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Due March 2009? Grab your duvet & sick bucket!!

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auntyspan · 01/08/2008 16:59

Brand new thread ladies!

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meep · 16/08/2008 15:27

MKG - you are absolutely right. Every baby is a miracle!

I think it is so sad to read about all the bad experiences people have had.

For all you first timers, I have to say that the care I had while I was in labour was fantastic and the midwives and surgeon all came to see me afterwards. The post natal care I got was fine - they were very busy but still lovely. And the post-birth toast is the most amazing food you will ever eat!

I had a lovely girl (think she was a trainee mw) who sat with me for a whole night. It was night 3 and dd was so hungry but my milk wasn't in properly so she just cried all night. The only time dd didn't cry was if I cuddled her. This girl sat by my bed while I slept for a couple of hours with dd on my chest, just to make sure she didn't fall off!

Hospital is a funny place - but I look back on it with some fondness - having just been back recently I took dd around the corridors where I did my labour shuffle and told her all about it!

MKG · 16/08/2008 15:35

You guys get toast. We get chocolate cake!

The food at my hospital is amazing. Great menu (totally different to regular patient menu) because they get that we aren't sick, and don't need to have food that tastes like crap.

Chocolate mousse was the first thing I ate after ds1 and a club sandwich and and fries were for ds2 (thankfully he was born at lunch time) I can't wait to go back just for the cake (which I get after lunch and dinner) and there's also a dessert cart that passes mid afternoon for snacks.

Oh I can't for March! They have the best chocolate cheesecake.

meep · 16/08/2008 15:45

that sounds heavenly MKG - am so jealous!!

I ordered semolina for my first desert (I blame the drugs!) - I have never eaten it before and never want to again!

My dh did fill up the fridge with all the things I hadn't been allowed to eat while pregnant - so my first meal at home was toast and pate followed by toast and brie!

MKG · 16/08/2008 15:47

My mom did the same for me. I came home to brie, smoked salmon, and pretty much every other forbidden food.

MKG · 16/08/2008 15:50

Meep- You could always come give birth on my side of the pond.

Oh we have labor, delivery, recovery, and post-partum rooms. So pretty much you come in drop your stuff and that is your room until you go home.

dinny · 16/08/2008 16:53

I've had both my births in an NHS hospital in Londpn and had really active natural labours - dd was about 6 hours and ds about 4. Had no pain relief, not even gas, didn't tear, was in birthing pool a lot with ds - I don't think hospital is always as bad as you think it might be (I wanted a homebirth both times but couldn't for various reasons)

I think my sickness is going a bit (11 and a half weeks) - lasted for 20 weeks with ds and about 12 with dd

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SpookyMadMummy · 16/08/2008 18:31

Evening ladies...

Shuffle over twocutedarlings i'll get on that bench with you... looks like my m/s is subsiding before its really got going!! Hooray!!!

I have adjusted my diet and it seems to be helping. I am finding it hard to tolerate carbs in my diet so I am having toast or cereal for brekkie, then lunc which whatever it is includes carbs then I leave the carbs alone! A light salad and protein for tea and I find that sorts me out!!

I have gone mad for fruit again, I ate 4 peaches yesterday

Ooh something else that helped with the nausea.... flat coke!!!

I think after my previous deliveries I didn't really fancy the stuff that you can't have in pregnancy.. the only one thing that I really wanted was a runny fried egg!!

broodymom · 16/08/2008 20:14

Hi this Q has prob been done to death but i'm gonna ask again

Working out your due date?? Some of the online due date calculators come up with completley different dates and how many weeks pg i am some say 6 weeks and some say 7 / 8 weeks.Why do some ask cycle length? does that count? My first appt is with the gp on tues but the wait is killing me, has anyone used the online calculator and have they have been right?

The first day of my lmp was 22 june, sorry for all the Q Thanks.

meep · 16/08/2008 20:20

Mine was around 19th June and I am 8 weeks - based on the scan I had at 6+6 weeks! So sounds like you are around 7/8 weeks. Cycle length does matter - and your GP will ask you if you are a standard 28 days or something else.

When you get to your 12 week scan it will give you your due date - my 12 week scan was out by one day with dd!

broodymom · 16/08/2008 20:22

ok thanks x

lizziemun · 16/08/2008 21:10

I have used this one and it has been right for my 2 other pregnancies.

Although not sure about this one as my last period date of the 10/5/08 then i am due 14/02/09 although i know it must at least 3 weeks later around the 07/03/09.

auntyspan · 17/08/2008 10:04

My m/s is subsiding too thank the lord, I find it so difficult to do anything when i feel that horrible.

On my own this weekend as DH has gone to the rugby at Twickenham, so alone with DD. Lifting her has been a bit of a strain, didn't realise how much DH did actually

We're off to Majorca on Friday, can't wait, other than the flight which fills me with dread....

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calsworld · 17/08/2008 10:28

Your cycle length can make a huge difference to your due date.

Your cycle is made up of two lenths of time, the first is the time between the first day of your last period and ovulation and the second between ovulation and period. Most calculator assume an average period length of 28 days, which is 14 days till ovulation, then 14 days till period. The phase between ovulation and period is called the luteal phase and doesn't typically vary in an individual and usually will be 13/14 days.

Where it all gets a bit interesting is the fact that ovulation quite often doesn't occur on day 14 - and can vary in an individual depending on many factors - stress is the main one.

My cycle is an average of 31 days, but over the last six months has varied from 27 days through to 41 days. From monitoring my body really closely I believe that the month I got pregnant I didn't ovulate till day 24 of my cycle...this means that if I use an online calculator with a fixed cycle of 28 days, my EDD comes out as about the 17th of March (LMP 10th June) but if I calculate cycle length based on ovualtion on day 24, add on 13 days (my luteal phase) then if i hadn't got pregnant, this would have been a 37 day cycle for me. Using a pregnancy calculator that I can adjust cycle length to 37 gives me an EDD of 26th of March.

Whilst it doesn't seem a great deal, it is when you consider that if you go overdue you'll need to consider being induced but without an early dating scan or knowledge of your own cycle length, you could be induced a week before baby needs to be.

Phew! Hope that wasn't too complicated....feel free to challenge the details! Can't wait till my dating scan to see if my calculations are correct - I think the MW tomorrow is going to estimate me at nearly 10 weeks pg when in fact I'm only 8 but the scan should sort it all out.

HopingCat · 17/08/2008 17:08

Glad that MS is subsiding for quite a few people. It definitely is for me. Although I've had a cough recently and have to be careful not to cough too much, as someone else said.

People must be getting close to their 12 week scans now. I've got a couple of weeks left to wait and I'm not very patient. I want to see baby, and want to tell people and then wear whatever I want, not just clothes that hide my little bump. I'm getting paranoid about people guessing, as this happened last time. I want to suprise people this time. A friend of mine reached 24 weeks before she told people! She's very thin normally, but we didn't notice as it was winter and she was wearing a coat and scarf all the time. I won't get to 24 weeks like her, but am hoping to get to my scan at 13 weeks.

calsworld · 17/08/2008 18:40

HC, I'm only 8 weeks so I've got ages to wait - I'm dying to tell people too!

SquiffyHock · 17/08/2008 21:06

Just found this thread - can I join in please??

Due on 22nd March. A surprise third baby which was a shock to begin with but we are getting used to the idea

I feel like I've got travel sickness all day and the only food I can eat is bread based!! I'll probably never eat another salad sandwich again after this!

SquiffyHock · 17/08/2008 21:06

Just found this thread - can I join in please??

Due on 22nd March. A surprise third baby which was a shock to begin with but we are getting used to the idea

I feel like I've got travel sickness all day and the only food I can eat is bread based!! I'll probably never eat another salad sandwich again after this!

SquiffyHock · 17/08/2008 21:07

Sorry

Starshinetiger · 18/08/2008 09:55

Mornin' ladies. Ok, so those of you who are starting to feel better on the MS front - how far gone are you? I'm 9 weeks (well based on calculator 9 weeks today, but based on when I think I ovulated then, 9+3 today) am really hanging on to feel better. On the plus side, I have lost 7lbs so far (which I could well afford to lose), but would rather be plump and feeling well, than slim and feeling sick . Am supposed to be on a hen weekend in two weeks and don't think I'm going to be up to it - especially as it involved 5 hours each way on the train (yeuch!). So, go on, give me hope and tell me you're feeling better in week 10 .
Welcome to Squiffy!

Mandy73 · 18/08/2008 10:37

Welcome Squiffy and congratulations!

I'm 9+2 today and there's definitely been a bit of a growth spurt in the past couple of days - uterus is getting firm & sticky-outy. Still no sickness here which worries me a tiny bit but they do say 50% of women don't get it. The grass is always greener eh?

Boobz · 18/08/2008 10:46

Am 9+4 today and feeling very tired indeed. No MS, still, so I think I have escaped that joy.

Have uploaded my scan at 9 weeks onto my profile which is probably not that exciting to look at for anyone else but me!

Just got back from the in-laws this weekend, making the big annoucement! (and it is big for them - first grandchild vs 3rd for my parents). FIL drives me up the wall (they are very posh with a lot of airs and graces) and he waved away my scan picture as if I was trying to show him a picture of my fanjo! He described the books I was reading (on active birth) as "awful" and then MIL proceeded to tell me the curry I'd eaten the night before was a stupid thing to do as everyone knows you don't eat curries whilst pregnant.

Glad to be home.

calsworld · 18/08/2008 11:00

Boobz - what do Indian ladies do during pregnancy then? Eat fish and chips? LOL!

I had a similar reaction from my FIL and it was his first grandchild - nothing I did during pregnancy was right but he's a brilliant grandad now, its only cos he cares . He was adamant that babies can't hear noises whilst inside the womb despite all the research and evidence to prove it!

About to disappear off to my MW appt. Fingers crossed its a nice one

calsworld · 18/08/2008 11:03

Sorry - hope that doesn't sound racist, I'm not assuming that all indian people eat is curries just trying to make a point.....

It was a point my MW made when I was due with DS and saying that eating curries doesn't normally induce labour!

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