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Due June 2020: thread 7. The one where babies appear

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AndddddHerewegoagain · 13/05/2020 21:39

Hi everyone. Starting another thread!! Hoping we start having babies appear very soon!!

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Gigitree · 20/05/2020 15:49

@Blizy oh that’s fab you know exactly what to expect from the procedure then!
I can’t imagine how it must feel for it to be such an unknown about the possible DS diagnosis! ❤️

SearchingTheSkies · 20/05/2020 17:08

Hi everyone, I had a growth scan today and baby is growing just fine but still rather small. Anyway, they picked up that my amniotic fluid level is a bit high. They have done a blood test to see if they can pinpoint a cause. Reading up online, it seems it could point to a problem with baby (or lead to some complications) but could also be absolutely nothing to worry about. I'm not sure how to feel but can't help but worry. Has anyone else had this?

@BabyBird20 so sorry your appointment didn't go well. I can't think why an emergency csection would be preferable to a planned one. Could your midwife help perhaps?

umabb · 20/05/2020 17:11

Just got back from a growth scan and found out reduced waters (at 5 percentile..) . A sign of either baby's kidneys not functioning well or placenta isn't doing what it should do. Baby's kidneys seem to be fine since wk 20 do will be doing some checks tomorrow to find out why 😕 if waters keep on reducing likely to be induced at 39wks.

Always something to worry.

36+3

umabb · 20/05/2020 17:13

@SearchingTheSkies posted my last msg then saw yours ! Will be ideal if we could balance our waters a bit hehe

BirdGarden · 20/05/2020 17:17

Sorry to all those having last minute worries Sad

@SearchingTheSkies have they suggested a rescan? I had this at my 20 week scan, duly went home and googled and cr*pped myself something was wrong. Went back 4 days later and levels were within boundaries (top end of normal, but normal nonetheless, ironically I have a 6 week short bump still!) and baby was in a different place, apparently sometimes the measurement can be thrown out just by what baby is doing - hope that's the case for you x

umabb · 20/05/2020 17:30

@BabyBird20 ah ! Sorry to hear that. Not nice at all.... why it has to be so hard SadConfused
Can you say that this has mentally impacted you which isn't fair and you don't think you can and don't want to handle a tryout??

SearchingTheSkies · 20/05/2020 17:57

@umabb Oh no! Sorry to hear your waters are misbehaving as well. I always thought it was normal for them to reduce close to due date. Hope they can reassure you soon. Need a lie down with all this worry!

@BirdGarden That's reassuring to hear! I'll have another scan in 3 weeks! Seems a long time to wait if something is wrong.

MsMiaWallace · 20/05/2020 19:04

@SearchingTheSkies I had this at my scan last week. I had a gtt test to rule out GD yesterday.
Midwife ringing me tomorrow with results.
Is your bump massive?

Pegase · 20/05/2020 19:25

Sorry to hear how many of us are having last minute pregnancy issues. Last month seems to be so risky!

@BabyBird20 they are not allowed to do that- they have to refer you to a different consultant or trust who will go ahead with your request

I would try PALS for support and also check caesareanbirth.org

Some media coverage to use as well

www.independent.co.uk/news/health/coronavirus-caesarean-sections-nhs-hospitals-maternity-a9514356.html

Magpiefeather · 20/05/2020 19:29

@SearchingTheSkies and @MsMiaWallace I had this in my last pregnancy, picked up at 36 week scan (that was a different trust to the one I’m with in this pregnancy and they did a routine 36 week scan). Up til then everything had been measuring bang on average so it was a bit of a shock.

They did all sorts of tests - glucose tolerance in case of GD, torch screen blood test and tested for something else I can’t recall the name of. They also had a more detailed look on the scan and said they could see baby swallowing fluid and kidneys looked fine. Anyway I questioned whether it was a problem because I was only JUST above the max threshold that tipped me over into “polyhydramnios”. I asked them how they measured what was too much fluid (apparently there are two ways: measuring the largest quadrant only or taking an average of all 4). They had measured the largest so I asked for them to also do an average of all four. Well when they did that it emerged that the baby was lying right over to one side so the other quadrants had a lot less fluid than they’d expect! Which was enough to set my mind at ease but they did then put me under a consultant because it now said polyhydramnios on my notes.

She wanted to induce me at term and I refused and said i wanted to go to 40+10 (that was their general guideline). I felt deep down that baby was fine and wasn’t worried. All the tests for possible causes came back clear and I saw another much more reasonable (in my opinion) consultant who thought the slightly higher volume of waters was just a variant of normal for me. My own midwife was not concerned either and still maintained I wasn’t measuring too big by fundal height. The only thing they couldn’t rule out was that there could be a problem in baby’s digestive system. So after birth they wanted to take baby for a test which involved passing an Ng tube down her throat and testing giving her some fluid. Now I must note here that this is not necessarily standard at all, I have a friend who is a paediatric Doctor in a different trust and she said they would never have done that in this situation, she said any issues would present themselves very definitely after baby’s first feed anyway.

Looking back I almost wish I had trusted my instincts more but actually I don’t think I could have gone against the hospital’s advise. They did the test after birth and as I knew deep down she was absolutely fine with no issues. She was 7lbs 6oz and born by spontaneous labour at 41+1. They never found the cause.

I hope I haven’t caused more worry by telling you my experiences. I think it’s a very individual thing assessing the risk and whether it’s worrying or not. At least they have flagged it and if there IS a cause they will find it. But if you have niggling doubts I would say do ask lots of questions, get them to take the average of the fluid if they haven’t already, and if they suggest the test like my daughter had after birth I wish I’d have probed them more about what the risks and benefits were (only because they wouldn’t Let me try and feed her until she had had the test, but they were mega busy and she was waiting ages and was sooo angry bless her at being away from me, I think it didn’t help our breastfeeding journey start off very well at all).

Please try not to worry too much and I hope you get more info soon.

Magpiefeather · 20/05/2020 19:37

Ps needless to say DD is absolutely fine and is currently next to me singing to herself while she’s supposed to be going to sleep!

newbyxx · 20/05/2020 20:28

@Rinoa they're so expensive, I got the cleva mama version from amazon which is the exact same but half the price ! I couldn't justify the sleepyhead as I'm going to stop using it once baby is abit active/ rolling x

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BabyBird20 · 20/05/2020 20:42

Thanks ladies for your messages and support today, I've been very up and down. I will be speaking to my midwife next week and am checking out the info from Pals and birthrights. I'm going to see if there's a trust near me still offering c sections but I'm also going to write a birth plan for labour with very specific instructions that I don't want forceps/interventions and I want a very low threshold for moving to c section if things look like they might be going wrong for the baby. I'm not worried about me, I just want him here safely!!

Need to change my mindset and try and get positive and ready for labour as have spent hours researching c sections! Just inflated a birth ball so if anyone recommends any exercises please let me know! Also any magic products that help post birth, particularly if there's any episiotomy/tearing as I'm sure that's going to happen!! 😬😬

Rinoa · 20/05/2020 20:44

Thanks @newbyxx good find !

AndddddHerewegoagain · 20/05/2020 20:55

@BabyBird20 as far as i know you just sit on the ball and bounce 😂😂 that's what im doing as little madam has disengaged her head. Sigh. Been contracting all day which i feel would have gone somewhere if her head was enagaged so currently trying to get her back to where she was at 38 weeks

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APD1981 · 20/05/2020 21:28

@Andddddherewegoagain I can't imagine how frustrating that must be! Keep bouncing!

AndddddHerewegoagain · 20/05/2020 21:56

Thanks @APD1981 super frustrating! Did half an hour on the ball. Stopped to express some colostrum which has made me contract more. My friend told me to get back on the ball but i want to go to bed and sleep now lol. I went into labour with my son on 2 hours sleep and would rather not repeat that this time round

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APD1981 · 20/05/2020 22:06

Do you think the colostrum harvesting has helped at all? I plan to start at the weekend when I'm 38 weeks. Get some rest and hopefully your cramping will wake you in the night ready for some baby action!! I'm so excited for you. Hope you don't have to wait long x

SearchingTheSkies · 20/05/2020 22:13

@Magpiefeather @MsMiaWallace Thank you both so much for sharing your experiences. My bump feels average sized to me, but have never had the tape measure check as I'm under the consultant so have growth scans instead. It does feel very tight though.

My feeling is that maybe the 'deepest pool' was just deeper than elsewhere, as although baby is head down, she is leaning over to one side. I'll see what the blood test reveals and go from there. Might also ring midwife to get her opinion. I'll keep you posted.

@AndddddHerewegoagain sounds like things are gradually getting going for you. Hopefully not too long now.

BirdGarden · 20/05/2020 22:30

@AndddddHerewegoagain definitely get yourself some final sleep! I made the mistake of doing too much walking in latent labour trying to get DD out I think, and your backside gets numb from too much bouncing (maybe that's just me Blush)

@SearchingTheSkies that's a really long time to wait for another scan, particularly given all the things they might look for afterwards in Mia's post! How far along will you be then?

AndddddHerewegoagain · 20/05/2020 22:37

@APD1981 ive been harvesting since 37 weeks and am evidently still pregnant so hasn't helped with labour however I have gestational diabetes so feel good that i have around 15ml of colostrum if her sugars drop and can avoid formula
(Nothing against formula my son was formula fed as i couldn't feed him) but he did have a lot of colostrum in the beginning to give him a boost.

@birdgarden I did the same with ds. As soon as my plug went and i was obviously in labour i spent all night on my ball trying to progress it. by 6am I was in proper labour and exhausted. Definitely getting all the sleep I can this time!!

Tomorrow will be my first child free day in about a year so guaranteed to go into labour 😂

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SerBrienneOfHouseTarth · 21/05/2020 00:18

@SearchingTheSkies I had excess fluid and it went back to normal next scan which was 2 weeks later. They said it was likely the babys position x

MsMiaWallace · 21/05/2020 07:39

I'm hoping the extra waters for me was because of babies position & the fact I have a bicornuate uterus.
I do feel my bump is big though. But you can see where baby is lying.

HaichMal · 21/05/2020 07:47

@birdgarden my midwife understood about not having a sweep the day before we moved house, so that wasn't an issue, and it wasn't offered earlier or even mentioned earlier than right at the end anyway. The last couple of appointments were the same midwife thankfully. It is a lot harder seeing lots of different midwives. I've found it much easier this time that I've just been seeing one, especially with the anxiety after my MMC.

I did go for induction at 40+12, with a 24 hour pessary. I didn't know if it was an option to not be induced or not but a)we were convinced he'd come as soon as we moved in and b) I just wanted him out by then so a little help was appreciated. Due to being low risk they sent me home after some monitoring and with a return for some more around the 12 hour mark. Waters went within an hour of returning home after the second lot of monitoring. He was 9lb10 with a 36cm head, so I'm glad he didn't cook any more than he did!