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Due April 2009: Episode 19 - We had sex in July!! The curse of the slummy mummy!!

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SmuttyNuttyTaff · 11/03/2009 20:02

so the orgy thread begins

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Juwesm · 13/03/2009 08:01

Though £6 each on website. Can't remember who it was who suggested them.

PuzzleRocks · 13/03/2009 08:01

What's Wilko?

PuzzleRocks · 13/03/2009 08:02

Found it, and there's one not far from me. Ta for the tip.

Juwesm · 13/03/2009 08:33

Excellent. Have had my socket sorted.

I think LO is trying to communicate with me using Morse code.

bronze · 13/03/2009 08:35

Good morning

we all have bugs here hence me not posting recently. I don't even have the time/energy to even attempt to catch up but I'll blame you lot for that. There seems to be a new thread whenever I check now.
Could someone sum up all the latest news etc in one post for me please (if thats possible)

PuzzleRocks · 13/03/2009 08:50

Just silliness inabundance Bronze. We adopted loose moralled fruit personas for a day. And to think, none of us have even been drinking.

Skiingone made a birth announcement...

By skiingone Wed 11-Mar-09 18:30:06 Add a message | Report post | Contact poster
Sorry for being silent - but this is my BA and BS!!!

My little girl Marianna was born on the 12/02 at around 32/33 weeks.

Sorry this is long, but here are the details of my BS.

On the 11/02 at about 00.30 I woke up feeling that something warm had leaked out of me and thinking that these could be my waters. It was not a lot, but I definitely knew it was waters, so I called the hospital and they asked to make my way to them. On arrival I was checked, the consultant confirmed the rupturing of membranes and has given me my first lot of steroids at 4 AM on the 12/02 to help baby's lungs develop faster in case she was coming soon. I was monitored overnight, had a scan next morning which showed that the baby was happy and there was still enough water left. I got given the second lot of steroids at 4PM and got sent home to see what happens. I only managed to get home, have a shower and as I didn;t slep most of the prevous night I decided to have some rest. My husband was measuring my temperature every 30 minutes as instructed ny the hospital and unfortunately the temperature started to go up: 37,3, 37.4.

My consultant called and asked me to come back to the hospital. All this time I continued to loose waters. When I arrived the consultant checked me for signs of labour ( there were none), measured my pulse which was very high and temperature which kept rising and announced that she had to come out then and there, in the next hour by emergency c section...to avoid exposure to possible infection. From this moment it all was extremely fast, within 5 minutes I had an epidural and about 15 minutes later at 23.20 on the 12/02 she was out.
Marianna didn't need help with breathing ( steroids must have helped) and was just about 2 kilos which was great weight for her and has a full head of brown hair. I could only see her for 5 seconds before she was taken by the doctors. Her Apgar score was 8 at 1 minute and 9 at 5 minutes.

Although it was a great shock as I never expected anything like that, the pd was going really well ( except for SPD which vanished as soon as she was out) I'm really glad she was in good shape and my consultant didn't waste any time getting her out. The tests didn't show any infection but during c section the doctors mentioned that the placenta and membraned were turning yellow which was not a good sign.

We have spent 3 weeks in the hospital with me spending the first 10 days there as a patient as well ( I had severe reaction to the antibiotics) and then travelling between home and hospital to get Marianna to learn to feed independently ( she had a tube for feeding for the first 2.5 weeks). About 9 days ago she started breastfeeding and kept gaining weight ( she was 2kg 450gr on discharge) and I stayed with her for her last 4 days at the hospital to make sure she feeds. We left the hospital last Friday afternoon after 22 days in intensive and special care. Now we are home and trying to settle. She is feeding every 2-3 hours day and night. As I missed out on my antenatal classes ( they were supposed to start one week after she was born) I'm learning it all on the job and becoming an expert day by day.

While at the hospital we also had a scare of a entero virus that she tested positive catching it from another baby in NICU ( her nose swab showed traces of the virus). She end up having 40 ml of immunoglobuline, chest x-ray, blood tests every day for 5 days, antibiotics just in case, while we waited for the 10 day incubation period to be over, but luckily the virus didn't develop.

Thank you for all your support.Wishing you all great last weeks of pregnancy and easy deliveries in APRIL!!!
Hugs
Ana

PuzzleRocks · 13/03/2009 08:55

How are you feeling today?

Juwesm · 13/03/2009 08:57

Not strictly true, Puzzle, wrt the drinking - it was Bleu drinking 2 pints choco milk which got the whole fruit thing started (though I am mostly to blame - with much encouragement from SmuttyNutSack!)

Juwesm · 13/03/2009 08:58

Ah, also, Wilkinson has been suggested as good source of cheap shower curtain for HB, rather than trying to find plastic sheeting (though they probably sell that too - they sell everything).

PuzzleRocks · 13/03/2009 09:11

I only need a few things from the list and it looks like I can get it all there. Excellent.

BabyBolat · 13/03/2009 09:12

Nutty - what time is DH's test - good luck!!!

Our car is broken again - typical had it for years with not a single problem and just about to have a baby and it plays up every week!

PuzzleRocks · 13/03/2009 09:20

can you remember this?

Nutty - Good luck to DH.

BB - What's wrong wth your car?

Bleuravin · 13/03/2009 09:23

Morning, woke early to be civil (as one can be on little sleep and in one's pjs at 7 in the morning) to guest. Didn't have the prefered lowfat high fiber cereals she must eat in the morning...only Cheerios...but got her off ok. Now after having got Dh off too I think I'm actually going back to bed as my head is on fire and sitting having a bowl of cereal made me ever so tired...
Hope everyone has good driving tests and other appointments and trips to the store to by supplies all go to plan. Reminds me I must put together my hospital bag again...I need a bigger one than the one I have I fear. I'm having weird back contractions too I assume their more of the BH.
Right I'm slipping away again. hugs

Swaliswan · 13/03/2009 09:28

Good morning, Ladies.

I have completed essential Ladygarden maintenance this morning. I think that it will be the last time before the birth though and I still have six weeks to go before my due date. I'm hoping for very little growth between now and then because it was painful at times trying to contort myself into positions that meant I could see past my bump and that was with using a big mirror.

I'm off for a bath in a sec to freshen up post-maintenance. I think that DH will be pleasantly surprised later (As long as he can see past my bump )

BabyBolat · 13/03/2009 09:28

Don't know - it wont reverse - but all the other gears work??!! DH is supposed to be sorting it but he is yet to call the garage

PuzzleRocks · 13/03/2009 09:38

DH spent 2 weeks bollocksing up tinkering with the lighting in our house before I lost my rag and called in an electrician.

Swaliswan - I did that yesterday. Extremely uncomfortable, but i'm sure i'm a pound lighter.

Swaliswan · 13/03/2009 09:48

If anybody is watcing 'from here to maternity' now on Home and Health - please, please, please do not think that the woman who is demonstrating neonatal resuscitation is using the most up to date resus guidelines. The new ones are much easier than what she is trying to teach the poor parents.

SmuttyNutSack · 13/03/2009 09:52

Morning

Juw- how's the socket has it been plugged? sorry you feel sick

Boffin "with fava beans and a fine chianti," CLASSIC love it!! lol

BB - its at 11.30 hes in the bath at the mo, very stressy boy last night bless him, so i have washed his back and ahem de-stressed him a bit with a HJ, i have a bowl of snack size chocolate for him to eat prior to him leaving the house (helps with concentration apparently). i'm burnt out now though lol

Swaliswan - hooray for ladygarden

pants night sleep for me too, i could of sworn i had a few contractions last night (not overly sure as was in drug induced haze) but i was woken up by it, poss BH?? feel like i have been kicked by a horse! ahhhhh i can here singing coming from the bedroom dh obviously happier post scrub and tickle my work there is done

BabyBolat · 13/03/2009 09:53

Haha I was watching that but now shifted to Baby TIme instead!

Juwesm · 13/03/2009 09:55

Ooh, hadn't seen the red-nose smileys! Love it

SmuttyNutSack · 13/03/2009 09:55

Puzzle - love your snazzy pingu thread that was when that big oil boat chrashed and broke wasnt it.

Juwesm · 13/03/2009 09:57

Have had new socket put in and tested.

SmuttyNutSack · 13/03/2009 09:58

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Juwesm · 13/03/2009 10:02

A blue whale calf, feeding on its mother's milk, puts on 9lb per hour.

BabyBolat · 13/03/2009 10:06

Ok apparently the car is working fine now!!!! might take it to the garage tomorrow just in case....

Well done on your test support there (really I hope he passes I know how miserable DH was when he failed - all 8 times !!!)

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