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July 2019 - early days part 2

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DianaBlythe · 08/11/2018 22:29

Just because I think we’re getting close to filling the first one. Pull up a pew, bring your decaf tea and all of the carbs!

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Laburna · 11/11/2018 08:23

Morning @myloc congratulations!

Can't believe we still haven't got through all the due dates in July yet. Seems bloody ages since @edinburghlass1991 started the first thread 🤣😂

MyloC · 11/11/2018 08:36

Thank you @Laburna I still don’t know what to think! I’m excited but feel like I don’t know what to do with myself. Only real symptoms are itchy nipples and needing to pee a lot!

TheScaredyKat · 11/11/2018 08:38

Morning all, just spent an hour catching up on all the news!
Welcome newcomers and congratulations!

I had my first Xmas party last night, I got through it by telling people I had terrible hangover. Then I had one sip of wine and said I didn't like it. Then I lied and said my lemonade was vodka and lemonde. Think I got away with it, did some very sober dancing which is unusual for me. Usually I can't bring myself to dance unless I've had a few drinks!

I'm getting a bit worried this morning. I've had inflated super sore boobs for about a week now but the last couple of days it's been easing off and this morning they don't hurt at all. Is that normal?

GiGi18 · 11/11/2018 08:40

@BellaNutella88 that's a good idea with the hangovers, totally gonna use that one, thanks!

I'm going to try and refer next week. Planning on phoning on Wednesday. I'll only be 4+5 then but rather just try and get the ball rolling. They can only tell you to phone back if it's too early.

I'm in the same boat with the weight gain. I lost weight for the wedding and put on about 1.5 stone after. I really don't want to fall into the whole eating for two thing from the beginning but I wasn't great last week at all because I was so tired and never knew what I fancied. I actually had two takeaways BlushThink I'll sit down today and do some meal planning as that usually keeps me on track. I'm not going to try and lose weight but I just want to have a healthy diet. For exercise I'm just going to try and walk a few miles a day I think and maybe do some light weights.

MrsC87 · 11/11/2018 08:57

Welcome @MyloC & congrats!!
My due date is 20/07 too, so we were cycle buddies TTC and now due the same!
So so pleased for you!! xx

Laburna · 11/11/2018 09:05

@TheScaredyKat it's totally normal! The symptoms will come and go, they swap and change about, and just when you start to wonder they'll come back and slap you around the face! My boobs aren't massively sore anymore, but my boobs are still massive and my nipples are itchy and so painful it I touch them!

That's my plan to @gigi18. Meal planning and batch cook galore! Helps when I'm too exhausted to cook as well! I haven't been walking loads, but will get back on it again when I feel more stable. Have a dog and a toddler to entertain so planning to get out to the park more and let them run wild while I wander about pointlessly 🤣

MyloC · 11/11/2018 09:18

Thanks @MrsC87 can’t believe! Haha that’s funny we have been so in sync! How are your symptoms? Have you stopped POAS?

babyHP · 11/11/2018 09:26

Thanks @Labruna - always comforting to hear its all normal!! Will defo look on Amazon. Its so tricky not to want to go overboard!!

@MrsC87 hello again :) we have the dame due date too!! Though I cannot for the life of me fill out that google document guys - sorry.

@GiGi18 I am totally with you on the eating front!! I got married in July this year and over the last 3 years have managed to keep 19kgs off (3 stoneish) and from what I read, it seems most of that goes back on in pregnancy which makes me super anxious!! I really worked so hard to keep it all off BUT being pregnant has been dream of mine, so I guess we have to compromise somewhere. Im with you in not wanting to loose weight but defo try not to gain too much! Doing a shop today too.

Thanks for making me smile this morning ladies!

Onestep2 · 11/11/2018 09:33

Good morning ladies! Hope everyone is well today 🙂

@MylocC congratulations and welcome! Exciting times for us all!

@theScardyKat congratulations on making it through your first sober party experience! Especially for the sober dancing!! I Have a big night out the weekend b4 Christmas with the girls and there is No way I will get away with any excuse not to drink! 🤔

@GiGi18 @bellanutella I'm the same as you, I lost a lot of weight in my run up to wedding in October and really do not want to put it all back on! I've spoken to my PT (who is a nutritionist as well) about this. I also still have about 2.5stone I could comfortably lose and still be a happy healthy weight. His advice is that during the first trimester it is possible to continue with "healthy eating" (no longer a strict diet plan) but more making the right choices, eating the right foods - proteins, healthy carbs etc.

His advice is that in the first trimester you should only need up to 100 extra colories (if anything) those only increase to 300 extra calories in the third trimester. He has made me an eating plan which I am going to start from tomorrow after I stuff my face all day today

One of my friends was overweight when she fell pregnant and was horrified with the thought of being a fat mum. She stuck to healthy eating and started going to the gym in her first trimester then when she went into labour she was lighter than she was when she fell pregnant!!!

As for exercise it's more about listening to your body. There's no reason during the first trimester you should avoid exercise. If you are used to the gym and exercises classes keep it up. If you are a beginner then start of slow and build it up. Happy, healthy mummy = happy, healthy baby. 🙂

Wishing everyone a fab Sunday 😘

Toria73 · 11/11/2018 09:33

Morning all, when do I panic about light brown spotting when wiping? I’m 5wks+6. Don’t know if I’m overreacting because when I was having my 8wk scan at last pregnancy they realised that the wee one had stopped growing at around the time I currently am now. Last time I had no spotting, no nausea but a lot of fatigue & massive expanding mammaries. This time it’s no different with the exception of this morning’s spotting. Again this is an ivf baby so I am on progesterone...

MrsC87 · 11/11/2018 09:35

Boobs & Nipples have grown. Odd bit of backache, metallic taste in mouth and tiredness. Other than that feel good! How about you @MyloC.
Yes stopped POAS after I got my clear blue digital result yesterday! Think it's finally sunk in xx

MrsC87 · 11/11/2018 09:36

Hey @babyHP how are you feeling? x

SnailorSwift · 11/11/2018 09:44

Morning all!

Welcome to those new on the thread 👋🏻 have to admit I haven't caught up yet - but I will now!

I'm feeling rubbish have an awful head cold, no appetite, constant nausea and just all round exhausted and rubbish.

DH away at work and not back till mid December so really hope it lifts soon as I'm struggling to get any rest with DS.

Lilfabet · 11/11/2018 10:16

Hi all!

5w +3 aged 39, first little one.
Had 2 CPs this year so hoping this one sticks!
Do you think it’s likely I could get an early scan or will they make me wait?
Thanks! Smile

Delilah7 · 11/11/2018 10:18

Morning ladies.
I'm starting to panic. I read that these apps go off 28 day regular cycle which I was before mc. However the 2 cycles before getting pregnant again I was 33 days. I'm scared I'm actually only going to be 5 weeks and a few days pregnant at my scan when I thought I'd be 6 weeks and a few days 😭

Frazzlerock · 11/11/2018 10:21

Morning everyone,

Wow, even more new recruits. Congratulations. There is a Googledoc you can add yourself to if you wish to (on the first page if I remember correctly)

Right, now it is time to catch up....

@Beckanne90 great news that sickness has started - it is reassuring isn't i.

@StargazyDrifter I agree with catching up with friends, it is so hard to stay awake without the aid of caffeine or alcohol. Re boob increase, I think that is very exaggerated - mine only grew slightly in all of my pregnancies. With the two children I had successfully they never ever got that big (but are pretty small anyway)

@pancakes22 I have felt this too but obviously it is our mad digestive systems going bonkers with all these extra hormones. I actually had a constant flick flick flick feeling inside the other day which, if I was a lot further on, I would have assumed was the baby but I think it was a nerve really deep inside me.

@FocusBear I felt the same about imagining this pregnancy, even with the most subtle symptoms it is still hard to believe it until you see it on the screen at your first scan. That is when it really sinks in!

@BellaNutella88 I'm not sure about self referring as the GP refers us here but I am seeing the midwife for the first time on Tuesday when I'll be (now revised) 6+6. Re exercise, uugghh I am so nervous about it, only because I kept on running and going to the gym when my MMC so I (very irrationally) blame that for our loss along with so many other things that would have had no bearing at all. This time around I am terrified to move. I feel like a walking time bomb and DP won't let me do anything either (which I am kind of taking advantage of!). Don't listen to me though, like I say, I'm a completely irrational nervous wreck!

@Laburna I cannot fit in my jeans either, I have resorted to a bump band from Jojomaman or leggings. My tummy is huge, especially as the day progresses. However, now I am less pregnant than I thought I was I'm kind of Hmm. I'm with you on the needing snacks, I keep waking really early feeling a mixture of nauseous and hunger and having to eat breakfast really early - normally I wouldn't eat until 9ish, later at the weekends.

@TheScaredyKat My boobs have been aching on and off. When they ache I am confident all is okay, then the next day it stops and I'm freaking out. Seems to be a bit of a theme for me. I think our hormones fluctuate so some days we don't feel pregnant at all and other days we have ALL the symptoms.

@Toria73 I think brown spotting is okay as it's old?

I can safely say I am feeling a lot better about things today. I'm thinking about telling the DC tonight when they come back from their father's house. I'm not sure how much longer I am keep it from them, I'm bound to slip up at some point soon and I don't want them to find out that way. Plus I need them to know that they can't cause me any stress and why.

This week we have so much going on. We've got a gig on Weds night which is standing! I'm not sure how I'll cope with that. It's been booked for ages and its at the Royal Albert Hall so that in itself is pretty special. But no drinking and no sitting.... Then DP are going to the Shiiine On Weekender next weekend (90's indie music weekend) where I would normally get totally wrecked and go mad. Plus it is a 5 hour drive! Should be interesting to see how that works out! I've been wanting to go for years and DP bought us tickets for xmas last year and it has cost hi a lot of money! I have been so excited to go so I don't want to miss it and there are some awesome bands playing, but aarrgghhh....

Happy Sunday everyone!

Frazzlerock · 11/11/2018 10:23

@Delilah7 this is what happened to me yesterday. LMP is not accurate. Stick with what you know for now and then at your first scan they will alter your dates more accurately if they can see your little one. They might suggest you get re-scanned when baby has grown a bit. It's still worth going.

Delilah7 · 11/11/2018 10:24

@Frazzlerock I'm now ridiculously scared. 😭

Frazzlerock · 11/11/2018 10:31

@Delilah what scares you about your dates being slightly out? For me, I had built myself up too much in expecting to see a heartbeat and had convinced myself I was actually further along rather than behind, that's why I had a freak out afterwards. But now I have relaxed and got used to the fact I'm a few days behind. Fro what others have said here dates change all the time - I don't think you can truly know until your 12 week scan which is the official 'dating' scan. Just go in with an open mind (rather than what I did!). Expect to see nothing much at all, then anything else will be a pleasant surprise.

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Delilah7 · 11/11/2018 10:44

@Frazzlerock I guess I've just worked it from my last period and expect it to be 6 weeks and 2 days when I scan. It scares me about being behind because of miscarrying before. Seeing a heartbeat doesn't as I know I probably won't.... x

Rose68 · 11/11/2018 10:55

@Toria73 I have had brown spotting from last Sunday morning until Friday evening. Hence my early scan on Friday. It seems to have stopped now. If you had IVF won’t your clinic check that you are okay?

@Frazzlerock Well done for being so positive, I am trying to be....

@Delilah7 It sounds like there is a good reason why your dates could be out, so if they do put you back a bit, that seems okay to me. For me, I am 100% sure when I ovulated and I know I will be clutching at straws if I try to convince myself of anything else.

Delilah7 · 11/11/2018 10:57

@Rose68 just half want the scan over and done with now. Gonna be scared to hear ' your a week behind'.... get bloods back tomorrow though x

Frazzlerock · 11/11/2018 11:03

@Rose68 I know when I ovulated too but now I know that doesn't matter and you can conceive a few days later which is why I'm now 4 days behind.
I had no idea this was possible before!

StargazyDrifter · 11/11/2018 11:03

Morning lovely mummies-to-be and also welcome to the new recruits.

I was particularly impressed to read about the sober dancing! Hangovers are a good excuse. We've also been saying we're doing 'dry November' as a pre-Christmas detox. Worked so far. It'll have to be hangovers in December.

I had a terrbible night's sleep, still trying to work out why - restless legs and arms, tossing and turning, itchy all over, chest too sore to sleep on the front. DH described it as 'incredible acrobatics' when we got up. 😂 We ate out with friends yesterday and I wondered if the food might have had MSG in it. Or maybe it was the three sugary non-alcoholic cocktails - ugh why do they load them up with sugar! Feeling tired and grumpy this morning.

Also feeling bloated. Had mac and cheese for dinner, wasn't feeling sick for a change and finished the full portion - a first in three weeks or so. Massive bloat as a result today and all sorts of internal bowel contortions.

I might take myself off for a blustery sunny walk. Happy Sunday everyone!

Frazzlerock · 11/11/2018 11:07

Don't be scared @Delilah7 just go along expecting that to be the case and then get scanned again if baby is too diddy right now.
At 6+3 yesterday they saw the baby as a little white line and a nice juicy yolk sac.
If they don't see anything then it is simply too soon. You've got the positive tests and your bloods but I understand you just want to see something tangible on the screen to put your mind at rest. Please just go in expecting not to see much at all, don't go in like I did expecting more x