Due February 2019 part 2

[maxiflump1]

New thread for those ladies due in February 2019. As there is so many of us though we could do with a roll call. If I start hopefully the next can cut and paste and we can have a list of everyone!

Maxiflump1. Age 37. DC#2 (DS is 3) EDD 07/02/19

@Babybeany thank goodness you've said that as I'm worrying about lack of symptoms too! Also had mmc before DD but given my history with my late loss with my son the hospital let me have scans any time I ask so going to have a scan in the next couple of weeks I think!

notasgreenasacabbage I’m still spotting. I’ve managed to get an appointment at my local early pregnancy clinic for next week. They are worried that it has persisted
I’ve already just had a miscarriage.
Could you get a scan? To let you know either way?

Good move @emoji 😊 My gp has told me that he can’t book me in for an early reassurance scan because the nhs doesn’t provide that service. Instead he has told me to call the doctors when I’m around 7-8 weeks and lie saying I am spotting... I’m not sure how happy I am to lie about it all, seems like tempting fate 😕 I can’t really afford to pay for a private early scan either, so I’m on the fence a bit... do I lie? Or sit it out and wait? I’m just so nervous that we will get to 12 weeks and find we have mmc’d again...

I rang my EPU yesterday morning, I’m 5+4 today, they won’t scan before 6 weeks as there’d be nothing conclusive to see, and harsh as it sounds, there’s absolutely nothing that can be done anyway ☹️

I’m 37, would be 38 at my due date. I’ve got two kids but this is my 6th pregnancy, I’ve had three MMCs and a vanishing twin so (again, sounds callous) I’m getting used to the losses.
I’m just very conscious I’m running out of time, and my children are from a previous relationship. My boyfriend would be an amazing dad.. I feel like I’m letting him down every time I lose one.

I have my booking in appointment on Monday, and my first scan is booked for Friday the following week when I’ll be 7+5. I had an early reassurance scan last pregnancy though.. saw a strong heartbeat etc. Only to discover I’d lost it at the next scan.. so I’m not sure how much better I’d feel tbh.

@NotAsGreenAsCabbageLooking Not too long to wait then... this time next week you should be able to have the all important scan. Fx for you and your partner that this is a sticky bean. In the mean time we are all here for support if you need it x

Only just read your 2nd post... Fx for your scan lovely x

Thank you, I’m hoping for the best but I can’t help but feel negative about it all..

Fingers crossed 🤞

@notasgreenascabbagelooking think it was a combo of very strong symptoms on a continuous basis early on as she said 8-9 weeks whereas I have it around 7 at best. My nausea doesn't go, extreme tiredness, constant light headedness and very low blood pressure apparently more like 8-9 week symptoms unless its twin I've had the symptoms for over 2 weeks. That with combined with coming off implant and unknown if multiple egg releases as infrequent periods which can happen if your not regular apparently.
It could also not be twins and I'm just suffering lots! 😐

Hi finally figured it out !
I'm 38 this will hopefully be DC6
EDD 23rd Feb

Keeping everything crossed for you @NotAsGreenAsCabbageLooking 💐

Hi @emoji 👋 has the small age gap sunk in yet?! I keep having moments of we'll be fine and then others if we're crazy! I told my best friend yesterday and she was so shocked she just looked at me with an open mouth before she managed congratulations! Haha!!

@Seafoodeatit We'll have a 17m gap too! You'll def have to share tips as you've already got one small gap!

Glad to hear the positive early scan news from everyone today 😍

Keeping everything crossed for you @NotAsGreenAsCabbageLooking

@1moreplease is this your 6th child?! Wow upmost respect to you: I panicking about two! What's your age gaps.

@NotAsGreenAsCabbageLooking sorry to hear you are still having issues. Fingers crossed for you until you can have that scan xx

@maxiflump1 yes it is they are 18 , 16 , 13, 11 & 2 we had a loss at 10weeks in February which was a blighted ovum so I've just booked a scan for 7 weeks .

I posted on the last thread too!

I’m 30, have DS who’ll be 2.5 on Tuesday. I’m 4+2, EDD 26/2/19 (although my cycles are 27 days so think it’s more like 25/2/19).

Already feels like time is dragging, and it’s actyally been going so quick up until I found out! It’s

Hello ladies waves

Jumping over from the other thread.

I’m 30, EDD 2nd Feb though could be a little later, not completely sure.

We have our booking in appointment tomorrow with the midwife then follow up early scan on Saturday. Desperately hoping to see a HB as it’ll be 7-8 weeks.

Still not getting loads of symptoms either - seems like there’s a few of us 🤷🏻‍♀️. I just assumed with pregnancy comes morning sickness, that’s what everyone talks about! I had one day when I felt rotten the other day but otherwise it’s been manageable so far. Makes me so nervous 🙄

Forgot to say this is my first pregnancy so it’s all completely new to me!

@MamaSarai your right the more I read back the more of us are saying we haven't got many symptoms ! I guess that's a good thing ( I hope) if we're all saying we haven't got many!
I agree it makes me so so nervous too but we've got to believe in our babies and bodies to give us our rainbows xx

@Alicejj8x completely! My boyfriend said earlier that he hopes this is it for us and that it won’t go wrong again... I confidently told him that this is the one for us (Nervous as shit underneath it all!)! The more we believe in ourselves and our little sesame seeds the better it is for us. Let’s get some positive energy 😊 We are just the lucky ones without any sickness!
@MamaSarai it’s good to see you again! And while we don’t feel like crap, we can make sure we are fuelling our bodies with all the right food for our little beans! X

Hi everyone! I'm new here, straight from the infertility threads! I'm 4+4 today and had my bfp on 18th June following my first cycle of mild IVF. My DH and I have been trying to conceive DC2 for 5.5 YEARS. We've spent that time struggling with secondary infertility, which has truly been the most difficult and cruel struggle I've ever faced. I'm feeling quite calm atm, painfully aware that it's still v early days but determined not to worry. DC will be 9 in a week or so time. I turned 37 last month.

Welcome and congratulations @IvoryCloud sounds like you’ve had a long 5 years! Xx

@Alicejj8x Yep, absolutely - positive mental attitude!

@Babybeany you too! waves hope you're doing ok

@IvoryCloud welcome and congrats. Sending you lots of positive and sticky vibes

Thanks @Babybeany and @MamaSarai. It has been a bloody stressful upsetting long wait!

Marking my place in new thread. I’m 6 weeks tomorrow which after all my mc feels like a milestone. I am 33 with one Dd.

Morning mummies! How is everyone sleeping? I am going to bed relatively early but waking up at least twice in the night and it takes me a while to go back to sleep... x