Vbab, sorry to hear how you are feeling. I am finally starting to get things together a little, but don't have a nursery to prepare or anything. I can relate to the dh though, mine sometimes takes his work frustrations out on me and I had the leg cramps last night too. Not so bad if you can catch them early enough and pull your toes forward, towards your knees.
I just got back from the midwife who at first was trying to suggest that baby was too big for a home birth. Then, when she plotted the estimated weight from last week onto my chart, realised that baby is not as big as they had been thinking from fundal height alone and that a home birth may be possible afterall. The worry is something to do with the shoulders. She says that next time she sees me, she will show me her risk assessment criteria. In the meantime, she wants me to see my OB (I keep forgetting I have one!) who will arrange another growth scan to check estimated fetal weight at about 36 week. If everything checks out by 37 weeks, I can have my homebirth. It's cutting it a bit fine if you ask me. I may write to the supervisor of midwifes as well to make sure that they can't use the "your baby is too big" rubbish on me. I know of several people who have had 10lb + babies at home just fine with no complications.
So far, everything looks great, BP 106/64, clear urine sample, measuring 35.5cm at 32+5 (was measuring 34cm 4 weeks ago, so slowed right down and I even told her I hadn't grown much, I can tell, I now only measure 2.5 weeks ahead instead of 6) and baby is head down, has plenty of fluid and is very active and has a great fetal heart rate. I really, REALLY want to have this baby at home, so please keep your fingers crossed his growth slows down now!
Misdee glad to hear all is well with you. Have you made up your mind about where to have the baby?