Spent an evening at MILs and got a dose of what we will be in for once baby arrives. SIL's baby is 6 weeks old and has been very unsettled. She was on a particular formula which made her very colicky ( as in screaming for HOURS) every evening ) so SIL switched her to a different, thicker one. Result is much, much happier baby but she now farts loads!.
Now, MIL spent the WHOLE evening telling SIL that that couldn't be good and that she should switch formula again which of course SIL doesn't want to do as baby is so much happier. MIL then kept asking me whether I didn't think SIL should switch formulas again. Now for a start, I know very little about formula-feeding as I have always bf mine and they got very little formula so I am no expert. Secondly, my opinion is that SIL was climbing the walls before she switched, I do know what a colicky baby is like and it is very distressing for everyone concerned and if baby is quieter and SIL can get some peace, what's a little farting?
Thirdly, it's none of my business or MIL's business what SIL decides to do for HER baby!
It just brings it all back for me, no matter what you do, MIL is never happy, but if only she'd just keep it to herself! I know with this baby, she'll be going on about routines, suggesting topping up with formula and going on about how she never had a sleepless night with her babies ( Yeah, right!) And she never seems to get that neither SIL nor I ever listen to any of her advice so there is no point in wittering on!
Think I will go into hiding with baby for 3 months!
VS, am a bit worried about you, think you should definitely ring MW, especially with vision changes!