ward, but I had a massive c-section slash across my belly to prove something had come out of me!). I would say don?t worry if you feel healthy BUT if you are truly worried then speak to the mw. However, don?t get caught up by the charts NHS mw go by to determine what is healthy or not. Like you said, you had suspected IUGR last time (which was exactly the reason we were induced and had hell and all time leading to emcs) so I would say if you feel fine, go with that. But that?s just IMHO, for what it?s worth.
And, before I go to bed, to face endless tossing and turning, I just wanted to ask, re. getting comfy in bed, does anyone else get a really sharp pain under their bust/on top of their bump when they lie on one side too long, say an hour or more? Or is that just me?