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Jan 09- Baby this is Davina, you have been evicted from the big mother house. You have 5 minutes to pack up your things and leave - I'm coming to get you!

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fymandwhenisthisbabycoming · 17/01/2009 20:00

great title RRay! Lets see if we can get those babies moving!

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Shanster · 17/01/2009 21:50

Hey Ladies, sorry for the silence over the past two days. I gave birth to baby Mairi at 11pm on Thursday night, she weighed in at 7lb 9oz and 20 inches long. She is adorable, can't believe we managed to create her!!
Induction was LONG..after two doses of the cervigel stuff, I had dilated nearly 1cm, so the OB decided to insert a foley catheter which basically inflated the cervics from the inside out. That put me from no labour into hard labour within minutes, the worst pain I have ever experienced in my life. Within 90 minutes I was screaming for an epidural and had dilated to 5cm. I got my epi (thanks God for pain relief) and then went to sleep for 3 hours. I woke up and told the nurse I felt pressure, she checked and the head was crowning. The baby was born after pushes, I tore pretty badly and then spent an hour being sewn up. We're both doing fine now, just waiting to get out of hospital now. Post more later!

stripeywoollenhat · 17/01/2009 21:52

congratulations shanster and welcome to baby mairi . hope the tear heals fast for you

hkz · 17/01/2009 21:58

Congratulations Shanster, glad you are both doing well, and hope you're tear heals up rapidly. Mairi is a lovely name.

treedelivery · 17/01/2009 22:03

Yay Shanster wondered if we would hear from you soon. Great news but hope you aren't too sore or shocked by the roller coaster you were on!!

This thread is busy!!!!! Anyone would think we were having babies here!

fymandwhenisthisbabycoming · 17/01/2009 22:23

Jokat - DD, 2lbs 15oz
Looweeza - DS 4th Dec, Kit, 7lbs 13oz (Due 2nd Jan)
Chefswife - DD 9th Dec, Violet May, 6lbs 7oz (Due 6th Jan)
HeathersMummy - DS 17th Dec, Fraser, 7lbs 2oz (Due 31st Dec)
Qumps - DS 19th Dec, Stanley, 7lbs 12oz (3 weeks early)
kittenpaws - 22nd of dec - susanna - 7lbs
nat - 27th of dec - mikey
Ginni - DD 26th Dec, No name yet, 6lbs 15oz (Due 2nd Jan)
scared - 29th of dec
TallulahBelle - TWINS 31/12
spink - 07th of jan 11:37am girl
lennied - DS 7th Jan, Dylan Jacob, 7lbs 14oz (Due 13th Jan)
periwink - ariella - 10th of jan - 6:49 - 8lbs10
Largeginandtonic- India
moosemama - Elizabeth Jane
MsSparkle - Finley Stephen - 15th January - 9lb 8
Shanster - 15th Jan Mairi 7lb 9
FourLittleFeet - 17/1 Hugo

Still waiting:
charmed24 - 2nd Jan
kidsfromfame - 2nd Jan
okaythen - 2nd Jan
MsSparkle - 31st Dec (DC2, DD born Oct 06)
blot4 - 3 Jan (DS1 is 1)
MrsMagpie - 4th Jan
1973magpie - 6th Jan (will be DC3 - Gulp!)
MissHairspray - 6th Jan BOY
Hopenotsickthistime - 8th Jan (DC2, DD born May 07)
witchandchips 9th Jan
Nellybell 10th Jan (will be DC2, DS born Sept 06)
ScaredofEverything - 10th Jan - DC1 and she's a girl!
mermaid31 - 10th Jan
Mel2005 - 10th Jan TWINS(ds born sept 04, dd born jan 06)
RambleOn - 10th Jan (DC2, DD born Oct 06)
nooschmoo - 12th Jan (will be DC2, DD born sept 07)
OutofthisWorld - 12 Jan (1 boy, born April 2005)
Stripeywoollenhat - 13 Jan
icklepeanut 13 Jan (Son 16, daughter 12)
Poorbuthappy - 14th Jan (1 dd born Sept 04)
HKZ- 14 Jan (DD1 April 07)
llareggub 15 Jan (will be DC2. DS born Oct 06)
tink-15th of jan (dc2, have dd1 3 aug 29th)a girl
buickmackane - 16 Jan (DC3, DS1 11/01, DS2 08/04)
Tokentotty - 16th Jan (DC2, DS born Aug 07)
iwouldgoouttonight - 16th January (DS born August 06)
Chocsolot - 16th Jan
MrsT77 - 18th Jan
Happyathome - 18th Jan (DC2. DD born June 02)
ColumbosWife - 19th January (DC3)
Treedelivery - 19th Jan (DC2)
MissJackson - 18th Jan
FioLondon - 20th Jan
MrsAay - 20th Jan
mrsmontano - 20th Jan (DC2, DD born May 03)
Rrrayray- 20th Jan
Heron - 20th Jan (DS born May 2004)
EachPeachPearMum- 21st Jan (DC2, DD born Feb 06)
Buckles- 21st Jan
Booksgalore - 21st Jan (DS born Mar 07)
Feedmenow (c-section or induction about now although not officially due til 4th Feb)
LooseyC - 22nd Jan (DC2. DS born Dec 07)
Upwind - 25th Jan
Lizzih1974 - 26th Jan
Ooops - 26th Jan (DS1 - 6, DS2 - stillborn 19 Dec 07)
elkiedee 26 Jan (DC2, DS born May 2007)
FYM - 28th Jan (DC2, DS Dec 05)
NoNickname - 29th Jan
Tobermory - 29th Jan (DC2, DS 14 months, Charlie)
Oooggs - 30 Jan (dc4 - ds1 Dec 03 & dts March 07)
Givethedogabone 30th january will be DC3, DD 4 in feb and DS 2

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elkiedee · 17/01/2009 22:55

Congratulations Shanster, welcome Mairi

EachPeachPearMum · 17/01/2009 23:10

Congratulations Shanster! And welcome to Mairi too
(is that pronounced 'Varry'?)

EachPeachPearMum · 17/01/2009 23:15

Oh, and I meant to say I am at that link to Green Baby.... Their stuff is so gorgeous, might have to buy some stuff though maybe for DD rather than DS to be.
Very lovely!

Shanster · 18/01/2009 00:22

OK, visitors have gone now so I can catch up a bit
Excellent that we've had so many babies in the past few days, so much for that full moon nonsense we seem much more productive now - congrats Moose and LGT!
DH is sitting here just now trying out his 'Baby Whisperer' moves, which to my amazement he remembers and actually seems to work (all this from a 10 minute video from our child birth class).
Tree I am doing fine now but wouldn't be signing up for that foley cathetar thing again! It did what it was supposed to do but was absolute hell. Do they use that in the UK? Even here the L&D nurses hadn't done it before (the OB on duty was new).
EachPeachPearMum, Mairi is pronounced 'Mah-ree", I think the Mhairi spelling is pronounced 'Va-ree'...hope we have that right, already filled out the birth certificate!

EachPeachPearMum · 18/01/2009 00:29

Good point shanster! forgot the 'h'!

largeginandtonic · 18/01/2009 01:33

Congrats Shanster, MSsparkle and FLF!!!!!!!!

I am sensing a pattern with India... she was 9lb 5oz btw.

Keeping tabs on all of you

Come on Tree

oooggs · 18/01/2009 07:44

congrats to FLF & Shanster great names going here

fymandwhenisthisbabycoming · 18/01/2009 07:47

congratulations lg&t!

congratulations shanster!

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stripeywoollenhat · 18/01/2009 08:01

this is Stripey's DP here to let you all know that our daughter Catherine Eleanor was born at 4.31am this morning, 7lb 13oz. Stripey was 4cm dilated when she went in at 1.20am, and just had (some) G+A - and some stitches. Everyone is doing well.

oooggs · 18/01/2009 08:04

fab news and well done stripey - welcome baby Catherine

LenniEd · 18/01/2009 08:08

Congratulations Shanster and Stripey!!

Wow, this is some thread! Why didn't we give up on the other one sooner?

fymandwhenisthisbabycoming · 18/01/2009 08:21

Jokat - DD, 2lbs 15oz
Looweeza - DS 4th Dec, Kit, 7lbs 13oz (Due 2nd Jan)
Chefswife - DD 9th Dec, Violet May, 6lbs 7oz (Due 6th Jan)
HeathersMummy - DS 17th Dec, Fraser, 7lbs 2oz (Due 31st Dec)
Qumps - DS 19th Dec, Stanley, 7lbs 12oz (3 weeks early)
kittenpaws - 22nd of dec - susanna - 7lbs
nat - 27th of dec - mikey
Ginni - DD 26th Dec, No name yet, 6lbs 15oz (Due 2nd Jan)
scared - 29th of dec
TallulahBelle - TWINS 31/12
spink - 07th of jan 11:37am girl
lennied - DS 7th Jan, Dylan Jacob, 7lbs 14oz (Due 13th Jan)
periwink - ariella - 10th of jan - 6:49 - 8lbs10
Largeginandtonic- India
moosemama - Elizabeth Jane
MsSparkle - Finley Stephen - 15th January - 9lb 8
Shanster - 15th Jan Mairi 7lb 9
FourLittleFeet - 17/1 Hugo
Stripeywoollenhat - 18 Jan Catherine Eleanor 7lb 13oz

Still waiting:
charmed24 - 2nd Jan
kidsfromfame - 2nd Jan
okaythen - 2nd Jan
MsSparkle - 31st Dec (DC2, DD born Oct 06)
blot4 - 3 Jan (DS1 is 1)
MrsMagpie - 4th Jan
1973magpie - 6th Jan (will be DC3 - Gulp!)
MissHairspray - 6th Jan BOY
Hopenotsickthistime - 8th Jan (DC2, DD born May 07)
witchandchips 9th Jan
Nellybell 10th Jan (will be DC2, DS born Sept 06)
ScaredofEverything - 10th Jan - DC1 and she's a girl!
mermaid31 - 10th Jan
Mel2005 - 10th Jan TWINS(ds born sept 04, dd born jan 06)
RambleOn - 10th Jan (DC2, DD born Oct 06)
nooschmoo - 12th Jan (will be DC2, DD born sept 07)
OutofthisWorld - 12 Jan (1 boy, born April 2005)
icklepeanut 13 Jan (Son 16, daughter 12)
Poorbuthappy - 14th Jan (1 dd born Sept 04)
HKZ- 14 Jan (DD1 April 07)
llareggub 15 Jan (will be DC2. DS born Oct 06)
tink-15th of jan (dc2, have dd1 3 aug 29th)a girl
buickmackane - 16 Jan (DC3, DS1 11/01, DS2 08/04)
Tokentotty - 16th Jan (DC2, DS born Aug 07)
iwouldgoouttonight - 16th January (DS born August 06)
Chocsolot - 16th Jan
MrsT77 - 18th Jan
Happyathome - 18th Jan (DC2. DD born June 02)
ColumbosWife - 19th January (DC3)
Treedelivery - 19th Jan (DC2)
MissJackson - 18th Jan
FioLondon - 20th Jan
MrsAay - 20th Jan
mrsmontano - 20th Jan (DC2, DD born May 03)
Rrrayray- 20th Jan
Heron - 20th Jan (DS born May 2004)
EachPeachPearMum- 21st Jan (DC2, DD born Feb 06)
Buckles- 21st Jan
Booksgalore - 21st Jan (DS born Mar 07)
Feedmenow (c-section or induction about now although not officially due til 4th Feb)
LooseyC - 22nd Jan (DC2. DS born Dec 07)
Upwind - 25th Jan
Lizzih1974 - 26th Jan
Ooops - 26th Jan (DS1 - 6, DS2 - stillborn 19 Dec 07)
elkiedee 26 Jan (DC2, DS born May 2007)
FYM - 28th Jan (DC2, DS Dec 05)
NoNickname - 29th Jan
Tobermory - 29th Jan (DC2, DS 14 months, Charlie)
Oooggs - 30 Jan (dc4 - ds1 Dec 03 & dts March 07)
Givethedogabone 30th january will be DC3, DD 4 in feb and DS 2

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tinkisfourtyweeks · 18/01/2009 08:46

morning

congrats - flf,shanster and miss sparkle ye some babues

hoping that this thread brings me my baby

Jokat - DD, 2lbs 15oz
Looweeza - DS 4th Dec, Kit, 7lbs 13oz (Due 2nd Jan)
Chefswife - DD 9th Dec, Violet May, 6lbs 7oz (Due 6th Jan)
HeathersMummy - DS 17th Dec, Fraser, 7lbs 2oz (Due 31st Dec)
Qumps - DS 19th Dec, Stanley, 7lbs 12oz (3 weeks early)
kittenpaws - 22nd of dec - susanna - 7lbs
nat - 27th of dec - mikey
Ginni - DD 26th Dec, No name yet, 6lbs 15oz (Due 2nd Jan)
scared - 29th of dec
TallulahBelle - TWINS 31/12
spink - 07th of jan 11:37am girl
lennied - DS 7th Jan, Dylan Jacob, 7lbs 14oz (Due 13th Jan)
periwink - ariella - 10th of jan - 6:49 - 8lbs10
Largeginandtonic- India
moosemama - Elizabeth Jane
MsSparkle - Finley Stephen - 15th January - 9lb 8
Shanster - 15th Jan Mairi 7lb 9
FourLittleFeet - 17/1 Hugo
Stripeywoollenhat - 18 Jan Catherine Eleanor 7lb 13oz

Still waiting:
charmed24 - 2nd Jan
kidsfromfame - 2nd Jan
okaythen - 2nd Jan
blot4 - 3 Jan (DS1 is 1)
MrsMagpie - 4th Jan
1973magpie - 6th Jan (will be DC3 - Gulp!)
MissHairspray - 6th Jan BOY
Hopenotsickthistime - 8th Jan (DC2, DD born May 07)
witchandchips 9th Jan
Nellybell 10th Jan (will be DC2, DS born Sept 06)
ScaredofEverything - 10th Jan - DC1 and she's a girl!
mermaid31 - 10th Jan
Mel2005 - 10th Jan TWINS(ds born sept 04, dd born jan 06)
RambleOn - 10th Jan (DC2, DD born Oct 06)
nooschmoo - 12th Jan (will be DC2, DD born sept 07)
OutofthisWorld - 12 Jan (1 boy, born April 2005)
icklepeanut 13 Jan (Son 16, daughter 12)
Poorbuthappy - 14th Jan (1 dd born Sept 04)
HKZ- 14 Jan (DD1 April 07)
llareggub 15 Jan (will be DC2. DS born Oct 06)
tink-15th of jan (dc2, have dd1 3 aug 29th)a girl
buickmackane - 16 Jan (DC3, DS1 11/01, DS2 08/04)
Tokentotty - 16th Jan (DC2, DS born Aug 07)
iwouldgoouttonight - 16th January (DS born August 06)
Chocsolot - 16th Jan
MrsT77 - 18th Jan
Happyathome - 18th Jan (DC2. DD born June 02)
ColumbosWife - 19th January (DC3)
Treedelivery - 19th Jan (DC2)
MissJackson - 18th Jan
FioLondon - 20th Jan
MrsAay - 20th Jan
mrsmontano - 20th Jan (DC2, DD born May 03)
Rrrayray- 20th Jan
Heron - 20th Jan (DS born May 2004)
EachPeachPearMum- 21st Jan (DC2, DD born Feb 06)
Buckles- 21st Jan
Booksgalore - 21st Jan (DS born Mar 07)
Feedmenow (c-section or induction about now although not officially due til 4th Feb)
LooseyC - 22nd Jan (DC2. DS born Dec 07)
Upwind - 25th Jan
Lizzih1974 - 26th Jan
Ooops - 26th Jan (DS1 - 6, DS2 - stillborn 19 Dec 07)
elkiedee 26 Jan (DC2, DS born May 2007)
FYM - 28th Jan (DC2, DS Dec 05)
NoNickname - 29th Jan
Tobermory - 29th Jan (DC2, DS 14 months, Charlie)
Oooggs - 30 Jan (dc4 - ds1 Dec 03 & dts March 07)
Givethedogabone 30th january will be DC3, DD 4 in feb and DS 2

Spink · 18/01/2009 08:57

wooohoo MsSparkle, Shanster, FLF & Stripey!!
Rray you've started a very productive thread, BB is more influential than I thought..

hope everyone is enjoying a relaxing Sunday how about some pain au choc and some lovely lattes?
Actually mine's egg and bacon in a floury bap. and a big mug of tea..... yum

fymandwhenisthisbabycoming · 18/01/2009 09:23

I can't believe how a few contractions last night has made me feel so exhausted they went on for 3-4 hours 10 mins apart, ouchy but bearable. I had a reasonable nights sleep

this morning am achey (period like) and weak legs... I promised I'd take DS to see the deer in richmond park and am going to bundle him off with DH....

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hkz · 18/01/2009 09:31

Congratulations Stripey! Welcome Catherine! Its always good to wake up to new babies

givethedogAhomebirth · 18/01/2009 10:12

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MissHairspray · 18/01/2009 10:38

Yey MsSparkle, Shanster, FLF and Stripey. MsSparkle really pleased you managed to avoid induction, know you really didn't want it and it gives me hope that this baby could still come out on its own.

Just a quick question - my hospital are getting me in for induction on Weds if nothing happened by then, at which point I will be exactly 42 weeks. I thought this was standard until realised some hospitals won't let you go this far - does this mean i'm putting the baby at extra risk? I am still perfectly healthy, he is moving around and heartbeat was fine yesterday, but I don't understand why in one area they are fine for you to go 2 weeks over, and in others it is only 10 days or so. Really want to try and have no intervention but don't want to cause any extra risk.

Have a good day ladies, plenty of online shopping - much better than trying to waddle around real shops

tinkisfourtyweeks · 18/01/2009 11:29

congrats to stripey to

treedelivery · 18/01/2009 12:15

Total respect to Stripey who was I believe online shopping last night and mentioned a bit of back ache and a hot water bottle!! When did you pop out to pod!!?? ACE!

Can't keep up with all the bubbs!!

No news here.

Shanster - UK goes for the slower route that mirrors the spontaneous establishing process, so ripen cervix, then break waters to get better contact between head and cervix and reduce volume, then begin contractions via hormone stimulation if required. takes 12 hours to 3 days, like nature does.
Yours sounds very effective but damn painful [and rather shocking to the system if I may say], glad you and the baby were able to cope. Fast not always good but 2nd the thank GOd for painrelief. Hear hear!!

MissH - guidelines re Induction are flexible as there is no hard and fast date where the placenta just stops functioning eficiently.

The stats suggest 'risk' begins increases at term plus 10 to 14, but then increases more steeply following 42 weeks. But still the risk is small, and one many people would take. So best practice suggests around 42 weeks as the max time 'routine' induction is offered and regular monitoring for failing placental function should take place, if induction is declined. So your unit is probably quite a responsive one that manages on an individual basis.

Because of the variables with humans- healthy women, women who never access any care at all, women who are from overseas, differing BMI, substance users, 1st timers, 5th timers, ssoooo many ways to be an individual, it's best there is no hard rule, as Mrs A recently arrived from an African war torn country after 6 months in a camp living on porridge and who is diabetic, cannot be compared to Mrs B who is very fit and has a BMI of 24 and 10 portions of fruit and veg. As an example.
This gives units flexibility to manage their local caseload i.e. quiter units or low risk populations can book at 42 weeks and be confident they can take you on the day, high risk units with loads of turnover and high risk population can book at term +10 and know that if the place is a merry-go-round the standard inductions can be put off a day or 2 safetly to accomodate the lady with the lung transplant or the 26 week twins with blood pressure or something.
Be much easier if nature just delivered on a date that was stamped across our bums at conception. Not so much fun though.....

For you - the thing is your own risk, and the baby movements. Well thriving pregnant bodies usually time labour just right, and well babies move. Hence the UK is very safe place to give birth, particulary if you are a long term UK resident. We are generally well nourished and can access scanning and heart rate monitoring if we are worried about movements, and access the interventions required when and if required.

Hope this helps!! A very long winded way to say if all is well carry on, if you're at all worried, have monitoring as it's easy and conclusive and no big deal.

It's so difficult to answer these things without essay writing, as they are such complex management issues. Obstetrics is very very complex.