July 2019 Part 4 - Still in the 1st Trimester

[Frazzlerock]

New thread y'all

This is going to be our good luck thread

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Fuck, @Frazzlerock, I'm so sorry. I'm gutted for you, and can't imagine how you feel. As others have said, you've been such a lovely presence on this board.

@TwittleBee, that sounds like a good idea. Get home and look after yourself. Remember, it's ok to take sick leave for being pregnant, and they can't touch you for it. Don't make yourself do more than you feel able to x

@TwittleBee definitely get yourself home. Poor thing x

@frazzle you’ve been an amazing presence on this board - will be sad to see you go. Please pop back if you feel like it to keep in touch.

@twittlebee - definitely go home - most important thing is to look after yourself. Hope you’re ok.

oh @Frazzlerock, I am so so sorry. I can only echo what all these other lovely ladies have already said, it is so unfair that you are going through this again. You have been wonderful company on this thread and whatever happens in the future please know that you would be welcome on any ante-natal board. I hope that you and your DH can take some time to grieve together and support each other. I hope you get some answers soon that, while cannot take away the pain, may give you some comfort in knowledge. huge hugs x

Ah Frazzle I really really wanted it to be okay, I’m so sorry.

Oh @Frazzlerock i'm so so sorry I've just welled up in tears seeing that. I was so rooting for you and Popsy. Please don't let this break you and DH face this together as a strong unit and hopefully the genetic testing will throw up some solutions that will give you your rainbow. Huge hugs.

Oh no @frazzlerock - I am so sorry. Like everyone else has said, we have really appreciated you on here and have really liked your support, guidance and general niceness.
It sounds like it is going to be really tough over the next few weeks/months for you so please reach out for all the support you need.
And you are not a bad luck omen - this happens to people and it's just an awful thing.
Take care of yourself
xx

Oh Frazzle I'm so sorry. Thinking of you and your family and hoping you get some answers

@TwittleBee I hope you're at home resting now. Your scan is tomorrow isn't it?

And I forgot to say that of course you're not a bad luck omen at all!

My eyes are rolling in my head I'm so tired - considering going to sit on the toilet floor for ten mins so I can shut my eyes - but I'm not sure how clean it is.

Hope you're home and ok @twittlebee!

Frazzle There are no words let yourself grieve. I hope you have your rainbow soon

Yeah scan tomorrow at midday MakeAWhish but it's just a private scan, the NHS one is on Friday.

Can't stop crying. I just feel so angry. DH is being useless too.

So sorry @frazzlerock awful news xx

Last day off sick today back at work tomorrow. Really hoping I will feel well enough getting anxious about it now. Bought lots of bits to take to nibble on through the day. I’ve just felt shattered today I’ll probably fall asleep at my desk! Just hoping I don’t feel too sick and it’s obvious to everyone I’m pregnant

Just had my flu jab. Asked for my hcg level from yest blood test and it was 5134 at 5wks. Nurse said that was perfect? I know it still needs to double when I have them done tomorrow though x

@Kentishgal I may or may not have lay down on my office floor for a bit yesterday!

@Frazzlerock I'm so so so sorry my darling ❤️❤️❤️ xxxxxxx

Was off sick again today and finally got a doctors appointment. Thinks I'm on the cusp of that hyperaemis sickness or whatever? I've got anti sickness tablets. Scan tomorrow if I can manage to get out of bed again! X

Ps I'm also sorry I haven't been on all day. Feel for you ladies today xxxx

Snailorswift that's a fab image! I assume people just stepped over?! I went into the loo, sat on the closed loo seat and rested my head on the wall but suddenly it became like Piccadilly Circus in there so thought it might raise questions if I stayed too long .

@frazzlerock thinking of you at this awful time and sending virtual hugs xx

Thoughts are with you frazzle, I'm sorry to hear of your bad news.