@Lazydaisydaydream so sorry to hear how your feeling. You did have a Consultant app last week didn't you where they said they thought everything was ok so it's a bit confusing about a further appt this week isn't it? I can understandably see why this is worrying you, I would feel the same too. All I can think is that it's a cross checking, dotting the i's type of thing and actually things still remain ok as you were told last week. By Friday, do you mean this is 2moro? So not to long to wait, or do you mean next Friday?
In terms of midwife appts it's so strange how each different NHS trust is doing things differently, I guess on the back of different pressures in each individual area. Mine is continuing to offer face to face appts and last time overly stressed how important this is, but have heard so many being on the phone.
I had a high glucose level at my last appt. Had to drop in another sample a week later but have heard nothing about whether it's clear or not or whether in all the faff when I dropped it off it ever got tested! So what I've done is buy some urine test strips on Amazon and gonna test at home myself. I've got ones with really good reviews so gonna take my own readings in between MW appts to keep an eye on it myself, it might be worth doing similar if you feel ok about reading and interpreting the results and then at least that bit gets checked. BP is more tricky to check yourself, but if your worried about either of those you could speak to a GP, they seem to be more responsive at getting back to you about medical concerns that MW anyway.
Sorry no experience here to help you, but just try to take your mind off things as much as you can, at this point worrying doesn't actually help anything because it's out of your hands so keep reminding yourself that when u catch yourself worrying and just try to hang in there as best you can until you get more answers.
We'll all be thinking of you here and just post any worries and anxieties here as were a good sounding board of support xx