Leeza2 is the cuplrit who said I was up myself. Go fanjo bash her, girls.
I have flounced (3 times!) from the other thread and I am not posting on any more threads now, just this one, as I feel used. I have depersonalised my profile as well, in case they help themselves to that. There seem to be a lot of MN sycophants prepared to suck up to MN Towers and let them do what they like in the name of profit. I am not surprised feminism has stalled if apparently worthwhile female communities self-implode like this.
Feeling very grumpy today because DS3 keeps doing karate in my belly, plus he woke me up at 4.30am doing this and I couldn't get back to sleep, plus I feel very sick and dizzy. If by some miraculous quasi Biblical process of reabsorption this baby disappeared effortlessly overnight and I got my old self back, I would be delighted. I would have a glass of wine and a pate sandwich and have very energetic and acrobatic sex and go skiing. Not all at once, naturally.
Barbarella, by all means stick one in a jiffy bag. I am sure there will be moments where this will appeal greatly. Bf is OK after the first few weeks, if you can get to the six week mark you have usually sorted it out for the duration. It's a one day at a time thing. But I reckon buy or borrow the best hospital grade pump known to mankind if you are really committed to the process.