This is my second time and I'm definitely not as excited... I think there's a strong element of knowing what is coming next (sorry first timers!!) i.e. getting huge, painful indigestion, swollen ankles... which all seemed exciting first time round and like 'proper' pregnancy but now a lot more like a pain in the arse. (Oh, and there's that too...)
DH: Wasn't there anything positive about being pregnant?
Me: Other than the baby at the end of it, absolutely not.
DH:
So I don't think it's a lack of maternal instinct or anything like that, just a natural reaction to a situation you've already experienced.
Kind of like when you fall in love, you don't feel the same 2 years later but that doesn't mean you don't still want to be together. (Hopefully!)
Jodie I feel quite reassured that your small man is only taking a few steps, DS is almost 13mths and not even pulling himself up yet, saw colleague's baby few days ago who is only 3 weeks older and running round the whole house, performing much more complex fine motor skills... keep telling myself they are all different but it's hard not to make comparisons!!
Bought some ingredients today to make gingerbread - ostensibly for xmas sweet treats, to an extent as a morning sickness remedy, realistically just as an excuse to stuff my face...