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Due April 2009: Episode 9 - April Mums with Guns: Rise of the Fanjo Warriors?

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BabyBolat · 27/01/2009 22:06

Here we go again....

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BoffinMum · 02/02/2009 11:49

I can feel a fanjo whipping coming on, can you, ladies? Rise, fanjo warriers!!

gingersarah · 02/02/2009 11:51

Bleur - sad to hear that things are worse in the US. I know that the annual leave that is standard is terribly little compared to the UK. Maybe Auldalliance can give us a French perspective?

KittyCatIsGettingFat · 02/02/2009 11:51

Morning Snowbunnies!

DH left as usual at 05h45 this morning, but was back an hour and a half later after getting stuck at the very first roundabout... so we're now cuddled on the couch with our laptops and he is making lots of cups of lemon honey tea! I LOVE the snow today!!

We have about a foot and a half on top of our car - which is stranded in the middle of our parking lot, DH couldn't get it back into our space this morning - and it hasn't stopped all day... I was supposed to have my first NHS antenatal class this morning, followed by lunch with Dad, but clearly that didn't happen! So now we're keeping warm and enjoying a stolen day in each other's company.
How divine!

Bleuravin · 02/02/2009 11:52

LOL Boffin..I do rather feel like inciting a riot... If only because the snippets of the article that have been released... someone has been rather irresponsible I think with the piece.

BoffinMum · 02/02/2009 11:54

I seem to be having contractions.
Oh no.
Help me not panic - I am sure it's nothing.

Bleuravin · 02/02/2009 11:56

Oh dear...Boffin...
Put your fet up, relax.
B Hicks I'm sure. How far along are you again?

BoffinMum · 02/02/2009 11:58

31 weeks
Random grumblings for about an hour now. But you're right, it has to be BH.
I seriously do not fancy going to the paper curtain place by ambulance, particularly DH is hours and hours and hours away!

BoffinMum · 02/02/2009 11:59

I am making a nice cup of tea with my in-bedroom refreshment facility. Maybe that will help.

BoffinMum · 02/02/2009 12:00

I did get this at 20 weeks for an hour, I seem to remember. I was in proto labour but it went away.

gingersarah · 02/02/2009 12:02

Boffin, I am sure it is BH. Maybe a soothing herbal tea will relax the muscles.

Bleuravin · 02/02/2009 12:02

Yes. I'm sure it's BH. You've had a wild morning, filled with anger and excitement. It might be causing them.

I've been having some strange sensations myself toda. Like a cramp which rolls down from the top of my belly to my fanjo.
Might be why I've been incited myself so easily this morning.

KittyCatIsGettingFat · 02/02/2009 12:03

Boffin - call your MW! Right now! There will be NO live labour threads on this conversation... good luck...

BoffinMum · 02/02/2009 12:05

I will give it an hour more and then see. No other signs, no pattern, has to be 'irritable uterus' as mw described it last time.

KittyCatIsGettingFat · 02/02/2009 12:07

"irritable uterus"?? is there such a thing? I'm sure mine is irritable all the time - even when NOT pregnant!

Bleuravin · 02/02/2009 12:09

Irritable uterus?

AuldAlliance · 02/02/2009 12:15

Boffin, take it really, really easy for a bit. If your uterus tends to be irritable, then it's probably flared up following this morning's shenanigans with the AP.
Lie down, relax and think about nice things, not the bloody stupid attitude to women demonstrated by daft think tanks, and if things haven't calmed down in an hour or so, call the MW.

BoffinMum · 02/02/2009 12:20

In my glidey chair, had tea and biscuits, watching TV. Hoping they go away.

KittyCatIsGettingFat · 02/02/2009 12:24

Boff - Sit. Stay! Good girl...
DH says he'll make you some choc-chip cookies in a while if you like...

BabyBolat · 02/02/2009 12:27

Kitty don't think your DH can redeem himself with cookies after making us run around trying to figure out his riddles (LOL)

Boff feet up, rest, call the MW to triple check in an hour or so!

Ok girls we have to start this new thread - waht was the agreed title? (that was pages ago....)

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Bleuravin · 02/02/2009 12:28

oooh Chocolate chip cookies, fresh from the oven... mmmm yummy...

I'm off to a lunch date with DH. Catch up with you later everyone. Boffin I expect to find you relaxing still when I get back.

KittyCatIsGettingFat · 02/02/2009 12:31

New thread here

Thanks to Nutty and my DH for the thread title!!

SpringySunshine · 02/02/2009 12:36

Eugh, BB - poor you. It is strange how pregnancy seems to go in cycles - it's nothing like the books say at all.

I hadn't seen that article, but I heard it mentioned on the news this morning. Some of it I agree with on at least a basic level - there are too few family values these days. Most families don't even eat around a table together (I'm from a reasonably middle class family & we didn't, even though DP & I are trying to get into the habit of it now before LO arrives), but it's ridiculous to suggest that it's the fault of these 'selfish women' who work & therefore 'abandon' their children. Or better yet, the implication that women break up families because they can financially afford to. Much better that they stay in an awful, potentially dangerous, relationship, eh? That'll set the kids up well for life...

KittyCat, you always sound so loved up Where did you find your DH? Can we all apply for some kind of upgrade?

AuldAlliance · 02/02/2009 12:47

Gingersarah: I'm not very well-placed to compare, really, not having worked in the UK. I think the French system is, in many sectors (banking, computing, law, insurance, etc.), like the British in that people are expected to work very hard. Hence my DH getting back at 4am last week, because he had to finish a case urgently.
But globally, I think there is maybe a slight difference in that the whole consumer rush to spend, spend, spend never reached the heights here that it did in the UK. People are still attached to spending their weekends with the family, to enjoying a meal with friends and relatives, etc. The 35-hr working week led many people to adopt a more distanced attitude to work than in the UK, though of course the current gvmt scrapped that straight away.
And while many people pay attention to clothes and the way their house looks, I think there is less pressure to have the latest gadgets (satnav, blackberries, bread makers, to quote but a very random few) than in the UK. Kids want mobiles, i-pods, etc., but adults are perhaps under less pressure to acquire things.

But I could be wrong; I live in the provinces and I tend to frequent/be friends with people who are not v materialistic, whereas if you read the posts written by Anna8888/Bonsoir Anna (she recently name-changed), you get a glimpse into a whole other moneyed, Parisian lifestyle that seems very demanding, stressful and pressurised indeed.

There is quite a lot of opposition to gvmt plans to allow people, particularly in retail, to work on Sundays. And many shops, chemists, offices have a long (2hr or more) lunch break where they are closed to the public.
However, there is a clear assumption that people, including women, will work: childcare provision, in the form of rebates, is pretty good, but getting parental leave is less easy. You get 500 euros a month allowance for parental leave, which basically means that for most people it's not a viable option. And maternity leave isn't very flexible: it's 16 weeks, and then you have to negotiate very hard to obtain a reduced workload or any extra leave.

LuLuBai · 02/02/2009 14:50

Afternoon all

Back from the great outdoors. We now have a few flakes of snow but nothing a good wash with Head & Shoulders wouldn't resolve.

Will have a look at the full report on families. Sounds very interesting.

AuldAlliance · 02/02/2009 14:54

Psst, LuLu, new thread now up and running...

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