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June 2018 #3

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ClareB83 · 30/11/2017 00:04

Just restarting the thread as we're close to 1000 posts

June 2018 babies #2 www.mumsnet.com/Talk/antenatal_clubs/3059704-June-2018-babies-2

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Cookie1831 · 22/01/2018 19:42

Ha ha thanks clare x

Heregoeseverything · 22/01/2018 20:06

@Cookie1831 Ha!! Of course they're not. I have had experiences similar to @ElizabethLemon in terms of having severe episodic symptoms that 5 GPs in a row didn't take seriously until it all came to a head and I ended up in an ambulance... but several of my best friends are doctors and they are certainly good eggs, the very best! And they've explained that there is a problem in that GPs don't generally know whether the patient in front of them is one of the (majority, apparently?) patients who talk up their symptoms or not (and limited funds and time on the NHS etc etc). I am related to a hypochondriac and if the GP took her seriously every time she went in, she would be in ICU on a rolling basis...! But it's frustrating when you just know that something is very wrong but they think you must be exaggerating.

The dismissal of pregnant women seems to be an additional element to this though, ie it seems to be more common for pregnant women to be patted on the head and told to relax than the average patient. It's like the woman isn't having a child, she's becoming one Hmm

My mother was also a young mum and was constantly patronised. Her obstetrician refused to tell her the gender as he didn't believe in women finding out before birth. When she attended at the hospital and told them she thought she was in labour, they told her she wasn't as she would be sure about it if she was. They left her in a waiting room for over an hour (the hospital wasn't even busy). When she didn't leave they eventually checked her and realised that she was in fact 7cm dilated... I was born 2 hours later!

ElizabethLemon · 22/01/2018 20:21

@Cookie1831 of course! I did mean to add at the end of my post that I’ve had some amazing people look after me and I’m forever grateful for the the nhs. I wouldn’t be here without it! The doctors and midwives I’ve seen so far in this pregnancy have been great, really supportive and informative.

Cookie1831 · 22/01/2018 21:09

Grin to be fair my midwife is amazing but it doesn’t stop me hating the one that told me to “just drink your water” when I asked for gas and air with my first as she didn’t think I was in labour, I was 6cm!!!

PrimeraVez · 23/01/2018 08:15

Hi ladies, just sticking my head in again to say hi. I'm 20w next Sunday and have my anomaly scan on the same day. We are then flying to South Africa for a wedding a few days after which I am looking forward to (although a 9 hour flight with toddler DS is sure to be an experience)

My morning sickness (well, nausea and dizziness, not much actual vomming) finally went away when I was around 15/16 weeks but it seems to have made a bit of a reappearance this week. Has anyone else had it come back?

thepatchworkcat · 23/01/2018 11:45

Hi Primera - I’m 20 weeks too and still having the odd sicky moment when hungry and/or tired. I’m still sticking to quite a limited range of foods too (but lots of it!). Occasionally actually being sick, maybe once a week at the moment. Tends to be if I’ve over exerted myself or sometimes when I’m brushing my teeth!

Northernbeachbum · 23/01/2018 12:59

Scan today and I caved, we're having a boy Grin

ClareB83 · 23/01/2018 13:01

Congrats @Northernbeachbum and welcome to the boy club xx

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Northernbeachbum · 23/01/2018 13:03

Thanks @clareb83, I was SO sure it was a girl!!

Cookie1831 · 23/01/2018 13:25

Ah congrats northern so pleased all went well x

Cookie1831 · 23/01/2018 13:26

Ah primera I have no experience to share as not been sick but hope you feel better x

RockinRobinTweets · 23/01/2018 13:28

Congrats Northern boys rule!

ElizabethLemon · 23/01/2018 13:31

@Northernbeachbum congratulations!

Mummyloves09 · 23/01/2018 14:15

@Northernbeachbum congratulations, glad your scan went well Smile .

This is so exciting, all these 20 week scans. I'm wishing the week away.

Northernbeachbum · 23/01/2018 14:26

Thanks All, I was so surprised, I was hoping for a boy but I was so sure it's a girl we have no names lined up, time to start thinking Blush

Alice0606 · 23/01/2018 15:17

Congrats @northernbeachbum
I thought I wanted a girl, but have already come round to having a boy! There are definitely lots of boys on this thread!

Has anyone decided on a name yet? We keep being asked, it’s most people’s first question when they hear it’s a boy. We’ve got a shortlist (currently 13 names) and are going to give it a few weeks and see if we change our minds on any of them, then try to whittle it down a bit.

Just wondered what everyone else was doing!

ClareB83 · 23/01/2018 15:44

Yes people keep asking us too and we just say we have a long list but haven't decided. Even when we do decide we're not going to tell anyone until they're born. I don't want people trying to talk us out of names we like.

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Cookie1831 · 23/01/2018 15:51

We too are keeping our names quiet mainly because I know my family won’t like the boy’s one we have picked!! The girl name has been the same all along though but I do feel like it is another boy! Phone call with my mother today
“How is the bump?”
“Big!! I am huge!”
“It must be a girl then”
“It doesn’t matter what it is”
“Yeah but you must want a girl”
Angryarggghhhhgg

Heregoeseverything · 23/01/2018 16:06

ARGH @Cookie! That's one reason I found out gender, to shut that nonsense down! SO annoying!

We have come up with a name after negotiations. No way am I telling anyone until she is born, that would be a recipe for disaster...!

Congratulations @Northern !

Shutupanddance1 · 23/01/2018 17:14

We had our first DD name for weeks but we didn’t tell anyone for same reason as @ClareB83, I wasn’t interested in people’s opinions.

We still aren’t 100% that we are having a girl, can’t wait for this next week to fly by for our next scan to double check! At least then I can concentrate on names 😂

Alice0606 · 23/01/2018 19:18

We haven’t shared our shortlist for much the same reasons. Everyone will have an opinion, they’ll all be different, and there’s always the risk that someone will take offence if you ignore their opinion!

Our taste in names is fairly traditional, so there isn’t anything hugely controversial on the list anyway.

We’ll decide and announce it after he’s born. 😀

Northernbeachbum · 23/01/2018 20:09

We had a few sorted for girls but have spent the afternoon sending boys names to each other. Weirdly for girls we have similar tastes but for boys they're totally different!!

Intelinside · 23/01/2018 21:20

I had my 20 week scan today! Having a girl, and 3 names on the shortlist. Beatrice (Bea), Evelyn (Evie) or Eleanor (Ellie).

Baby only measuring on the 12th percentile and I need another scan as baby was not in a good spot for all the checks they needed to do.

Exciting!

Alice0606 · 23/01/2018 21:40

How exciting @intelinside

Are you going to choose the name before she’s born, or wait until you meet her?

I’m secretly hoping they’ll want to repeat our scan so we can see our boy again, still waiting for the letter though.

Intelinside · 23/01/2018 21:43

I think we may have to as like them all at the minute but one may feel more right when we meet her.

We may get a bit more info about the size too then if she has a growth spurt! 😁

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