Just got back from the hospital day unit. They suggested I come in for monitoring so I went in, explained about DS being early and they monitored me for about half an hour. Baby is engaged but the MW reassured me that igt doesn't mean I'm about to go into labour and that baby could just as easily be breech in a week since they still have enough room to move.
She did confirm that I am having very mild contractions - probably BH - and I have basically been told to keep an eye on them. If they get progressively more intense, fall into more of a pattern, take on the form of 'waves' of pain that starts off mild and then peak and go down again - then I have to go back in.
No signs of any waters breaking or anything so that is very reassuring.
Still getting the contraction type pain but it's not very bad at the mo. Hopefully it's just a combination of BH and the baby changing to head down position.
Floanna - definitely agree with mrsj - after having DS, I am now totally in awe of single mothers. I really honestly don't know how they do it. If I was ever put in that situation, I think I would end up having a nervous breakdown. Mind you, a couple of my single mummy friends say that although it's usually easier with 2 parents, not having to worry about a DP can be a bit of a perk sometimes! No disagreements about how to deal with the kids, no oneupmanship on who's done more nappy changes etc.
Tea - maternity leave is a great opportunity to assess how happy you are at work. I used it as an opportunity to start work as a henna artist and I am currenly assessing options regarding what 'proper'job to go back to. Normally you're far too engrossed in the day to day stuff to stand back and look at your options.
Good luck with it anyway.
Must go now as DH is getting stroppy that I'm paying more attention to MN than him
By the way - he brought me breakfast in bed this morning and specifically asked me if I would be telling you guys. MN is taking over!
Sparkly and Lizzie - please check in and let us know how you are!