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Due in June 2009: The final quarter - packing our bags and remembering to squuueeeeeeezzeeeee!..

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Ineedmorechocolatenow · 24/03/2009 17:58

Here it is!

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June2009 · 08/04/2009 17:03

Oooh naat So sorry you got upset, it's horrible when that happens
It's hard isn't it, family just don't know when to back off sometime.

Laura @ your SIL, that would wind me up. I blame the pregnancy and lack of sleep for being -borderline- -rude- much less patient than I used to be with some people.
Glad you found out now rather than in 2 months time, do you guys have "freecycle" round yours? Someone might have a (good) crib to give away?

snow Good to hear your wedding went well :D
One of my friends is bringing me a sling from Peru. I think it's just a piece of material. I got some kind of sling from tkmax too, (not material, more like a cheap version of "baby bjorn sling").
There are threads about it on "pregnancy" but it confused me more than anything.
I came to the conclusion that I need more than one as they have different advantages.

bigcar good luck tracking what you eat, I do it all the time when I'm not pregnant (part of the gym training/monitoring) you just get in the habit.

I just did 5 hours straight with the bookeeper going through all our customers accounts one by one, I haven't been that tired in a long time!
I think I caught a cold/sore throat of someone from the nhs AN class yesterday, this woman was sneezing and coughing .

I think I need to go lie down!

LittleSarah · 08/04/2009 20:39

bigcar - GREAT Ikea tip! I'm dragging dh out there tomorrow evening, probably will get cot to go with sleeping bag...

Snow - Glad your wedding so well, you must be pretty exhausted!

I had a bit of a long day today with dd. She was off nursery after sleeping in and having a bit of a cough but really she was fine. She didn't do anything wrong I was just being a bad, lazy mum and it made me start worrying again about managing two full-time over the summer. Was just a bad day on my part I know but just worry about me being knackered and having dd wanting attention and then not being able to give it and feeling horrible and guilty.

Got to go to John Lewis tomorrow too and buy an oven proof bowl, trying to make a princess dress cake for dd's birthday and I think I may be in over my head!

lauraloo09 · 08/04/2009 20:42

hiya all

well i went home from work and i had a good look at the crib and I found the all important screws that would support everything, so i was able to successfully put up the crib i feel terrible saying nasty things about my SIL but then i am still angry about her demanding the infant carrier back

hope everyone is having a pleasant evening

Ineedmorechocolatenow · 08/04/2009 22:37

HI all.

Absolutely knackered, but had to stay up for The Apprentice.... bloody hilarious !

The nursery is done and now I'm trying to wash everything that's been up in the loft for a couple of years. It's filthy!

Hope you all sleep well xx

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MrsMcJnr · 08/04/2009 23:01

Hey girls rewarded myself with a quick catch up before bed - I ache all over, really overdone it I think.

Sorry to hear about the aches and pains, crap sleep, intrusive family members, shrinking clothes , demanding toddlers and unreasonable DHs

Great to hear about all the cribs and cots going up, those nurseries coming along and the general nesting vibe going on

Take care all, have a lovely Easter and speak soon

loooouise · 08/04/2009 23:37

Aw Naat, I totally sympathize, I seem to pour so much energy into trying to plan the birth and aftermath and absolutely hate it when other people put demands on me and change them all. I'm glad to hear your mum is up for helping rather than visiting though (crucial difference there). Do you have friends who could put DH's sister up? You will have more than enough on your plate, surely. Sorry to hear you had horrid argument. I hope you've made up.

I've had the shittiest news ever: my darling friend died on Monday after valiantly battling lung cancer, which spread to her spine and brain. She was just 32. Even though we knew the prognosis was so bleak, it was a terrible terrible shock. My ex-partner rung me from Edinburgh to tell me, it was so awful, I started hyperventilating and shaking, my neighbour had to come and try and calm me down. I've been staying with friends for the last few days, as we are all part of a huge network of friends that stretches from London to Edinburgh to Bosnia. It's so cruel; she was a truly exceptional person who was devoted to promoting tolerance and rising above conflict. She worked tirelessly on reconcilation in the Balkans, but sought no glory from it. She and her husband had an extraordinary compatibility...he is from the US and moved here to be with her; his life is now in ruins. I introduced them in New York six years ago and was bridesmaid at their wedding...yet not even three years later we'll all be together again at her funeral. She didn't smoke... it seems utterly unfathomable she died this way and I can't believe I'll never see her again.

I'm so angry, so sad. I know we all experience grief and bereavement, and I know many of you will have had these feelings. Anyway. I wish I had some kind of religious faith for solace, but I know I'm lucky to bearing new life as I grieve.

Argh. Please excuse the self-administered therapy. Sending baby love to you all. Hope you're all well.

June2009 · 09/04/2009 05:34

loooouise So sorry to hear about your friend It's good to hear you've got a support network in place at the moment, grief works in its own weird ways. I would mention it to your midwife/GP next time you see them as it is quite a traumatic thing to be going through right now. Make sure you look after yourself well.

Tee2072 · 09/04/2009 07:45

looouise I am so sorry to hear about your friend. And yes, as june said, do look after yourself and that precious precious life within.

Ineedmorechocolatenow · 09/04/2009 07:45

God, I'm so so sorry Loooouise. That's so awful. It's always so awful when someone young dies, in such a bloody horrible way. My thoughts are with you xx

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lauraloo09 · 09/04/2009 08:52

looouise so to hear about your friend esp dying of such a horrible disese so young. As everyone says please look after yourself and your lovely baby and we're always here if you need someone to talk to x

LittleSarah · 09/04/2009 09:04

looouise - terrible, terrible news, I hope you are managing alright, I'm glad to hear all you are all supporting each other.
xxx

chocciedooby · 09/04/2009 09:07

Loooouise - so sorry to hear about the very sad loss of your dear friend. What a horrible disease Cancer is, and to lose someone so young is heartbreaking.
Glad to hear you are with friends for support right now.
Please take care of yourself ((((hugs))))

bunnymother · 09/04/2009 09:41

Oh Louise - I am so very sorry to hear that your friend died. How terrible for you, and everyone else who loved her. Am thinking of you.

lauraloo09 · 09/04/2009 13:49

afternoon all hope everyone's day is going well!

Sitting in work all alone (good thing as not needing to put up with nasty people) praying that 4.45 comes quick!

insywinsyspider · 09/04/2009 14:36

looouise - sorry to hear about your friend, someone close to you dying is always a shock but to lose someone so young is awful, look after yourself and baby x

laura is today your last day? I'm on count down now (only 5 wks to go) the company is shut down till tues next week so looking forward to the long weekend, glad cot went together alright in the end, and the bonus of being nasy on here is you can vent without them ever finding out

Just been lent the money from my Mum and Dad to buy a new car too something we can fit all 3 baby seats in, will have a busy weekend trying to make my car presentable so we can sell it, the plan is finally coming together, just itching to get baby's room ready too

bigcar · 09/04/2009 14:38

Afternoon all

loooouise, so sorry to hear about your friend, she obviously packed an awful lot into her short life and has many devoted friends, I hope in time that will bring you some comfort.

Thanks june, like you say, just got to get into the habit!

littlesarah, happy shopping I like your style, get cot to match sleeping bag

Ineed, dhs job for the weekend is to find all the baby stuff in the loft. It's not going to be easy, we have so many piles of junk treasured possessions, he could be gone some time!

laura, glad you got the crib fixed, you can't have long left at work now

Where has all the sun gone? Must be easter weekend coming up! Ds is off to cub camp for the weekend so here's hoping it improves a bit!

lauraloo09 · 09/04/2009 14:39

insy last day isn't till next tuesday but got long weekend to look forward to also have 4 hours flexi so going to see if I can use that on Tuesday afternoon so potentially only half a day left for me

Thats good about the loan for your new car, hope you get the one you want

insywinsyspider · 09/04/2009 14:49

bigcar the weather by us looks awful, cub camp could be a wash out depending on where you are

laura no wonde you are v of you almost finishing hope you have loads of lovely things planned for next week
found the car at local garage last night, not had an opportunity to take it for test drive but dh has and I'm trusting his opinion! I hope its right!

bigcar · 09/04/2009 15:05

insy, you would think so, but they go whatever the weather! The kids all have waterproofs and it's a proper scout centre so there are indoor activity opportunities, they always have fun, no matter how wet they are when they come home He'll have a great time, it'll just be me worrying!

Ineedmorechocolatenow · 09/04/2009 15:06

Hello all... I've been awake since 4am... bloody insomnia is back...

Just found out that I am going to be paid maternity pay for 9 months.... I'm so relieved! I was really worried as I've only been working temporarily since September when I left my permanent teaching job. It really eases the pressure as we're on a fixed rate on our mortgage and we fixed at the highest rate, so we're not benefiting from the cheaper rates that a lot of my friends are. I didn't realise how worried I was about it all 'til I got the letter saying I'll get the allowance...

Still washing all the baby stuff from the loft..... it may take some time! As soon as I'm done, I'll start packing my hospital bag...

32 weeks tomorrow. It all feels so close....

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Tee2072 · 09/04/2009 15:06

Okay, time to vent!

Vent one: Women have been having babies for 10000000000000s of years. Why can't someone design maternity trousers that stay up?

Vent two: Women have been having babies for 1000000000000000s of years. Why can't someone invent a safe sleeping pill so we can get lots of rest before baby comes?

Vent three: Women have been having babies for 1000000000000000s of years. Why can't someone come up with the idea that maternity leave should start at the beginning of the 3rd trimester?

Okay, vent over...now trying to decide which Thornton's Dark Chocolate Easter Egg to buy.

insywinsyspider · 09/04/2009 15:21

tee you are so so right about maternity trousers! I'm still yet to find a good pair

bigcar outdoor centre sounds good, I was thinking they'd be in tents

ineed great news about mat pay, we're also on a fixed mortgage, 1 yr into a 5yr fixed and now house prices have dropped can't get another mortgage as not enough equity in our property as loan to value rate has risen, most of our friends on trackers at about 1%... was a really bad decision to fix, isn't hindsight a wonderful thing!

lauraloo09 · 09/04/2009 15:38

tee totally agree with everything you vented about although my mat trousers i've been wearing since 12 weeks are great an over the bump pair from New Look

ineed great news about your mat leave pay must be a load off your mind. I am also tied into a 5yr fixed mortgage (1 1/2 years into it) bought my house at the height of the housing market and mortgage from Northern Rock and fixed looked best at the time due to increasing rates...2 weeks later Northern Rock crashed and rates came tumbling down. I can get approved for another mortgage but due to buy out penalties I would be worse off than I am now very of my friend he is paying some ridiculous rates like 1% and i'm tied in to 7.49%

LittleSarah · 09/04/2009 15:55

Ahhh, all this talk of mortgages makes me both jealous (at owning own home) and relieved (not to have things like fixed rates to worry about)!

Handed in my major journalism project today so very pleased, been taking up a fair amount of time! Plus tutor has already made the top top marks comment so hopefully at least one module I am guaranteed to do well in.

Started thinking about another project now, it's about a marketing strategy for encouraging parents (particularly in poorer areas) to read aloud to their kids. I choose the campaign as it ties in well with what I've been writing about recently. Now I just need to image I am campaign director for National Literacy Trust and think about what advertising we can do/afford, online/viral marketing, how to get journalists to write about it and people to talk about it etc. Then do a presentation and a report on it. Woo hoo, fun easter holidays for me!

Have had quite a cool idea for viral marketing. I think due to it being charity based that TV ads are out of the question, however could make little video clips which are very clever and funny and so get people to pass them on... anyway, I was thinking you could get celebs (and probably those you would't associate with reading and ones that would be considered 'cool') to be filmed reading to their kids but in funny ways...

For example, a footballer is proclaiming to be or not to for Hamlet v serious and dramatic, pan down to child, not listening, perhaps drawing on the walls instead, then voice over says something like reading aloud is great for you and the kids, but perhaps you should let them choose the book... then shot of footballer and child snuggling up to read more suitable thing all cosy and happy.

Perhaps Gordon Ramsay getting all teary eyed reading Charlotte's Webb while children laugh at him quietly, at end he wipes away tears and says to camera, alright then, you do better, or something...

Jamie and Jools Oliver reading a book together to kids, but just terrible, over the top and hammy... again end line, can you do better?

Final idea for now! Lenny Henry and or Dawn French are running reading a book pan away from them to see child running an obstacle course (or something similar) and saying "not now mum!" Then voice over reading aloud is great for all the family, but there is a time and a place, then cosy bedroom shot again...

Anyway, didn't quite mean to go into such detail! Just been thinking about it on the bus and had to get it all out!

June2009 · 09/04/2009 16:39

littlesarah @ your brainstorming in the bus. A friend of mine is doing some work for the council and iirc it was some kinda research about getting deprived parents more involved wth their kids, or something along the lines (I can never quite grasp what it is she actually does!!).
I could ask her more about when she's back from her holiday.

I just got back from the midwife appointment(bump measuring ok, bp ok, baby hearbeat ok, iron levels ok. Good.) It was all over in 15 minutes and we still had to pay £4 for the car park.
Oh and I had a big long list of questions and completely forgot to ask any of it. Nevermind..
Thinking about visiting another couple of birth centre just to make sure that the grass isn't greener ;)

I have been feeling rough since yesterday with a sore throat & cough and really tired since that session with the bookkeeper.
Fil is apparently on his way over with a ton of cheese for us to grate for some special easter treats we're making tomorrow and all I want to do is go back to sleep.

Still hoping to get away for at least one night this weekend somewhere, not sorted anything yet though so looking unlikely!

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