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Due March 2009? Grab your duvet & sick bucket!!

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auntyspan · 01/08/2008 16:59

Brand new thread ladies!

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calsworld · 14/08/2008 16:03

lizziemum - what's an ECV? Between me and my two sisters we've had four children, all by CS . All three of my sisters' births were ECS due to breech babies and mine was an emergency CS as DS got stuck!

My preference is to have the baby and go home if at all possible - if I don't have it there to start off with - not sure about VBAC at home though having never had a VB.

lizziemun · 14/08/2008 16:06

It is where the consultant trys to manually turn the baby head down so you don't have to a c-section if it is successful.

They push your 'bump' around moving the baby around it can be uncomfortable/painfull

laweaselmys · 14/08/2008 16:29

Basically there is a hereditary hip shape in our family which means lots of breech babies but most have been born naturally and some have been turned. I just worry because I've got such a bad reputation with institutions that if anything went wrong they would forget about me. A hospital last year 'forgot' I had appendicitus and left me sitting in a ward for 17 hrs with no check-ups or anything and didn't do anything until after my appendix exploded and I lost consciousness.
It might seem silly but if there was a risk of something going wrong (which breech position and all the abdominal scars I now have mean there is a slight one) I would rather be booked in and open on the table on a set day where I know they can't possibly forget about me if something goes wrong because they are already operating!!

If it's not breech I would like a water birth but again, would probably do it in hospital for just-in-case peace of mind. Then get out of there as soon as I could afterwards.

Mandy73 · 14/08/2008 17:52

Afternoon,

Hope everyone's OK.
Just had an 'afternoon nap' from 2pm to 5pm

Boobz · 14/08/2008 18:47

I haven't had my nap today, as have been reading Birth Reborn by Michael Odent.

Anyone would think I don't have a full time job... hmmm.

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Elsy · 14/08/2008 21:23

Haven't posted for a while as I've been feeling so sick, but amazingly I feel a little better today. Yesterday was a shocker as I had my first ever migraine. My vision was completely blurred (it was like a flickering circle in front of my eyes) and I was terrified at first because I had no idea what was happening. Worst of all, I was in a meeting at work. I only go in every few weeks and I didn't want to interrupt the meeting so I just kept quiet while convincing myself I had a brain tumour. Went to the doctor today and she says it sounds like a classic migraine without headache. Anyone else had pregnancy-related migraines?

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MKG · 15/08/2008 00:25

Boobz what book did you get? I hope you got "Hypnobirthing: The Mongan Method". I 've only read it about 10 times.

MKG · 15/08/2008 00:26

I'm sick of the bathroom, because I'm putting off cleaning it. I just can't be bothered. Today I feel like got hit by a truck, I was no good at work.

dinny · 15/08/2008 09:18

anyone else's tummy sticking out a bit now? mine just has changed a little!

my dd was born at 35wks and 5 days and 6.7lb and ds was 40+1 and 9.3lb (and got stuck!)

would like this one to be in the middle of that if poss!

lollipopz · 15/08/2008 10:08

Feeling good so far today but ds slept right through the nite so that coyld have something to do with it!
My kids all got heavier! DD1 7.1lb dd2 7.3lb and ds 8.4lb!
Kinda hoping this one breaks the trend!
Take care L xx

dinny · 15/08/2008 11:02

it is said subsequent children get heavier, isn't it?

babyinbelly · 15/08/2008 11:19

My tummy def sticking out. last week maternity trousers too big. now the only thing thats comfy. I had ds1 by cs and he was 8lb2. this time hoping for vbac so hopefully baby not too big

dinny · 15/08/2008 11:23

when you due, Babyinbelly?

babyinbelly · 15/08/2008 11:26

not had scan yet but date accoring to mw 6 march

Boobz · 15/08/2008 11:35

MKG, I did indeed buy Hypnobirthing: The Mongan Method, but it's the only one that hasn't arrived yet! I think it's coming from the US with a CD or something. The other ones I got are:

Birth Reborn by Michael Odent
New Active Birth by Janet Balaskas
Childbirth without Fear by Grantly Dick Read
Spiritual Midwifery by Ina May Gaskin
Baby Catcher by Peggy Vincent
Home Birth by Nicky Wesson

As you can see from my list, I am trying for an active, natural homebirth. God knows whether I will get the birth I am planning for (am thinking of hiring an independent midwife to try and increase my chances) but will give it a go.

And HW, yes, I am sick of bloody peeing all the the bloody time.

emma2617 · 15/08/2008 11:47

Can someone answer a VERY stupid question! I know it is probably self explanatory...but what exactly is an "active birth" MW mentioned it and I see it mentioned everywhere but I have no clue!

lizziemun · 15/08/2008 11:57

Dinny that's my big worry. DD1 was 9lb 4oz heavier then dd2 she was only 9lb 2oz. i am realy hoping this one will be smaller.

Boobz · 15/08/2008 12:28

Emma - I think it has all sorts of meanings and interpretations, but for me it's being able to move around and take control of positions and alter where you are in the room / how much you are moving about to get the baby out as comfortably (!) as possible.

So that's things like water birth, walking around, lying on your side or squatting, leaning over on all fours and being as active as possible to work through labour and the contractions. It's more difficult to have an acive birth in hospital because they are more likely to want to monitor the baby's heart beat / keep you on the bed as much as possible so that the MWs can examine you etc. You are also much more likely to have an epidural which basically means you are confined to the bed and can't push as easily as it's difficult to feel when to push. You are more likely to have forceps or ventouse which means you have to be on your back which means you are working against gravity (most women, given the choice, prefer to squat to give birth as this is the easiest way to work with gravity and getting the baby out).

But this is all from a book - I have not given birth so I am probably talking out my ass. I'm sure lots of ladies have successful active births at hospital as well as at home, but I think it's been proven that more intervention does take place at a hospital.

Boobz · 15/08/2008 12:31
MKG · 15/08/2008 13:22

Spiritual Midiwfery is good, to me the best part was the first half, because they are really great stories.

Baby Catcher, great book, it's very American, but it is just a really touching story with great homebirth and hospital birth stories (I remember recommending it on the other thread).

Childbirth without fear- I haven't read it, but it was a huge influence on Marie Mongan who developed hypnobirthing.

I'm training to be a doula so I've read a lot of books on childbirth.

MKG · 15/08/2008 13:22

If you can also try Birthing from Within by Pam England. Another good one.

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