Nutty, you ate chalk? Excellent - will it be charcoal next? I want a silly pregnancy craving! All of mine have been food anyway, which is no fun! MM can keep the ice, though - it'd really be hurting my mouth! about your worries WRT birth / CS. I really agree with Boff - push for it on psychiatric grounds if you're really struggling that much with the idea (& I can see why you are!).
Swaliswan, I'm a bit about DH wanting to put your occupation down as 'housewife' just because you're on ML! There are quite a few threads around where people are in similar situations - the general advice is to pay a cleaner! Would you be able to do that? Either behind his back, or not? Even if it's just a one off to help you out right now, so you can start right back on top of everything? (Personally, given everything you've said, I'd be inclined to get a cleaner on a regular basis - you're going to have a newborn & a toddler, with apparently not very much support - you don't want to increase your chances of PND for the sake of a few quid if you can possibly stretch to it...)
Boffin, nice call with making DH go for a brain scan Poor man doesn't stand a chance against you
Puzzle, that's how I feel about the lying thing - I feel that I really could forgive most things in most circumstances. Even if he did something really awful, as long as he was honest about it, I could probably work through it given time. I think at this point I'm going to have to let it go in terms of bringing up a huge argument, but I will make that clear to him as soon as the opportunity arises to do it subtly. & my Tesco shopping wasn't even that heavy! There was a lot of it, but the bulk of it was nappies, maternity pads, 16 toilet rolls & so on - large things but not heavy! (I knew the Grolsch wouldn't all be for you - you'd much rather have champagne, no? )
bronze, I hope you're okay, sweetheart xx