Due April 2009: Episode 19 - We had sex in July!! The curse of the slummy mummy!!

[SmuttyNuttyTaff]

so the orgy thread begins

((hugs))

Due April 2009: Episode 20 - Angst Ridden Fruity Fornication

I like this one.

I see I missed all the music chat. Good to see everyone has such fine taste.

right ok ....so far we have one vote for each

We're standing to deliver....

Morphine Chasers Anyone?? Fruit on a stick??

Baby Bootycamp Starts NOW!!!

anymore for anymore??

I think you are right BB. Anyway, DH is scuttling between the two of us doing diplomatic relations now. I have agreed to be very much more specific if I need her back for an exact time (we are actually quite a laid back family believe it or not, so often she is just given a 'window') and I have sent the message over the way that I do not wish her to leave. She thinks I do want her to leave (mainly because I sat her down and told her to pull her socks up two weeks ago or else, after OvenGate) and is apparently on the verge of giving notice. We are completely stuck for the school run etc if she goes now, so it's a difficult situation.

She really is a nice girl on many levels and means well, and admittedly I am very hormonal, which can't help, but really sometimes I despair. It makes me feel like a terrible employer if this sort of thing happens and I don't like feeling like this in my own home. I wish we had family locally to help, but we don't, so this is my lot.

Boff - I'm with Nutty and BB.

sorry scrap the last post lol

Angst Ridden Fruity Fornication
We're standing to deliver....
Morphine Chasers Anyone?? Fruit on a stick??
Baby Bootycamp Starts NOW!!!

now we have one vote for each

ouch ouch ouch my fanjo is on fire, never had thrush like this before, have an ice pack between my legs and will go to pharmacist tomorrow!

Boffin - i would say start looking around for alternative help. You really arent asking too much of her IMO. This has to be her last altrication (is that the right word?? lol) otherwise she's just going to keep thinking she can get away with it.

Boff sorry but let her give notice- she is only saying this to get DH to take her side - she won't give her notice she is just playing up to the situation -

You are not a terrible employer - the point of an AP is that they fit into your family and your rules - and she just hasn't!!

Nutts wasn't referring to you at all with the smut!

Suprise do you have any plain live youghurt??

I don't. I have some canesten but it only soothes, doesn't treat. Doesn't soothe either really though!

oh smutty i am currently eating a bio yoghurt and now can't finish it!!!!

BB lol thats ok then

Sorry Beebs xx

eat it BB, it might stop you getting this horribleness!

Also BB and Smutty, I can never work out where the line is between me being unreasonable and them being hopeless, tbh. Obviously I work with young people that age so I like to think I have an idea of their capabilities and limitations, but sometimes I really wonder how it can be I can put what feels like so much effort into these relationships on a continuing basis and get this kind of hassle back. I am starting to feel rather used, tbh. I also had a nanny housekeeper for a few months a couple of years ago in an attempt to hire someone a bit more together, and frankly, she took advantage even more. I honestly don't know where I am going with all this now. I'm a bit scared of going back to work and having to hire a nanny or whatever and coming home to this all the time and paying out most of my salary in return. Oh dear.

This fanjo abuse must stop! LO is stamping up and down on top of mine, and twanging the nerve fibres that run my legs.

Surprise - have you tried the old local application of yogurt? Not that I'm not a big advocate of clotrimazole and the like, just as a temporary measure.

Very quick post, haven't even attempted to catch up as only have few mins free AND an awfully bad back (for a few days now) which makes sitting at the computer torture .........don't know if Bronze has been on but I've had a message from her this afternoon. My mobile has died so can't repeat it exactly but comes down to this: she's fine but knackered and finding it hard work with her & the family ill, and just not getting able to get online because of everything. I'll keep in touch with her and let her know everyone is thinking of her and send big hugs.

Have barely been able to move today - think I might have to try and see the doctor tomorrow.

Oops x post

the only yogurt in my fridge is munch bunch strawberry shaped ones

Surprise, a wild shot, but try some bicarb of soda in a tepid bath. That worked for me once.

oh mumble poor you go and see doc tomorrow.

Oh i do have bicarb soda - thank you!

BB and Nutty I don't think she's manipulating us, btw, I have good antennae for that and I think it's not the case here.

I think the worst thing is it always makes me feel like a total cow when this sort of thing happens, and I hate that. Perhaps I am too thin skinned.

Sorry Boff but I think she is playing you - it's funny how she can turn on the water works when she knows she is in trouble! I think she is very manipulative. She isn't going to leave she is settled with her bf and easy life (sorry).

She is 4 years younger than me and while I was at uni at the time getting horribly drunk and being messy, I knew what was expected of me from a job, would never have left kids alone or let things get in to the state she does.

Did you just get allocated her or did you interview her?