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Due June 08: A few eggs have hatched, we wish the rest would GET CRACKING!!!

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systemsaddict · 10/06/2008 15:15

Let's hope the rest of the eggs get cracking very soon!

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PregnantPenguin · 17/06/2008 16:20

Can anyone tell me a bit more about sweeps? Who has had one? Did it work? Did it hurt? Will do a google and MN thread search, but I kinda trust you guys! I'm guessing/hoping I'll be offered one on thursday...

mellymell · 17/06/2008 16:51

PP - as a 'sooty' old hand, here are some answers:

From www.babycentre.co.uk/:
Membrane sweeping is done by your midwife or doctor. While internally examining you, he or she will simply "sweep" a finger around the neck of your womb (cervix). The aim is to separate the membranes around your baby from your cervix. This releases hormones called prostaglandins, which may kick-start your labour.

A membrane sweep increases the likelihood that labour will start within 48 hours. It has a higher chance of working if the neck of your womb is already softening and preparing for labour. It does not increase the risk of infection to either you or your baby.

A membrane sweep can be uncomfortable as the neck of the womb is often difficult to reach before labour begins and there may be some slight "spotting" of blood and irregular contractions immediately afterwards.
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I've had one so far and due another tomorrow.

Did it work - not this time, but often people say that that's all they needed to get them going and I'm definitely having another before I seek more drastic means of induction.

Did it hurt? - it's not the most comfortable thing to have done to you - it's one of those things where the person doing it will say "this will be less uncomfortable if you relax" - which you try to do through gritted teeth . I just try to breathe deeply and place my fists in the small of my back (tilts the pelvis better).

Definitely worth trying 1-2 before having to go through the induction route.

poppy34 · 17/06/2008 17:00

very helpful mellymel - when you say uncomfy is it akin to a smear or a colposcopy?

mellymell · 17/06/2008 17:07

poppy34 - I'd say more uncomfortable than a smear - if the MW is good, she really gets her fingers in and gives everything a good prod. The first time I ever had it done, I didn't really know what I was letting myself in for (and I swear the woman had fingers of iron) and swore loudly! However, it did get me going.

PregnantPenguin · 17/06/2008 17:13

Thank you Mellymel - at least I'll be prepared.

Poppy, I was going to ask exactly the same question!

poppy34 · 17/06/2008 17:22

thanksmellymel -this is why I love mumsnet as you can ask ANYTHING

ktpie · 17/06/2008 17:23

Thanks for that mellymell, need to give it some thought. Gut reaction at the moment is that if there is no reason to try and hurry the baby out I'd rather wait. But I haven't even reached my due date so may think differently next week.
Definitely agree about it being worth trying before anything more drastic.

DQ my birth plan is very basic as well! Has there been any news from upsidedowncake recently?

ktpie · 17/06/2008 17:24

Wonder how Debs is getting on. She might be concentrating on things other than mumsnet by now!

aberdeenhiker · 17/06/2008 17:56

ooh! hugs to deb!

and a clarification - I'm not in my regular clothes, but in the clothes I bought postpartumn last time with DS1 that are two sizes too big. I found it really helpful to take the pressure off getting into regular clothes!

otherwise, my stitches seem slightly better today ... fingers crossed!

fungle · 17/06/2008 18:14

Hi all!
ktpie, with you all the way on 'things most looking forward to'. Wine, yep. Sleeping on front, yep, but as I remember last time, it's still not really possible when first breastfeeding, damn it!
All this talk of sweeps....I just had midwife today and have been booked in for sweep at 40+7 which will be next Tue. Then another 48 hours later. Then induction if they don't work at 40+14. From what I know of sweeps they only work if your on your way almost already. I had one at 40+7 with DD and nothing occured.
Good luck to Debs....I'm presuming she must be well on her way now!
LO has gone sooo far down now It really hurts. Found out today also that she is back to back Have been told to spend time on all fours. Any other advice welcome....

makecakesnotwar · 17/06/2008 18:24

Oh Lord- so many babies...

Congratulations to
Kif
Lazylou
systemaddict
Needahand
Emotionalwreck
Basilbrush
Dymansluckymum
Rolf
spongebrainbigpants
Essie

so very very very pleased and delighted you have your little babies. Almost as glad as I am to have mine

PearTart · 17/06/2008 19:34

Happy Due Date Fungle! (Full moon is 5.30pm tomorrow BTW)

So excited Deb- you must be having your baby now...

Rolf- Congrats and major respect for breech HB! What a beautifully appropriate name Theodora is for your little girl. LOL at you being the talk of the hospital now!

Sponge- Congrats on the birth of Alexander, and on Father's day, looking fwd to the story later.

Mellymel- I've also been a-bouncing on my pilates ball and getting a lot more BH's. I'm full of hope.

TGF- glad the feeding has calmed down.

Puddock & Poppy- I'm looking fwd to sushi & chocolate mousse...

I'm having a sweep tomorrow- I'm really looking fwd to it as I'm desperate to get this baby out. I had one with DD last time and it didn't hurt- just felt odd, although I might not have been ready then. It does seem to depend on the MW who does it and how accessible your cervix is.

Wish me luck please everyone!

Rolf · 17/06/2008 19:59

Good luck tomorrow, Peartart. I know what you mean about looking forward to it - that's why I was so gutted when the mw couldn't do one.

PP - I had a sweep before being induced with DD1. I really does help if you can try to relax. I had some light bleeding afterwards and felt period-y, hormonal and weepy.

My milk has come in

aberdeenhiker · 17/06/2008 20:20

good luck peartart!

I went and bought blue and soft cheese right after I read all the earlier posts... mmmm... can't believe it took me this long.

PearTart · 17/06/2008 20:30

Oooh AH- Good for you, I can't wait to have some gooey brie!

thegreenfairy · 17/06/2008 20:43

Storm back to feeding hourly. Still not slept.

And our F*CKING ECOBALLS got twisted up into a towel in the wash and when it went to spin cycle COMPLETELY smashed up the inside of the washing machine drum - shards of metal now sticking out of the drum. Totally unusable. Got to claim on the insurance. £125 excess. Not what I need the same month the car needs MOTing and taxing and the cot mattress needs buying and I NEED TO SLEEEEEEP.

Good luck to those in labour btw. Debs I am rooting for you my dear.

Feeling sorry for myself and now facing up to the fact I need to sell the [unused] birthing pool and accessories and can't bloody face it because it just reminds me of the birth I hoped for and didn't get.

Urgh. I feel shit.

poppy34 · 17/06/2008 21:01

hugs to greenfairy - you are not having a great time of it. at ecoballs..bloody things. Hope things ease a bit with storm and you get some sleep.

peartartgood luck - you could be gloating about a sushi/chocolate mousse feast as puddock and I carry on enjoying our delicious feasts of pineapple and raspberry leaf tea

spongebrainbigpants · 17/06/2008 21:52

greenfairy, really sorry to hear you're feeling low - can totally relate to the sadness at not having the birth you'd planned, i had such romantic images of how my LO would enter the world and being dragged out of me with forceps while i was high as a kite on drugs was not how i imagined it

are you getting lots of support at home?

maybe talk to your MW/HV

sophiewd · 17/06/2008 22:10

Oh GF sound like you are having a really tough time of it, really feeling for you at the moment.

katyjo · 17/06/2008 22:19

DEBS lol can't believe your still on mumsnet, in labour in the hospital - you definately win a prize for the most addicted mumsnetter!!

greenfairy hope your feeling ok, I just wanted you to know I think you did an amazing job making sure your little one came into the world in the best possible way, I know you didn't get to have the homebirth you wanted, but really no matter how well the birth goes you do always want to do things differently, so please don't beat yourself up. You couldn't have had a better birth than you did, you should be really proud. I ended up expressing a bit so dh could feed ds as he fed every hour too. He was about 10 days old, I know its not recommended but it worked for me, just so I could get a few hours sleep. How's the latch now, please make sure you get lots of support I got very close to PND with ds and mainly due to lack of sleep. I also kept a diary I found my head was swimming and it helped me sleep if I wrote it all down.

debinaustria · 17/06/2008 22:47

Hi,

Just a quick one Debs gave birth to a gorgeous son at 6.30 today!! It weighed 4 and half KG!!( nearly 10lbs!!). A big baby. But she did really well with no stitches and no pain relief ( they don't have gas and air in Austria!!)

I am sure she will report more when she gets to a computer- maybe when she in hospital.

debs DH

PearTart · 17/06/2008 22:48

big hug Green Fairy.
All those things at once and hourly feeding and lack of sleep. How annoying with the ecoballs- when you're trying to do your bit for the world. I hope your car doesn't need too much attention.
I think with a birth that didn't go your way (and very few do) it's important to talk about it. In fact any birth as it's such a huge moment in your life. I went to a local new parents' group and our respective birth experiences were all we talked about for ages. If you feel you need more answers from a medical point of view seek out your birth afterthoughts MW at your hospital for a de-briefing and answers to questions that may remain.

Poppy- since I'm also "enjoying" the pineapple & RLT I can't wait to be gloating!

katyjo · 17/06/2008 22:49

Congratulations Debs and Mr Austria! Wow you did really well, no pain relief and a 10lber takes my breath away!

PearTart · 17/06/2008 22:50

Congrats Deb & Mr Debs! Whopper- is he the biggest babe on the thread? We'll look fwd to hearing more- but get Deb to rest before hitting the keyboard again!!

bun2 · 17/06/2008 22:55

Hi All,

Just catching up - it was my birthday today and have been having a lovely day with my DH - crikey loads has happened today.

Debs - congrats and what a great birthday!

Essie - congratulations hope everything is going OK now. Sounds traumatic.

Rolf - Well done - what a fast labour. Amazing!

Spongebrain - Congrats. Can't wait to hear the details.

Ernest - good luck finding another gynae.

mellymel thank you for all the info about sweeps. I had my first on Monday and have been having irregular campy pains in my back and lower bump but nothing else. Have another booked in on Thursday. Was slightly uncomfortable but no more so than a smear test. I must say my midwife is being fab - just can't wait for the real thing to start now. I am so uncomfortable and sleeping is a real problem - am wide awake at 4am every morning until 6am. Have to get up at 6.30 to get DD1 ready and off for school. Very, very tired this evening and hope I sleep better tonight.

Well done again everyone and night night. Will catch up again tomorrow.

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